![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 2-03-2008 02:48 PM (17 years ago)  (f) of course you gotta work hard to get what u want..but some places are just set up differently to make things easier for ppl..there are ppl in naija living better than some of the ppl here, but you get more opportunity abroad than in naija..i mean i've heard ppl complain about finishing school and not able to find jobs..here jobs are offered to you before you even finish school..and plus you'll get the opportunity to further your education for free too..you just gotta be smart when it comes to what you want..education is the best policy, and you go where its best for you..not just for while you're in school..but also after wards...through my years of going to school..I didn't have to pay nothing for my education..i received scholarships and continued on cause i knew what i wanted, and now that i'm going back for my phd and my job is going to be funding that as well... so basically i think you need to be where you'll get a better opportunity..even if u believe you can in naija then so be it..but yes..you have to work really hard to get what u want in life.... | Posted: at 2-03-2008 02:48 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 2-03-2008 02:52 PM (17 years ago) (f) where ever u r the grass is always greener on the other side
i like Corn corbs pastures....and they are yellow in colour..... 
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 2-03-2008 02:54 PM (17 years ago) (f) well said myra..well said... | Posted: at 2-03-2008 02:54 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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the challenge with d Nigerian Nation is not resources, be it natural, human, physical and all that, but LEADERSHIP!  BUT d good news is that, U and I can make a difference, for it is only when d night is darkest, that d dimmest light is appreciated! Thus, instead of "cutting out" or "bailing out" as some have pointed out, let us(d youths and young@heart) begin 2 look 4 ways 2 make a difference in our beloved Naija! Begin by telling urself "I CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE!" then look inwards 2 discover what u can actually do 2 actualise what u really want 2 do. U CAN!  ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS: MAN IS NOT A PRODOCT OF HIS ENVIRONMENT, BUT OF HIS INNER CONVICTIONS! | Posted: at 3-03-2008 06:33 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie | |
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I've been in the US for about 6 years studying and I have to tell you life isn't always greener on the other side. I have never had to work so hard. I have cleaned homes for people, washed dishes for people - things I never had to do back home... at one time, I had 4 jobs as well as my classes. Life can be hard here as well unless you've got cash. Which I suppose is true everywhere. Maybe I'm just complaining, but I'm glad that I get to go home next year. I think America is wonderful, but it sucks if you no get paper! | Posted: at 3-03-2008 09:17 AM (17 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 3-03-2008 10:39 AM (17 years ago) (f) I've been in the US for about 6 years studying and I have to tell you life isn't always greener on the other side. I have never had to work so hard. I have cleaned homes for people, washed dishes for people - things I never had to do back home... at one time, I had 4 jobs as well as my classes. Life can be hard here as well unless you've got cash. Which I suppose is true everywhere. Maybe I'm just complaining, but I'm glad that I get to go home next year. I think America is wonderful, but it sucks if you no get paper!
hhmmmm....interesting to hear.....i think u really have gone thru life a lot....but i guess nigerians are born to work hard and they know the meaning of life unlike those whites there who were brought up so lavishly...if anything happens to them in future,they won't know how to survive like us.... actually,america is still ok to live in without papers....coz the government is not that harsh on u and they still give u human rights...there are other countries out there who treat illegal immigrants like animals....
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![-]( "ukoma") ukoma at 3-03-2008 07:38 PM (17 years ago) (m) there are many Nigerians here in Malaysia who would wait at the bus stops to beg for tickets to get into a bus.....they dont mind waiting for hours just to see a black man.....instead of being in such a situation,I suggest you better stay back in nigeria and enjoy your mother's food....its better than begging abroad.
Ukoma defines Simplicity Nurtured By Humility. | Posted: at 3-03-2008 07:38 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 3-03-2008 09:05 PM (17 years ago) (f) yeah that is true too.....as long as u have something doing,and money is flowing,i guess its ok...
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 4-03-2008 04:33 AM (17 years ago) (f) yes thats very true. | Posted: at 4-03-2008 04:33 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 4-03-2008 11:27 AM (17 years ago) (f) Why are all Nigerian looking for every opportunity to leave???Opportunities came.....we did not look for it....
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![-]( "orilanda") orilanda at 5-03-2008 04:37 AM (17 years ago) (m) I've been in the US for about 6 years studying and I have to tell you life isn't always greener on the other side. I have never had to work so hard. I have cleaned homes for people, washed dishes for people - things I never had to do back home... at one time, I had 4 jobs as well as my classes. Life can be hard here as well unless you've got cash. Which I suppose is true everywhere. Maybe I'm just complaining, but I'm glad that I get to go home next year. I think America is wonderful, but it sucks if you no get paper!
no one said it was actually greener i'm saying the is wht people think
CHUKS ~step into my world....oops u can't handle it. | Posted: at 5-03-2008 04:37 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 5-03-2008 12:54 PM (17 years ago) (f) only the grass is green.....but it could be artificial plants ooo....
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![-]( "ukoma") ukoma at 5-03-2008 04:51 PM (17 years ago) (m) Why are all Nigerian looking for every opportunity to leave???
Opportunities came.....we did not look for it....
I never saw any....sure you are not talking of the British colonising our grand parents...that was something else oh.....
Ukoma defines Simplicity Nurtured By Humility. | Posted: at 5-03-2008 04:51 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 5-03-2008 08:20 PM (17 years ago) (f)
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![-]( "eanchaver") eanchaver at 5-03-2008 11:04 PM (17 years ago) (m) first off! not every one is looking for a way outta naija! secondly, where are you? you sound like your not in naija! go back and see if you can make a difference before you can condemn us for not being patriotic. Thirdly after all the shit naija has put me through my blood still flows green! Its not like Nigerians are unpatriotic we are just so sick of being run down! dont get me wrong i dont think running away is goin to fix the problem! but dont worry! i feel that the nigerians who have left will return and lead the revolution for change. | Posted: at 5-03-2008 11:04 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 6-03-2008 08:02 AM (17 years ago) (f) Reply |
[/quote] no one said it was actually greener i'm saying the is wht people think [/quote] I know you didn't mean that life was easier here, but I was just relating my experience, so that those who argue that it is get to understand that it may not be. | Posted: at 6-03-2008 09:00 AM (17 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 6-03-2008 10:50 AM (17 years ago) (f) I've been in the US for about 6 years studying and I have to tell you life isn't always greener on the other side. I have never had to work so hard. I have cleaned homes for people, washed dishes for people - things I never had to do back home... at one time, I had 4 jobs as well as my classes. Life can be hard here as well unless you've got cash. Which I suppose is true everywhere. Maybe I'm just complaining, but I'm glad that I get to go home next year. I think America is wonderful, but it sucks if you no get paper!
WOW!  | Posted: at 6-03-2008 10:50 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 6-03-2008 10:51 AM (17 years ago) (f) Why are all Nigerian looking for every opportunity to leave???
Opportunities came.....we did not look for it....
I don't even remember making that decision  | Posted: at 6-03-2008 10:51 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 6-03-2008 12:42 PM (17 years ago) (f)
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