Is There A Thin Line Between These Two?............ (Page 8)

With home i mean Naija sweetie, she is suppose to b there now...my hubby don talk to her
so many times to stop workin but she refuse....na only she dey dia, somtimes big bros from Thailand dey visit her
so it wud b betta for her to go home....

Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:08 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hot is the new cool 

Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

How will you see that? it takes allot to view things from the other angle. I didn't mention clues but you should have think or know that 49years is not 49hrs or days or weeks.  tell yourself truth how many marriage nowadays last even a year without problem coming out from one place or another?

Do you think been submissive makes a woman the weaker one  or Oh yes member in any form of relationship or family ?  just like people think here.... I've been reading comments here and the other post, regarding submissive, i can't stop laughing, where everyone is heading to and the way people think. Lack of this is simple quality is one of the major factor that is affecting many relationship and marriage nowadays.

Let me explain to you what i feel submissive is in a relationship. A woman with such quality is actually the one who controls that family, Woman of virtue, No man with such woman will ever do anything without taking her opinion and directive words, because the man knows the qualities she posses, she is the one who will calm any situation that occurs to be high down in a family because she knows how to approach it calmly .. I'm talking from experience, what i learnt . Such woman will impact allot of qualities into the life of people's around her not just her own family or man, because is her character, she can't stop been down to earth wherever she may be.

Answering Yes my Lord doesn't make the woman week, but stronger because at the end of the whole thing, Her word of wisdom will be applied. such person is the Boss not the man claiming to be the head in appearance but the actual head is woman who knows how to control every situation as it comes.

Anybody can come up here and debate on this... is not a problem, but we all should take a good look at what is happening around us daily !

Also don't forget that most Men out there doesn't even know what it takes to be a father, what if the woman herself doesn't even have any good head on her shoulder... what will be the outcome of the kids ? who will be the captain of the ship ? But if the woman possess all the quality... believe me that house is under control 100% . The Major Key and Power of every family is in the hands of the woman !! You can as well doubt me that, is not a problem. Until this generation start treating wrong things to make it look better, thats when things will have a change.. if not.... we're all doomed !!

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Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Thank u dear  

Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:26 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Crossing sharpaly>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

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Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

why u commot that fine boy picture? or u don return him to d real owner?

Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 17-03-2011 10:02 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

one can be stubborn n be submissive,all na d way u take handle d issues.

Posted: at 17-03-2011 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

That someone is stuborn does not mean he/she cant see thing the way others do but its just that he/she hold very firm on things he is convinced.........................and when he is convinced he becomes submissive 

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Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:13 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Being stuborn does not mean beeing a dictator ................its only dictators that dont believe others could be right .

I think stuborness is just accepting only those things you have conviction in 

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Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:20 AM (14 years ago) | Hero