Is There A Thin Line Between These Two?............ (Page 10)

Date: 16-03-2011 11:52 am (14 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- onyiis at 17-03-2011 12:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 17-03-2011 12:10 PM
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@ DK but do you accept things that you are conviced of ?


Once you accept things you are convinced of.. it doesn't show that the person is stubborn, Stubborn person can never accept your view or advices on anything, There's nothing you will do to convince such person !! that person always stood his/her ground.

I don't know the kind of stubborn your all are referring here but what i know is the two can not work together.  like i mentioned before, been submissive doesn't make someone a moron or push over... no, there's a way they approach every matter.


Well the type of stubborness i know off and am talking of it those i know that are not easyly convinced or dont change their minds easily on issues but not those that cant see things like the other person ......................

i can be stubborn on issues based on my principles and what i think is right  but if u are able to make me see that topic based on your point of veiw ....i summit

Beeing stubborn is not beeing easily tossed abaut , having a will and beeing able to express it

Those that dont believe the other person could be right are egoistic and not just stubborn

Posted: at 17-03-2011 12:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 17-03-2011 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 12:22 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 17-03-2011 12:10 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 12:04 PM
@ DK but do you accept things that you are conviced of ?


Once you accept things you are convinced of.. it doesn't show that the person is stubborn, Stubborn person can never accept your view or advices on anything, There's nothing you will do to convince such person !! that person always stood his/her ground.

I don't know the kind of stubborn your all are referring here but what i know is the two can not work together.  like i mentioned before, been submissive doesn't make someone a moron or push over... no, there's a way they approach every matter.


Well the type of stubborness i know off and am talking of it those i know that are not easyly convinced or dont change their minds easily on issues but not those that cant see things like the other person ......................

i can be stubborn on issues based on my principles and what i think is right  but if u are able to make me see that topic based on your point of veiw ....i summit

Beeing stubborn is not beeing easily tossed abaut , having a will and beeing able to express it

Those that dont believe the other person could be right are egoistic and not just stubborn
is there any other definition of stubbornness  Huh? i mean, do we have two definition of stubbornness  Huh?
Posted: at 17-03-2011 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 17-03-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago)
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what diffinition do u have ?

Posted: at 17-03-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 17-03-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago)
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people have their diff definitions but all arive at same tin

Posted: at 17-03-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sobeit at 17-03-2011 12:35 PM (14 years ago)
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i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.
Posted: at 17-03-2011 12:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 17-03-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:35 PM
i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ? Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 17-03-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 17-03-2011 12:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 12:42 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:35 PM
i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ? Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..that one is a different issue entirely,it get nothing to do with stubbornness..you are doing what know is right.don't even expect a dummy to put his hand in fire.when they say someone is stubborn,we are talking of someone that's "heart hearted",not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!
Posted: at 17-03-2011 12:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 17-03-2011 01:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:55 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 12:42 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:35 PM
i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ? Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..that one is a different issue entirely,it get nothing to do with stubbornness..you are doing what know is right.don't even expect a dummy to put his hand in fire.when they say someone is stubborn,we are talking of someone that's "heart hearted",not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!


Thank u bro !! No mind them, thinking if they argue little thing with friends out there they think in their head that they are stubborn... Typical example of stubborn is Mr Moammar Gadhafi !! Even when he knows he's wrong with his decisions, he stood his ground and keep doing what he wants, You can't discuss with him because he's not ready to listen to anyone.

Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 17-03-2011 01:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 17-03-2011 01:05 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:55 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 12:42 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:35 PM
i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ? Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..that one is a different issue entirely,it get nothing to do with stubbornness..you are doing what know is right.don't even expect a dummy to put his hand in fire.when they say someone is stubborn,we are talking of someone that's "heart hearted",not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!


Thank u bro !! No mind them, thinking if they argue little thing with friends out there they think in their head that they are stubborn... Typical example of stubborn is Mr Moammar Gadhafi !! Even when he knows he's wrong with his decisions, he stood his ground and keep doing what he wants, You can't discuss with him because he's not ready to listen to anyone.
you are absolutely correct with the words in red..if an outside look into their argument you will find out is just a mare  misunderstanding or words taking out off context..and you spoke my mind cuz i thought of Gadhafi as well.
Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 17-03-2011 01:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 11:20 AM
Quote from: stanbutto on 16-03-2011 12:41 PM
once you are stubborn, it will be very hard to be submissive to anything, except is done ur way.


Being stuborn does not mean beeing a dictator ................its only dictators that dont believe others could be right .

I think stuborness is just accepting only those things you have conviction in  Grin

I dey feel you

Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 17-03-2011 01:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:55 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 12:42 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:35 PM
i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ? Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..that one is a different issue entirely,it get nothing to do with stubbornness..you are doing what know is right.don't even expect a dummy to put his hand in fire.when they say someone is stubborn,we are talking of someone that's "heart hearted",not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!

being stuborn doesnt make u not to ur faults...

Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- estilizo at 17-03-2011 01:34 PM (14 years ago)
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i just dey read comments

Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 17-03-2011 01:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Ok

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- estilizo at 17-03-2011 01:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-03-2011 01:33 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:55 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 17-03-2011 12:42 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 12:35 PM
i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ? Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol..that one is a different issue entirely,it get nothing to do with stubbornness..you are doing what know is right.don't even expect a dummy to put his hand in fire.when they say someone is stubborn,we are talking of someone that's "heart hearted",not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!

being stuborn doesnt make u not to ur faults...
sophiebabay yu dey sleep?

Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 17-03-2011 01:47 PM (14 years ago)
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i mean being sturborn does not make you not to know your faults or where u went wrong
e.g if i am wrong i know and say sorry
but if my spouse is wrong he doesnt xpect me to say the sorry na when he's at fault..
or u xpect me to say sorry just to prove say i submit wella?

Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- djosh4cesc at 17-03-2011 01:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive
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- djosh4cesc at 17-03-2011 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive
Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sobeit at 17-03-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-03-2011 01:47 PM
i mean being sturborn does not make you not to know your faults or where u went wrong
e.g if i am wrong i know and say sorry
but if my spouse is wrong he doesnt xpect me to say the sorry na when he's at fault..
or u xpect me to say sorry just to prove say i submit wella?
if this!!is your thought about being stubborn,then sincerely you are not stubborn..you can't say to somebody that offended you sorry  Undecided what for Huh? you aren't a slave,he's the one to say sorry to you but if he didn't want to,then you have to brush it off and move on with your marriage..that's what we call being submissive dear.
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- divineproject at 17-03-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Sophie dey sleep, yet she dey write/talk.............. Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

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- sophiebaby at 17-03-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 17-03-2011 01:55 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-03-2011 01:47 PM
i mean being sturborn does not make you not to know your faults or where u went wrong
e.g if i am wrong i know and say sorry
but if my spouse is wrong he doesnt xpect me to say the sorry na when he's at fault..
or u xpect me to say sorry just to prove say i submit wella?
if this!!is your thought about being stubborn,then sincerely you are not stubborn..you can't say to somebody that offended you sorry  Undecided what for Huh? you aren't a slave,he's the one to say sorry to you but if he didn't want to,then you have to brush it off and move on with your marriage..that's what we call being submissive dear.

lol..brushing it up and forging ahead in marriage means u are submissive?

Posted: at 17-03-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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