She is not stubborn, she just knws damn gud wot she want in life! If her husband tells her they will go for plan A and tht seems gud for her she will go for it if plan B sounds better to her, no way she will force it on to him but she will xplain why she think so.... Tht is wht she means wit she can not b submissive, cos then d man wud say 'plan A is it,period'
But for ur question DP, maybe u can b submissive wen u r stubborn but it will kill ur personality and u wudn feel gud abt ursef, cos it is against ur will Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 16-03-2011 12:54 PM (14 years ago) (f) i dont have a say on this.. am sturbon but submissive.. \very sturborn
Then you are not stubborn !! if you are really stubborn, if you can tell little truth what's going inside, Not all is rosy ? am i right ? Let me give you example of submissive !! what it means to me... I recall my Dad told me with tears in his eyes, when i my mum passed away from mother earth.. My dad said, This day, i (him) lost my half, she has been with me for 49yrs, we never had an argue for one day. she was so kind and humble to him. Even when a submissive person passed away, he/she will be remembered always by people around, because what you are doing and how you relate to people are showing. if they know you as stubborn person.. thats what you are, you will never know that your are loosing something from people indirectly !! i am submissive to only whom requires my submissiveness.. and he who will be ready to make me happy. My Np pals.. am very very sturborn....my decisions are my top priority.. not all that people say i take.. i only take the ones i nid from their speech
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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BIKO DP delete this post and re-write it ,abeg  Amended......is that ok now? i thump up for u....very ok now pls inbox me ow u did that Thats the work of admin.......if you have to amend something u have to contact them.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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truenaija2 at 16-03-2011 12:58 PM (14 years ago) (f) @sophies last comment exactly Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Abby at 16-03-2011 01:03 PM (14 years ago) (f) you can not be stubborn and submissive... the two contradiction each other. You can’t eat your cake and have it too. Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:03 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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We dont have to limit the situation to man/woman relationship.........expand the scope to include people's everyday relationship with other people.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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dirtykid at 16-03-2011 01:08 PM (14 years ago) (m) you can not be stubborn and submissive... the two contradiction each other. You can’t eat your cake and have it too.
Thank you my dear. I wonder why people don't see the real fact about things in the right path.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Live and let live! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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watin u dey think Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@Sobeit:Thx for everything! Appreciated!
Live and let live! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Still trying to figure out what happened here!
Live and let live! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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She is not stubborn, she just knws damn gud wot she want in life! If her husband tells her they will go for plan A and tht seems gud for her she will go for it if plan B sounds better to her, no way she will force it on to him but she will xplain why she think so....
Tht is wht she means wit she can not b submissive, cos then d man wud say 'plan A is it,period'
But for ur question DP, maybe u can b submissive wen u r stubborn but it will kill ur personality and u wudn feel gud abt ursef, cos it is against ur will
Thx for understanding it right!
Live and let live! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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sobeit at 16-03-2011 01:12 PM (14 years ago) (m) ONE LAST QUESTION FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN BE STUBBORN AND SUBMISSIVE AT THE SAME TIME. CAN YOU KINDLY DEFINE STUBBORNNESS AND SUBMISSIVE TO ME?...I'M WAITING.. Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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dirtykid at 16-03-2011 01:13 PM (14 years ago) (m) Mis-interpretation of Stubborn and been Submissive is really going on here. it seems most people don't understand what it means to be stubborn. No further comments about this... Just know the two can not be in the same ship, you can't be a lion and a lamb at same time. if you claim to be that.. then know you're some alien.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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sobeit at 16-03-2011 01:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) OOPS I MEANT UN-SUBMISSIVENESS Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sobeit at 16-03-2011 01:15 PM (14 years ago) (m) Mis-interpretation of Stubborn and been Submissive is really going on here.
it seems most people don't understand what it means to be stubborn.
No further comments about this... Just know the two can not be in the same ship, you can't be a lion and a lamb at same time. if you claim to be that.. then know you're some alien.
 ALIEN INDEED..i don't like doing blind argument...so Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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dirtykid at 16-03-2011 01:17 PM (14 years ago) (m) ONE LAST QUESTION FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN BE STUBBORN AND SUBMISSIVE AT THE SAME TIME. CAN YOU KINDLY DEFINE STUBBORNNESS AND SUBMISSIVE TO ME?...I'M WAITING..
Bro !! No mind them. they think if they argue some words with friends out there and seems to dominate by proven loud voice makes them stubborn.... Stubbornness is an act in born, those who have it, never live a life of happiness because they re always bitter people, everything seems wrong for them, because they want people to do things the way they want.. Typical example of Palestine's and Israel issue.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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truenaija2 at 16-03-2011 01:17 PM (14 years ago) (f) @bittersweet where is my own thank you PLS go to the first page and see what i wrote about you Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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the bible says stubbornness is next to the sin of witchcraft obedience is better than sacrifice but BS is a woman tht knows what she wants i dont think she is being stubborn she is a woman with self esteem and she knows what she wants thats how a woman should b but i think she doesnt want to understand or she doesnt understand the meaning of being submissive
Thx,my dear! You got it pretty well!
Live and let live! Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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sobeit at 16-03-2011 01:19 PM (14 years ago) (m) @Sobeit:Thx for everything! Appreciated!
there is nothing to thank for Posted: at 16-03-2011 01:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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