Is There A Thin Line Between These Two?............ (Page 2)

Date: 16-03-2011 11:52 am (14 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- sobeit at 16-03-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago)
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BIKO DP delete this post and re-write it ,abeg  Wink
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 16-03-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 12:12 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 16-03-2011 12:03 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive
have you seen it b4?

of course, there ar people who ar stubborn but still submissive to their husbands even if they are stubborn they still respect and submit
big lie..go and check that home and comeback and tell me your finding...
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 16-03-2011 12:19 PM (14 years ago)
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like my father thinks i am stubborn but time showed that i am just someone that knows what i want that they misunderstood knowin what i want and who i am for bein  stubborn my mother knows i am someone that knows wht i want and my hubby says i have overdose of selfesteem tht u cant reduce my selfesteem no matter who u are my hubby dey hail me very funny Cheesy Cheesy but my dad is convinced now dat i know wht i want in life
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 16-03-2011 12:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive

thank u

Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 16-03-2011 12:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 16-03-2011 12:14 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive


Thats fat lie............... Stubborn flies go down the pit with stubborn shyts. If you are the type that likes to play hard and stubborn to a man, You stand a chance to loose awesome Love and care from him, Not just about your man, but generally to people around you.

A stubborn person can't be submissive, because he/she thinks, he's the best and his/her decisions seems to be the final. is wrong !!
DK i disagree wif u.....a woman can be stubborn that doesnt mean she is not submissive...and i dont see ow stubborness work together wit unsubmissiveness
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 16-03-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 16-03-2011 12:17 PM
BIKO DP delete this post and re-write it ,abeg  Wink

Amended......is that ok now?

Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 16-03-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago)
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havin reasons for your actions, knowing what u r doing not doing it cos every other person is doing it or every body thinks its right doing wht u do cos u know its right, makin ur decision without any intimidation  thats the most important thing in life i will never do anything to please anybody i am answerable to nobody except GOD i have seen cases i start something n everyone was against me but when i succeeded the same people were praising and celebratin me if i failed cos i listened to everybody the same people dat adviced me will mock me
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 16-03-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 16-03-2011 12:23 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 16-03-2011 12:17 PM
BIKO DP delete this post and re-write it ,abeg  Wink

Amended......is that ok now?
yap! better now.
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 16-03-2011 12:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 16-03-2011 12:22 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 16-03-2011 12:14 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive


Thats fat lie............... Stubborn flies go down the pit with stubborn shyts. If you are the type that likes to play hard and stubborn to a man, You stand a chance to loose awesome Love and care from him, Not just about your man, but generally to people around you.

A stubborn person can't be submissive, because he/she thinks, he's the best and his/her decisions seems to be the final. is wrong !!
DK i disagree wif u.....a woman can be stubborn that doesnt mean she is not submissive...and i dont see ow stubborness work together wit unsubmissiveness

What makes you think that ? why would you in first place play the stubborn part to someone you have to be submissive to? do you think is the right thing ? Give me instances and i will give you mine.

If you're stubborn, you stand a chance to loose many important things in life. you may not even know, because you see yourself as been perfect but to people, it means different thing.... beside is a great turn off.

Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- harold634 at 16-03-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago)
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ANOTHER NAME 4 STURBORNESS IS REBELLION. NOT OBEYING SOMEONE ELSE DECISION, PROVING THAT HE OR SHE IS ALWAYS RIGHT. A STURBORN PERSON CAN NOT BE SUBMISSIVE.
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 16-03-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 16-03-2011 12:23 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 16-03-2011 12:17 PM
BIKO DP delete this post and re-write it ,abeg  Wink

Amended......is that ok now?
i thump up for u....very ok now

pls inbox me ow u did that
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 16-03-2011 12:34 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 16-03-2011 12:14 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive


Thats fat lie............... Stubborn flies go down the pit with stubborn shyts. If you are the type that likes to play hard and stubborn to a man, You stand a chance to loose awesome Love and care from him, Not just about your man, but generally to people around you.

A stubborn person can't be submissive, because he/she thinks, he's the best and his/her decisions seems to be the final. is wrong !!

when u say submission who are u submitting to? i still maintain cos i know of smone who is stubborn and still submits to her husband
and talking of being stubborn, there different ways of it. they ar sm stubborn people who dnt listen to wat others say even their parent they do any thing dat cms to their mind  as u said thinking their own decision is d best and d other way round most people are stubborn but in sm extend they let u know they also can be hard and stubborn
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 16-03-2011 12:40 PM (14 years ago)
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i dont have a say on this.. am sturbon but submissive.. \very sturborn

Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:40 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- stanbutto at 16-03-2011 12:41 PM (14 years ago)
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once you are stubborn, it will be very hard to be submissive to anything, except is done ur way.
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:41 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pholake at 16-03-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago)
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My Questions:
what are the actions of the woman which translate into submission?
What are those actions of hers which translate into NOT being submissive?

Now, what do we call the following?

A man marries another woman (due to no fault of the wives but because the man played away match; scored a goal and the goal-keeper decided to keep the scored goal for good), and the wife reacts angrily and decided not to allow it?

A man keeps away his true identity of having children from his wife....after a kid or 2, the wife finds out, after some show of anger, begging and persuasion, she agrees to continue with the husband cos she doesn't want a home break but unfortunately, the husband's family conspired and supported the man in bringing the 2 women to live under the same roof.....the other woman becomes so fetish that it started having spiritual effects on the wife and her kids.....the wife ran to church but was told that the best way to safety is for her to move out........

Pls note, the main wives are not the problem in the above scenarios; they are true life situations and the husbands still want them back.
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 16-03-2011 12:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 16-03-2011 12:28 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 16-03-2011 12:22 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 16-03-2011 12:14 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive


Thats fat lie............... Stubborn flies go down the pit with stubborn shyts. If you are the type that likes to play hard and stubborn to a man, You stand a chance to loose awesome Love and care from him, Not just about your man, but generally to people around you.

A stubborn person can't be submissive, because he/she thinks, he's the best and his/her decisions seems to be the final. is wrong !!
DK i disagree wif u.....a woman can be stubborn that doesnt mean she is not submissive...and i dont see ow stubborness work together wit unsubmissiveness

What makes you think that ? why would you in first place play the stubborn part to someone you have to be submissive to? do you think is the right thing ? Give me instances and i will give you mine.

If you're stubborn, you stand a chance to loose many important things in life. you may not even know, because you see yourself as been perfect but to people, it means different thing.... beside is a great turn off.
wat am trying to say is that stubborness doesnt tally with submissiveness....a woman can be stubborn and still be very submissive
stubborness is wen u dont listen to wat peeps say...u are mrs right....ur own opinion counts and matters...but submissiveness is when u are loyal, u have humility, responsible for somthing, always remember that something is entrusted in your care which u must deliver at a point
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 16-03-2011 12:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 16-03-2011 12:40 PM
i dont have a say on this.. am sturbon but submissive.. \very sturborn
na lie..i don't buy it
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 16-03-2011 12:47 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 16-03-2011 12:40 PM
i dont have a say on this.. am sturbon but submissive.. \very sturborn


Then you are not stubborn !! if you are really stubborn, if you can tell little truth what's going inside, Not all is rosy ? am i right ?

Let me give you example of submissive !! what it means to me... I recall my Dad told me with tears in his eyes, when i my mum passed away from mother earth.. My dad said, This day, i (him) lost my half, she has been with me for 49yrs, we never had an argue for one day. she was so kind and humble to him.

Even when a submissive person passed away, he/she will be remembered always by people around, because what you are doing and how you relate to people are showing. if they know you as stubborn person.. thats what you are, you will never know that your are loosing something from people indirectly !!

Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyimau20 at 16-03-2011 12:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Stubbornness goes with proud, proving difficult. A stubborn child doesnt listen to his/her parents and always makes mistakes. So when one is proving stubborn in a relationship/marriage, there is noway u would submit to ur patner. Stubbornness in a relationship means Unsubmissiveness.
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 16-03-2011 12:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 16-03-2011 12:44 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 16-03-2011 12:28 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 16-03-2011 12:22 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 16-03-2011 12:14 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 16-03-2011 11:55 AM
one can be stubborn but still be submissive


Thats fat lie............... Stubborn flies go down the pit with stubborn shyts. If you are the type that likes to play hard and stubborn to a man, You stand a chance to loose awesome Love and care from him, Not just about your man, but generally to people around you.

A stubborn person can't be submissive, because he/she thinks, he's the best and his/her decisions seems to be the final. is wrong !!
DK i disagree wif u.....a woman can be stubborn that doesnt mean she is not submissive...and i dont see ow stubborness work together wit unsubmissiveness

What makes you think that ? why would you in first place play the stubborn part to someone you have to be submissive to? do you think is the right thing ? Give me instances and i will give you mine.

If you're stubborn, you stand a chance to loose many important things in life. you may not even know, because you see yourself as been perfect but to people, it means different thing.... beside is a great turn off.
wat am trying to say is that stubborness doesnt tally with submissiveness....a woman can be stubborn and still be very submissive
stubborness is wen u dont listen to wat peeps say...u are mrs right....ur own opinion counts and matters...but submissiveness is when u are loyal, u have humility, responsible for somthing, always remember that something is entrusted in your care which u must deliver at a point


gbam
Posted: at 16-03-2011 12:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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