How can you get rid of a stalker? (Page 3)

Date: 06-04-2011 12:49 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- kebella at 6-04-2011 01:54 PM (14 years ago)
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my 1cent i ve not meet a stalker or even a stalkler so i pass Cool

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 6-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 01:45 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  6-04-2011 01:42 PM
I have not been in this situation in the real world, but I have been stalked right here on NP......it was a hard time for me really.......

How did you get rid of him?

I couldnt dislodge him alone, becos when I block him on one profile, he opens another profile....I had to involve the admin when I couldnt handle it.......

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 6-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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if worse comes to worst i will just inform ma man and he will call them and talk to them
if they persist then they are pushing me to get d police involve
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on  6-04-2011 01:51 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 12:49 PM
The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?


oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh Huh? Huh? so why the change of mind?

Huh? Huh?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  6-04-2011 01:54 PM
my 1cent i ve not meet a stalker or even a stalkler so i pass Cool

Lucky you! Smiley
But what if u would have been in such a situation?

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 6-04-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 01:46 PM
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i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital

And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?

i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime

How can u stop all that, in a nice way, and for good?


i dont think it can best stopped ooh , mad people are not supposed to be left loose they should be locked u in psychiatric hospital where there are doctors to manage their illness cos i dont know any cure for madness

Come on!What if u know for sure that it's not a mad person, but just obsessed by u,as DK said?

i am sorry BS but i believe that kind of obsession is madness its hard to believe but it is definitely madness, then if u think the person is not mad but i cant feel save around such person make him your friend s he has yo around him he doesnt loose all

No,he's not insane for sure!
And it's not that u don't feel safe around him,but let's say u were in a relationship before, u call it a quit,
but he doesn't want to let go!?
Friendship is out of question!


i honestly dont know ooo mayb u have to continue the relationship  to save ur own life , cosi am sure those kind of people are dangerous

then u have to pray and fast about it cos only GOD can do the impossible
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  6-04-2011 01:55 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 01:45 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  6-04-2011 01:42 PM
I have not been in this situation in the real world, but I have been stalked right here on NP......it was a hard time for me really.......

How did you get rid of him?

I couldnt dislodge him alone, becos when I block him on one profile, he opens another profile....I had to involve the admin when I couldnt handle it.......

I see

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 6-04-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago)
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this wat they call talk till some happen
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 6-04-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  6-04-2011 01:55 PM
if worse comes to worst i will just inform ma man and he will call them and talk to them
if they persist then they are pushing me to get d police involve

So it can't be solved with involving other ppl in this? Undecided

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 01:57 PM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital

And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?

i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime

How can u stop all that, in a nice way, and for good?


i dont think it can best stopped ooh , mad people are not supposed to be left loose they should be locked u in psychiatric hospital where there are doctors to manage their illness cos i dont know any cure for madness

Come on!What if u know for sure that it's not a mad person, but just obsessed by u,as DK said?

i am sorry BS but i believe that kind of obsession is madness its hard to believe but it is definitely madness, then if u think the person is not mad but i cant feel save around such person make him your friend s he has yo around him he doesnt loose all

No,he's not insane for sure!
And it's not that u don't feel safe around him,but let's say u were in a relationship before, u call it a quit,
but he doesn't want to let go!?
Friendship is out of question!


i honestly dont know ooo mayb u have to continue the relationship  to save ur own life , cosi am sure those kind of people are dangerous

then u have to pray and fast about it cos only GOD can do the impossible

Thx!

Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
this wat they call talk till some happen

Ok

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin

 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 6-04-2011 02:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 01:59 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 01:57 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 01:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 01:37 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 01:32 PM
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 01:05 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital

And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?

i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime

How can u stop all that, in a nice way, and for good?


i dont think it can best stopped ooh , mad people are not supposed to be left loose they should be locked u in psychiatric hospital where there are doctors to manage their illness cos i dont know any cure for madness

Come on!What if u know for sure that it's not a mad person, but just obsessed by u,as DK said?

i am sorry BS but i believe that kind of obsession is madness its hard to believe but it is definitely madness, then if u think the person is not mad but i cant feel save around such person make him your friend s he has yo around him he doesnt loose all

No,he's not insane for sure!
And it's not that u don't feel safe around him,but let's say u were in a relationship before, u call it a quit,
but he doesn't want to let go!?
Friendship is out of question!


i honestly dont know ooo mayb u have to continue the relationship  to save ur own life , cosi am sure those kind of people are dangerous

then u have to pray and fast about it cos only GOD can do the impossible

Thx!

you are welcome  , what can we do we r just humans sometimes we face problems that are bigger than us, like the lords prayer says LORD deliver us from all evil and lead us not into temptation
Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 6-04-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 6-04-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:11 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 01:05 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital

And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?

i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime

IS NEVER A MENTAL PROBLEM, is a kinda obsessed thing in some people, they just can't help themselves but they keep trying and trying, hoping that the person will surely give up and accept them.  

I percially disagree on the above highlighted words in red.to my own understanding its some how the combination of mental disorder and obsession.cuz if the person finally approve his/her request truth me,he/she will keep on making life uncomfortable for the person involve.
Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 6-04-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 02:00 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin

 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided

They're even ready to go anywhere with that person, school, shopping malls, You wakeup he wakeup. he will have time table for all your schedule, unless you nod yes to his proposals  Cheesy Grin Grin, Let me tell you one raw truth but very bad side of such people, if they're not succeeding they will start thinking bad what to do to their victim, Rape, kidnap and so on comes in...

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 02:02 PM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital

And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?

i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime

How can u stop all that, in a nice way, and for good?


i dont think it can best stopped ooh , mad people are not supposed to be left loose they should be locked u in psychiatric hospital where there are doctors to manage their illness cos i dont know any cure for madness

Come on!What if u know for sure that it's not a mad person, but just obsessed by u,as DK said?

i am sorry BS but i believe that kind of obsession is madness its hard to believe but it is definitely madness, then if u think the person is not mad but i cant feel save around such person make him your friend s he has yo around him he doesnt loose all

No,he's not insane for sure!
And it's not that u don't feel safe around him,but let's say u were in a relationship before, u call it a quit,
but he doesn't want to let go!?
Friendship is out of question!


i honestly dont know ooo mayb u have to continue the relationship  to save ur own life , cosi am sure those kind of people are dangerous

then u have to pray and fast about it cos only GOD can do the impossible

Thx!

you are welcome  , what can we do we r just humans sometimes we face problems that are bigger than us, like the lords prayer says LORD deliver us from all evil and lead us not into temptation

Correct, but some ppl can really make things hard on us!
Angry

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 6-04-2011 02:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 02:04 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 02:00 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin

 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided

They're even ready to go anywhere with that person, school, shopping malls, You wakeup he wakeup. he will have time table for all your schedule, unless you nod yes to his proposals  Cheesy Grin Grin, Let me tell you one raw truth but very bad side of such people, if they're not succeeding they will start thinking bad what to do to their victim, Rape, kidnap and so on comes in...

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin cheii wahala dey
Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  6-04-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

Hmmmmmm!
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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