The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh  so why the change of mind?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!yeah! i understand its difference.but my point is that,a stalker out of relationship will still be the same in relationship. meaning if he stalks you to a point you accept his proposal. believe it or not he will keep doing the same thing..in fact stalker is a sickness the only way to avoid such person is to report him/her to the authorities.
It would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Passing and looking around for ma stalker | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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pass
ok
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago)  (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man....
That I was talking about! ma dear i dont really know ow we can handle them ooo cos its like i was born with them | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Passing and looking around for ma stalker
Trust me,u don't want that!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man....
That I was talking about! ma dear i dont really know ow we can handle them ooo cos its like i was born with them 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Passing and looking around for ma stalker
Trust me,u don't want that! she is also a stalker | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 6-04-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago) (f) trust me! when a stalk jam a stalkler d weaker one go bow 
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 6-04-2011 02:28 PM (14 years ago) (m) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Passing and looking around for ma stalker
Trust me,u don't want that! she is also a stalker  
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Smart girl!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 6-04-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) (m) The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!yeah! i understand its difference.but my point is that,a stalker out of relationship will still be the same in relationship. meaning if he stalks you to a point you accept his proposal. believe it or not he will keep doing the same thing..in fact stalker is a sickness the only way to avoid such person is to report him/her to the authorities. I t would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way!i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........
I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ? what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit. Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off. He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close. When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely. He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him. That did the job for me....
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 02:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man....
That I was talking about! ma dear i dont really know ow we can handle them ooo cos its like i was born with them too bad!! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 6-04-2011 02:31 PM (14 years ago) (m) The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!yeah! i understand its difference.but my point is that,a stalker out of relationship will still be the same in relationship. meaning if he stalks you to a point you accept his proposal. believe it or not he will keep doing the same thing..in fact stalker is a sickness the only way to avoid such person is to report him/her to the authorities. I t would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way!i don't search for personal way to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete.
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago) (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. i see | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 6-04-2011 02:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........
I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ? what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit. Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off. He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close. When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely. He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him. That did the job for me.... EZIOKWU!! so you are among the picky women huh? | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Passing and looking around for ma stalker
Trust me,u don't want that! Oh Okay | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!yeah! i understand its difference.but my point is that,a stalker out of relationship will still be the same in relationship. meaning if he stalks you to a point you accept his proposal. believe it or not he will keep doing the same thing..in fact stalker is a sickness the only way to avoid such person is to report him/her to the authorities. I t would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way!i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim.
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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