How can you get rid of a stalker? (Page 6)

Date: 06-04-2011 12:49 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- kebella at 6-04-2011 02:34 PM (14 years ago)
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my 1cent i ve not meet a stalker or even a stalkler so i pass Cool

Lucky you! Smiley
But what if u would have been in such a situation?

then i wil handle him my way , i wil stalk to him that he wil never be comfortable lol

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
You know what? In some situations that can may work!

trust me!   Grin Grin Grin when a stalk jam a stalkler d weaker one go bow Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Smart girl! Grin
Cool Wink Tongue

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- MissyBarbie at 6-04-2011 02:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Passing and looking around for ma stalker

Trust me,u don't want that!

she is also a stalker

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Chi you sey wetin huh?
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........

I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ?


what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit.  Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off.  He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close.  When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely.  He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him.  That did the job for me....

It's easier to get rid of him if u was never emotionally involved with that person!
But what happens if u were?

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

Hmmmmmm!
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?

see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man....

Oh,imagine what kind of wahala!
That I was talking about!

ma dear i dont really know ow we can handle them ooo cos its like i was born with them

It can be really tiresome! Undecided
too bad!!

Oh,yes!

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 6-04-2011 02:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: stephen153 on  6-04-2011 02:34 PM
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u look lik one Lips Sealed Shocked
re yu a stalker bcos y

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 6-04-2011 02:39 PM (14 years ago)
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u look lik one Lips Sealed Shocked
re yu a stalker bcos y

re yu a stalker bcos yu look lik one  Tongue

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:39 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 6-04-2011 02:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook.
wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly
he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him

Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete.


And what if she doesn't want to be involved in his damn "mission "?
dont be surprise that i almost got raped by another stalker....buh thank God for ma dad who tot him a lesson...next time he sees me he goes a different direction
i went on an errand for ma dad at 8pm with ma nickers on and a top carried wrapper as d weather was getting cold
and this guy just appeared from nowhere started talking and d next thing he used his leg for me to fall..he tore ma nicker.....two women came to ma rescue.......it wasnt funny oo
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........

I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ?


what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit.  Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off.  He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close.  When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely.  He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him.  That did the job for me....

EZIOKWU!! so you are among the picky women huh?

Eh,na!
What would u want her to do? To accept any dude who wakes up one day with the idea that he can't do without her?
Come on!

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- dirtykid at 6-04-2011 02:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook.
wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly
he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him

Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete.


And what if she doesn't want to be involved in his damn "mission "?

A chronic stalker don't care about that, if she agree or not, He will continue, never give up, because he wants to fill a gap of low self-esteem, trying to prove to himself that he got some real balls, to be honest with you, the earlier the victim accept him the better, there's some boundaries you can't push a chronic stalker to, Once it gets there, there Love earlier could automatically turn to hatred and they will continue hunting without given up,...... but then the victim got to be extra smart if she notice some changes in his approach. He might come up with plan B. Then you got to report this to the authority in charge .

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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Again?

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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on  6-04-2011 02:34 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 02:23 PM
Quote from: MissyBarbie on  6-04-2011 02:22 PM
Passing and looking around for ma stalker

Trust me,u don't want that!

Oh Okay

 Wink

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 6-04-2011 02:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  6-04-2011 02:08 PM
Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........

I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ?


what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit.  Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off.  He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close.  When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely.  He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him.  That did the job for me....

EZIOKWU!! so you are among the picky women huh?

Why I no go pick?........he was many things a woman would want for in a man (physically, but the 'real human' in him was nothing to write home about.  He looked down on people, he was a spoilt brat, dat was and is still not my idea of my ideal man

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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: stephen153 on  6-04-2011 02:34 PM
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u look lik one Lips Sealed Shocked
re yu a stalker bcos y

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

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- kebella at 6-04-2011 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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 Grin Grin

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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook.
wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly
he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him

Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete.


And what if she doesn't want to be involved in his damn "mission "?
dont be surprise that i almost got raped by another stalker....buh thank God for ma dad who tot him a lesson...next time he sees me he goes a different direction
i went on an errand for ma dad at 8pm with ma nickers on and a top carried wrapper as d weather was getting cold
and this guy just appeared from nowhere started talking and d next thing he used his leg for me to fall..he tore ma nicker.....two women came to ma rescue.......it wasnt funny oo

 Shocked Shocked Sad Angry
That's serious! Thanks God that it wasn't worse than that! Undecided

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- divineproject at 6-04-2011 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  6-04-2011 02:12 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  6-04-2011 02:08 PM
Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........

I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ?


what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit.  Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off.  He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close.  When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely.  He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him.  That did the job for me....

It's easier to get rid of him if u was never emotionally involved with that person!
But what happens if u were?


Well I cant tell, but I guess it would be hard dislodging him......

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- truenaija2 at 6-04-2011 02:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  6-04-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

Hmmmmmm!
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?

see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man....

such threats should not be taken lightly look for another environment  another country to stay if you cant marry him,cos i have seen where someone sent a flower to somebody like death and threatened to kill her, i thought it was a joke, but today she is dead they said she was shot severally just tro besure she dies on  the road in owerri , she was my boss very beautiful woman
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- dirtykid at 6-04-2011 02:47 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  6-04-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook.
wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly
he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him

Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete.


And what if she doesn't want to be involved in his damn "mission "?
dont be surprise that i almost got raped by another stalker....buh thank God for ma dad who tot him a lesson...next time he sees me he goes a different direction
i went on an errand for ma dad at 8pm with ma nickers on and a top carried wrapper as d weather was getting cold
and this guy just appeared from nowhere started talking and d next thing he used his leg for me to fall..he tore ma nicker.....two women came to ma rescue.......it wasnt funny oo

That means you must have something that attracts the bees to the honey pot  Grin Grin Grin You're Lucky such stalker is a local one, Don't dare Intelligent ones, because most stalkers are average brilliant thinkers, thats why they could record yr schedules and movement without mistaking.

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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 02:12 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  6-04-2011 02:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-04-2011 01:58 PM
Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  Grin Grin
My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year
and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss

You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook.
wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly
he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him

Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete.


And what if she doesn't want to be involved in his damn "mission "?

A chronic stalker don't care about that, if she agree or not, He will continue, never give up, because he wants to fill a gap of low self-esteem, trying to prove to himself that he got some real balls, to be honest with you, the earlier the victim accept him the better, there's some boundaries you can't push a chronic stalker to, Once it gets there, there Love earlier could automatically turn to hatred and they will continue hunting without given up,...... but then the victim got to be extra smart if she notice some changes in his approach. He might come up with plan B. Then you got to report this to the authority in charge .

What if they were in a relationship before, but she decided to put an end to it,but he doesn't want to accept that?
She doesn't want to involve the authorities, because the guy is not life threatening, but just doesn't let her to move on!

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 6-04-2011 02:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........

I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ?


what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit.  Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off.  He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close.  When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely.  He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him.  That did the job for me....

It's easier to get rid of him if u was never emotionally involved with that person!
But what happens if u were?


Well I cant tell, but I guess it would be hard dislodging him......

Very!

Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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