![-]( "kebella") kebella at 8-04-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago)  (f) ok
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 8-04-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "popo2009") popo2009 at 8-04-2011 01:19 PM (13 years ago) (m) Bullshit!!! | Posted: at 8-04-2011 01:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 8-04-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married? 
It is not a silly question. The answer will actually vary for everyone. The right time for
marriage is when the couple is ready. To be ready here means many things: Maturity,
Acquired education or marketable skills, Responsible, and found the suitable match.
Maturity: The couple is old enough to think and behave like adults. And are both
responsible adults.
Education/Skills: Acquiring an education or skills is important in order to be able
to financially provide for the family
Responsibility: There are bound to be disagreements in the marriage. Responsible
couples are able to selle their differences through communications.
Be responsible also means not cheating on your partner and loving
and treating your partner with respect.
Suitable Match: Both parties have to make sure they both share same vision,
goals, and there is not conflicts in religion and moral values.
dan fulanii agree with ur points sir most especially in that often overlooked matters as 'religion and moral values' . this area can cause a prob as a wife might believe on some sorts of religious creeds the husband finds unacceptable... overall meaningful point | Posted: at 8-04-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Adikpe") Adikpe at 8-04-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago) (m) Point 4 and 7 make capital sense! | Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Lekan22") Lekan22 at 8-04-2011 02:19 PM (13 years ago) (m) Thank you. | Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 8-04-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) (f) ok
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 8-04-2011 02:34 PM (13 years ago) (m) Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married?
It is not a silly question. The answer will actually vary for everyone. The right time for
marriage is when the couple is ready. To be ready here means many things: Maturity,
Acquired education or marketable skills, Responsible, and found the suitable match.
Maturity: The couple is old enough to think and behave like adults. And are both
responsible adults.
Education/Skills: Acquiring an education or skills is important in order to be able
to financially provide for the family
Responsibility: There are bound to be disagreements in the marriage. Responsible
couples are able to selle their differences through communications.
Be responsible also means not cheating on your partner and loving
and treating your partner with respect.
Suitable Match: Both parties have to make sure they both share same vision,
goals, and there is not conflicts in religion and moral values.
dan fulaniCould you specify the actual age someone could be after acquiring all this components above. What age range do you think, someone could be by that time ? when, calculating, remember some people cannot afford Higher learning immediately after passing out from high school/secondary school, it could cost some couple of years again before securing admission into higher learning schools ( University ) etc . what age range are we looking at here as Maturity or Adult age to get married ?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Peeping | Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Nice one. I will like to ask this little but silly question. What age do you think a man should get married? and women? Infact poster what does early age means? | Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 8-04-2011 02:44 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 8-04-2011 03:21 PM (13 years ago) (m) Good post, nowadays people are just blindfolded by the desire of getting married and most of the ladies end up cheating on their men cuz they didn't have enough fun when they were young, same thing for the men.
That is why I have been hunting for a 65+ woman to marry. Any on Np? | Posted: at 8-04-2011 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ekechibaby") ekechibaby at 8-04-2011 03:32 PM (13 years ago) (f) @poster you are very very rung in this post. 1. you said, no adult to guide or help out during child bearing and you forget that the mother of couple are there to help their children. 2. some one marring on time can never deprive you of your youth, unless if you want it to. 3. talking about Health, is a thing that can happen to any body, depending the way you parkage your self as a wife, adult can also be affected negatively so is vic-visa which is not a point at all. 4. Breakdown of marriage can happen to any body adult/youth, this is not a point. 5. Work opportunities are not in any way limited for all the youngsters ok, marriege can not stop you from furthering your education. early marriage is very good, so go back and do your resarch again ok.
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![-]( "Makasine") Makasine at 8-04-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) I see this note as jargon until you operationally define young. From the looks of your note I presume you are referring to people under 20. From a social & developmental psyc. point of view I feel like feel like all the examples that you gave can apply to people at different ages. Age is nothing but a number, and doesn't necessarily mean maturity and being more responsible to withstand the obstacles that people face in Marriage. Different factors that you mentioned like financial stability, people's level of education and such things also play a role. However an older person that doesn't have all these things will also be at a disadvantage just like the teenagers that you are referring to in your post of having a failed marriage. | Posted: at 8-04-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Alpal") Alpal at 8-04-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago) (m) The advantages of early marriage outweigh the disadvantages. What is your reference point for early marriage? Anyway, I got married at a tender age of 25years and to be frank, I am not regreting it now. Our children are just like our friends now. We play, gist, dance , stroll and have fun together. My wife and first daughter are like twins now. It will cost you a little effort to recognise who the mum is when you behold them. The joy of early marriage is better experienced than explained.......... | Posted: at 8-04-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "ekechibaby") ekechibaby at 8-04-2011 04:06 PM (13 years ago) (f) The advantages of early marriage outweigh the disadvantages. What is your reference point for early marriage? Anyway, I got married at a tender age of 25years and to be frank, I am not regreting it now. Our children are just like our friends now. We play, gist, dance , stroll and have fun together. My wife and first daughter are like twins now. It will cost you a little effort to recognise who the mum is when you behold them. The joy of early marriage is better experienced than explained..........
you are right. | Posted: at 8-04-2011 04:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Jhayeahsam") Jhayeahsam at 8-04-2011 04:35 PM (13 years ago) (m) Under affluential family, early mariag leads to early achievement. Time varies... Asiko yato unda d heaven | Posted: at 8-04-2011 04:35 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "SNYPER") SNYPER at 8-04-2011 04:43 PM (13 years ago) (m) Passing>>>>> | Posted: at 8-04-2011 04:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 8-04-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago) (m) The advantages of early marriage outweigh the disadvantages. What is your reference point for early marriage? Anyway, I got married at a tender age of 25years and to be frank, I am not regreting it now. Our children are just like our friends now. We play, gist, dance , stroll and have fun together. My wife and first daughter are like twins now. It will cost you a little effort to recognise who the mum is when you behold them. The joy of early marriage is better experienced than explained..........
With the highlighted words, I hereby close this case (Not officially) by the power bestowed on me from the d wonderful architect of NP. Any further comment, dropped by anyone here again shall be used against him in the Fed. High Court of NP. so can remain silent or drop something better than this, to convince me of reopening this case file. Meanwhile let me renew my arrangement to get married at this early stage again... process activated ! 
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 8-04-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ekechibaby") ekechibaby at 8-04-2011 06:04 PM (13 years ago) (f) The advantages of early marriage outweigh the disadvantages. What is your reference point for early marriage? Anyway, I got married at a tender age of 25years and to be frank, I am not regreting it now. Our children are just like our friends now. We play, gist, dance , stroll and have fun together. My wife and first daughter are like twins now. It will cost you a little effort to recognise who the mum is when you behold them. The joy of early marriage is better experienced than explained..........
With the highlighted words, I hereby close this case (Not officially) by the power bestowed on me from the d wonderful architect of NP. Any further comment, dropped by anyone here again shall be used against him in the Fed. High Court of NP. so can remain silent or drop something better than this, to convince me of reopening this case file. Meanwhile let me renew my arrangement to get married at this early stage again... process activated ! Hahahahahaha Naso | Posted: at 8-04-2011 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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