Can you date a girl that won't cook for you?? (Page 8)

Date: 28-04-2011 10:01 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Sean Will
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- kenolis at 29-04-2011 11:37 PM (14 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 29-04-2011 11:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- beautifulbliss at 30-04-2011 12:31 AM (14 years ago)
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I agree with the poster. I mean unless ur living with ur boyfriend, there's really no time to be cooking for him anyway.  Leave her alone she's only saying how she feels.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 12:31 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ILOVEIT at 30-04-2011 12:55 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 29-04-2011 03:05 PM
I just watched the video now.She's right,100% right.

i don't think she is hundred percent right

Posted: at 30-04-2011 12:55 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 30-04-2011 01:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 30-04-2011 12:55 AM
Quote from: onyin on 29-04-2011 03:05 PM
I just watched the video now.She's right,100% right.

i don't think she is hundred percent right
I said 100% becos there are women who feel/thinking cooking or cleaning can help them win a man's heart.inorder words,they end up acting  desperate and if the man refuse to marry them or breaks up with them ,they will start saying sumthing else "he used me".
Posted: at 30-04-2011 01:01 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 30-04-2011 01:12 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 30-04-2011 01:01 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 30-04-2011 12:55 AM
Quote from: onyin on 29-04-2011 03:05 PM
I just watched the video now.She's right,100% right.

i don't think she is hundred percent right
I said 100% becos there are women who feel/thinking cooking or cleaning can help them win a man's heart.inorder words,they end up acting  desperate and if the man refuse to marry them or breaks up with them ,they will start saying sumthing else "he used me".

ok,i get ur point now..yeah she's definitely right on that part.including when some guys expecting or makes it mandatory for their girlfriend to cook for them.it's absolutely rubbish! but were i'm against her comment is where she said she won't cook regularly for her husband and also where she also said she must expect food on the dinner table if she's back from work.she is stupid by making silly comment.a man have to cook when he feels like but not a must.

Posted: at 30-04-2011 01:12 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 30-04-2011 01:20 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 30-04-2011 01:12 AM
Quote from: onyin on 30-04-2011 01:01 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 30-04-2011 12:55 AM
Quote from: onyin on 29-04-2011 03:05 PM
I just watched the video now.She's right,100% right.

i don't think she is hundred percent right
I said 100% becos there are women who feel/thinking cooking or cleaning can help them win a man's heart.inorder words,they end up acting  desperate and if the man refuse to marry them or breaks up with them ,they will start saying sumthing else "he used me".

ok,i get ur point now..yeah she's definitely right on that part.including when some guys expecting or makes it mandatory for their girlfriend to cook for them.it's absolutely rubbish! but were i'm against her comment is where she said she won't cook regularly for her husband and also where she also said she must expect food on the dinner table if she's back from work.she is stupid by making silly comment.a man have to cook when he feels like but not a must.
lol.hmm you are right on that.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 01:20 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 30-04-2011 01:32 AM (14 years ago)
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yap! that's how it suppose to be in my own view.though somebody like me cooking is never be my wahala so no woman can starve me with that.

Posted: at 30-04-2011 01:32 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 30-04-2011 01:37 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 30-04-2011 01:32 AM
yap! that's how it suppose to be in my own view.though somebody like me cooking is never be my wahala so no woman can starve me with that.
tht's really  good
Posted: at 30-04-2011 01:37 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 30-04-2011 01:47 AM (14 years ago)
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thx!  Wink

Posted: at 30-04-2011 01:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- deboalabi262 at 30-04-2011 01:50 AM (14 years ago)
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I like my Girl to be good in the kitchen and also in bed  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 30-04-2011 01:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- angel_of_truth at 30-04-2011 02:09 AM (14 years ago)
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No food, no mary kay!!! Oya choose na
Posted: at 30-04-2011 02:09 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- jeromeeromosele at 30-04-2011 02:36 AM (14 years ago)
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If a girl cnt cook ford  me when dating her,i belive she can not as well cook if i marry her, is only proud girl won't cook, may God not let proudness steal our blessing from us.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 02:36 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- mediaexcell at 30-04-2011 02:51 AM (14 years ago)
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all the guys here saying its not a problem.. i bet u just few months after ur marriage, by the time u comes back home and ur sweet loving wife tells u honey, there is no food in the house... u go keep that love and look after u belle first..
Posted: at 30-04-2011 02:51 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- linkup2006 at 30-04-2011 06:56 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: williams100 on 29-04-2011 08:09 PM
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Quote from: williams100 on 28-04-2011 10:36 PM
most certainly i can date a girl that wont cook for me.i cook all my meals by myself so no big deal besides,she does not owe me any OBLIGATION to cook for me just because she is dating me.but,if she were to be my wife i will have to take her to catering school to learn the art and mastery of cooking. i:e, if she doesnt know how to cook.but as a wife and would-be mother to her unborn progenies its best she try to perfect her kitchen abilities/skills to suit her home.this still doesnt change a fact that i wont cook in my home anymore just because she is my wife and mother to our kids.come to think of it havent i been feeding myself one way or another before  i started dating her??.
i can see you are still single,and probably you don't have a serious relationship yet.When you get to that stage  your statement will change. Huh?

i very much dont think so.it seems to me like you were unable to digest my comment and i dont pretend or act/talk in a way that will make people like me or want me.however, if you know that you have issues with females not knowing how to cook or wanting to cook for you thats your TAKE and not MINE.you are you and i am me.your preference might be a turn-off for me.so dont state for me whether my statement will change or whatever.i am EXPLICIT in nature.you are probably the married type or the one in a serious relationship that is yet to experience TRUE LOVE.for if you truly love a lady be it a girlfriend/wife you would not be bothered whether she knows how to cook or not.instead you will try to see to it you put her through or send her to where she can grab the "KNOW-HOW" of cooking.furthermore let me make it clear to you that i dont owe you an explanation to my "LOVE LIFE"(whether i am married or not,in a serious relationship or not).its my own HEADACHE and not yours or someone else's therefore stay out of it.i spoke my mind on exactly what i will do.speak your mind as well and not trying to make me see reasons from your point of view or trying to convince me to take side to what  and how you feel.

for your information, there is only one thing in this world that woman surpasses me with or can do that i practically in nature cant do and that is "CHILD BEARING".i cant give birth and i respect that alot in them(women).in terms of cooking,laundry,parenting as regards to kids and other house hold chores..(chuckle).i will boast of it that no woman can defeat me in these fields because i took my time to learn and practice them and i am enhancing my settings daily,regularly and continuously in these various fields.if you think its the duty of a lady to do all these alone.fine, i respect your views but dont try to convince me of it.i will like to ask you a question before i stop here.ON ASSUMPTION BASIS IF WOMEN WERE NOT TO BE IN THIS WORLD, WONT YOU COOK FOR YOURSELF AND DO OTHER HOUSE HOLD CHORES ALL BY YOURSELF??. it is because of this type of your notion and ideology thats why we have a sporadic increase of FEMINIST.they think and feel that men are using their prowess on them too much and its true and i dont blame them.if you can do almost anything/everything for yourself any woman that come across you will respect you for it.if you still think otherwise from what i said fine and good stick to your opinion while i stick to mine.NO OFFENCE GIVEN AND NONE TAKEN.....
No vex my brother. You said it is because of my ideology that is why we have a sporadic increase of FEMINIST.I am going to ask you a question,are you a christain or a muslim  did you believe in God?though it might sound like religion has nothing to do with this, but it has a lot to do with it.When the bible said a wife should completely submit to her husband and  also the husband should take a very good care of his wife so if some women were standing up against their husband those are the signs of end time.a good house wife and God fearing woman  will never have it in her head that cooking in the house should be shared not to talk of to be done by her husband. if i take a good care of my wife in all means and provide for her,how is she going to play her own part.I know all the ladies commenting on this topic will not take the videos advice when they were with their boy friend because they don't know if that is the relationship that will lead to marriage.And i think one of the ways a lady will use to convince her boy friend or husband that she loves him as long as the guy is doing his part  , is by taking care of him and the easiest one the ladies do is making sure the guy eat good food and we men always falling for that.The real ladies out there you know what i am talking about so bros i am still learning please no insult, we could together one day take naijapals to a higher level.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 06:56 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- kerryniyi at 30-04-2011 07:13 AM (14 years ago)
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I know how to cook very well right from my up bringing and that is not a problem 4 me. from the critical analysis, few of the girls that don't know how to cook or won't cook 4 their boyfriend are also sturbborn with mannerless character. cooking is one of the qualities of a good girl. your question is can i date such girl? Yes i can date such girl 4 sex only and not 4 wife material.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 07:13 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- soljurn16 at 30-04-2011 07:19 AM (14 years ago)
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Ok,heard you Smiley
Posted: at 30-04-2011 07:19 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Adikpe at 30-04-2011 10:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 28-04-2011 10:40 PM
Quote from: williams100 on 28-04-2011 10:36 PM
most certainly i can date a girl that wont cook for me.i cook all my meals by myself so no big deal besides,she does not owe me any OBLIGATION to cook for me just because she is dating me.but,if she were to be my wife i will have to take her to catering school to learn the art and mastery of cooking. i:e, if she doesnt know how to cook.but as a wife and would-be mother to her unborn progenies its best she try to perfect her kitchen abilities/skills to suit her home.this still doesnt change a fact that i wont cook in my home anymore just because she is my wife and mother to our kids.come to think of it havent i been feeding myself one way or another before  i started dating her??.
u are d true son of ur father!


This one that you are praising these guys like this,
I don't understand oooo!
Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 30-04-2011 10:12 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kerryniyi on 30-04-2011 07:13 AM
I know how to cook very well right from my up bringing and that is not a problem 4 me. from the critical analysis, few of the girls that don't know how to cook or won't cook 4 their boyfriend are also sturbborn with mannerless character. cooking is one of the qualities of a good girl. your question is can i date such girl? Yes i can date such girl 4 sex only and not 4 wife material.


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Posted: at 30-04-2011 10:12 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- simele at 30-04-2011 12:04 PM (14 years ago)
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no
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- clemjeph at 30-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago)
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That has been the problem with many Nigerian Girls n Boys, turning themselves to a wife or husband be4 saying yes I DO. THE ONLY WAY TO GET TO A MANS HEART IS THROUGH HIS STOMACH NO TRU BED, quote me right here brodas n sistas. am speaking for 99.5% for men here (WE MEN RE MO ATTRACTED TO WHERE WE GET GOOD FOODS, believe it or leave it brodas) so many marriages has collaps as a result of the house-help cooking for the man. BUT HEY GUYS WE SHLDNT TAKE THE SISTAS FOR GRANTED, ONCE IN A WHILE DASH INTO D KITCHEN N MAKE DAT CONCONSION U KNOW HW TO MAKE.
A WORD IS SAID TO BE ANUF 4 D WISE.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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