most certainly i can date a girl that wont cook for me.i cook all my meals by myself so no big deal besides,she does not owe me any OBLIGATION to cook for me just because she is dating me.but,if she were to be my wife i will have to take her to catering school to learn the art and mastery of cooking. i:e, if she doesnt know how to cook.but as a wife and would-be mother to her unborn progenies its best she try to perfect her kitchen abilities/skills to suit her home.this still doesnt change a fact that i wont cook in my home anymore just because she is my wife and mother to our kids.come to think of it havent i been feeding myself one way or another before i started dating her??.
i can see you are still single,and probably you don't have a serious relationship yet.When you get to that stage your statement will change.
i very much dont think so.it seems to me like you were unable to digest my comment and i dont pretend or act/talk in a way that will make people like me or want me.however, if you know that you have issues with females not knowing how to cook or wanting to cook for you thats your
TAKE and not
MINE.you are you and i am me.your preference might be a turn-off for me.so dont state for me whether my statement will change or whatever.i am
EXPLICIT in nature.you are probably the married type or the one in a serious relationship that is yet to experience
TRUE LOVE.for if you truly love a lady be it a girlfriend/wife you would not be bothered whether she knows how to cook or not.instead you will try to see to it you put her through or send her to where she can grab the
"KNOW-HOW" of cooking.furthermore let me make it clear to you that i dont owe you an explanation to my
"LOVE LIFE"(whether i am married or not,in a serious relationship or not).its my own
HEADACHE and not yours or someone else's therefore stay out of it.i spoke my mind on exactly what i will do.speak your mind as well and not trying to make me see reasons from your point of view or trying to convince me to take side to what and how you feel.
for your information, there is only one thing in this world that woman surpasses me with or can do that i practically in nature cant do and that is
"CHILD BEARING".i cant give birth and i respect that alot in them(women).in terms of cooking,laundry,parenting as regards to kids and other house hold chores..(chuckle).i will boast of it that no woman can defeat me in these fields because i took my time to learn and practice them and i am enhancing my settings daily,regularly and continuously in these various fields.if you think its the duty of a lady to do all these alone.fine, i respect your views but dont try to convince me of it.i will like to ask you a question before i stop here.
ON ASSUMPTION BASIS IF WOMEN WERE NOT TO BE IN THIS WORLD, WONT YOU COOK FOR YOURSELF AND DO OTHER HOUSE HOLD CHORES ALL BY YOURSELF??. it is because of this type of your notion and ideology thats why we have a sporadic increase of
FEMINIST.they think and feel that men are using their prowess on them too much and its true and i dont blame them.if you can do almost anything/everything for yourself any woman that come across you will respect you for it.if you still think otherwise from what i said fine and good stick to your opinion while i stick to mine.
NO OFFENCE GIVEN AND NONE TAKEN.....No vex my brother. You said it is because of my ideology that is why we have a sporadic increase of FEMINIST.I am going to ask you a question,are you a christain or a muslim did you believe in God?though it might sound like religion has nothing to do with this, but it has a lot to do with it.When the bible said a wife should completely submit to her husband and also the husband should take a very good care of his wife so if some women were standing up against their husband those are the signs of end time.a good house wife and God fearing woman will never have it in her head that cooking in the house should be shared not to talk of to be done by her husband. if i take a good care of my wife in all means and provide for her,how is she going to play her own part.I know all the ladies commenting on this topic will not take the videos advice when they were with their boy friend because they don't know if that is the relationship that will lead to marriage.And i think one of the ways a lady will use to convince her boy friend or husband that she loves him as long as the guy is doing his part , is by taking care of him and the easiest one the ladies do is making sure the guy eat good food and we men always falling for that.The real ladies out there you know what i am talking about so bros i am still learning please no insult, we could together one day take naijapals to a higher level.
well firstly,I am not angry and i redress any form of
INSULT with
APOLOGY where possible.i am a christian and i am well acquainted with the full facts/roles of husbands and wifes.i understand and unanimously agree with you on what you said BUT,if you look closely to
"PROVERB 31 VS 10-31".the bible gave a concrete statement to say
"HOW DIFFICULT IT IS TO FIND A CAPABLE WIFE".in this our modern age you will agree with me that technology,education,civilisation,modernisation,etc have destroyed the mental faculty of humans to the extend that ladies now see their female responsibilites as a
CHOICE and not
OBLIGATORY or
VOLUNTARY SACRIFICES that will tell you where their
FEMINIST THEORY have taken them to, they now term it as
GENDER EQUALITY by neglecting the
BIBLE some even call the bible a
STORY BOOK that favours
MEN ALONE.in order to weaken this thread of their
FEMINIST DICTATORSHIP not endorsed or sanctioned by
GOD,its best you use their own weapon against them i.e what they think and feel they know how to do best from cooking to other house hold chores make sure you acquire the knowledge and use it for your advantage and whenever anyone of them sticks around you,they will have nothing to hold unto as a
LEVERAGE and feel that if they dont do it for you,you wont survive or find it difficult to cope.this is the
PRIMARY,
SECONDARY and
TERTIARY reason why divorce is very rampant worldwide.some of them even try to term it as a
WAKE UP CALL for women to rise from their
SLUMBER really??.lol very funny if you ask me.some of these ladies have been practicing these path that has been doing more damage to the society and will continue unless they resort to try something new or,better yet let
NATURE rule as it
ONCE WAS.but oh no they wont the men are a threat to them i guess.you must know that women are emotional creatures and the best way to get them to do anything for you is play with them emotionally.give her a cold shoulder more often when she seeks to do something for you say maybe cooking for instance and it will have a tremendous impact on her emotions and her GOD inbuilt acceptance of female responsibility will be provoked/awakened and she would want to do anything for you voluntarily without you asking or better yet if dating a lady dont tell her to cook for you or do your laundry ever.she will be troubled at a point in time with a
CONSCIENCE eating her up like she is not behaving
WOMANLY enough for you or towards you and left wondering why you choose not to let her do them for you.it will not take rocket science or robotic engineering to apply some simple tactics/techniques that will help bring your lady or anylady back to her senses to accept her female responsibilities.if these doesnt work with your lady whether wife or girlfriend.then i strongly urge and implore you to consider your options of staying with such a lady swiftly.she probably will ruin your life at the
LATTER END. | Posted: at 30-04-2011 02:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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