most certainly i can date a girl that wont cook for me.i cook all my meals by myself so no big deal besides,she does not owe me any OBLIGATION to cook for me just because she is dating me.but,if she were to be my wife i will have to take her to catering school to learn the art and mastery of cooking. i:e, if she doesnt know how to cook.but as a wife and would-be mother to her unborn progenies its best she try to perfect her kitchen abilities/skills to suit her home.this still doesnt change a fact that i wont cook in my home anymore just because she is my wife and mother to our kids.come to think of it havent i been feeding myself one way or another before i started dating her??.
i can see you are still single,and probably you don't have a serious relationship yet.When you get to that stage your statement will change.
i very much dont think so.it seems to me like you were unable to digest my comment and i dont pretend or act/talk in a way that will make people like me or want me.however, if you know that you have issues with females not knowing how to cook or wanting to cook for you thats your
TAKE and not
MINE.you are you and i am me.your preference might be a turn-off for me.so dont state for me whether my statement will change or whatever.i am
EXPLICIT in nature.you are probably the married type or the one in a serious relationship that is yet to experience
TRUE LOVE.for if you truly love a lady be it a girlfriend/wife you would not be bothered whether she knows how to cook or not.instead you will try to see to it you put her through or send her to where she can grab the
"KNOW-HOW" of cooking.furthermore let me make it clear to you that i dont owe you an explanation to my
"LOVE LIFE"(whether i am married or not,in a serious relationship or not).its my own
HEADACHE and not yours or someone else's therefore stay out of it.i spoke my mind on exactly what i will do.speak your mind as well and not trying to make me see reasons from your point of view or trying to convince me to take side to what and how you feel.
for your information, there is only one thing in this world that woman surpasses me with or can do that i practically in nature cant do and that is
"CHILD BEARING".i cant give birth and i respect that alot in them(women).in terms of cooking,laundry,parenting as regards to kids and other house hold chores..(chuckle).i will boast of it that no woman can defeat me in these fields because i took my time to learn and practice them and i am enhancing my settings daily,regularly and continuously in these various fields.if you think its the duty of a lady to do all these alone.fine, i respect your views but dont try to convince me of it.i will like to ask you a question before i stop here.
ON ASSUMPTION BASIS IF WOMEN WERE NOT TO BE IN THIS WORLD, WONT YOU COOK FOR YOURSELF AND DO OTHER HOUSE HOLD CHORES ALL BY YOURSELF??. it is because of this type of your notion and ideology thats why we have a sporadic increase of
FEMINIST.they think and feel that men are using their prowess on them too much and its true and i dont blame them.if you can do almost anything/everything for yourself any woman that come across you will respect you for it.if you still think otherwise from what i said fine and good stick to your opinion while i stick to mine.
NO OFFENCE GIVEN AND NONE TAKEN..... Posted: at 29-04-2011 08:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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