From the christian perception, It is wrong 4 a man and a woman living together when both are not yet married based on the following reasons... 1, they will end up fornicating which the word of God is against. 2, this could hinder their christian life. 3, lack of moral up bringing. 4, they could end up having unwanted pregnancy when they are not yet prepared to shoulder responsibility. Note: Outside the christianity view, it has adavantages and i won't hilights on that.
Harold those you mentioned happens even when they dnt stay together you know
And for the advantages i understand am. | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago)  (f) learning
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 10-05-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) (m) Is it proper for a lady to be living with her bf/fiance whom she is not married to yet??
If yes: Give Reasons
If no: What can we do to stop it
Our youth are so concern about d word sex! sex!! sex!!! Forgeting the fact that the life we are living is a borrowed one and that the giver can take it away at any time HE wants....
We are have forgot about the law that states that "Premarital sex is a sin"
And we have also forgot the law that states that "our body is suppose to be the temple of the lord"
I was listening to Wazobia Fm yesterday evening and this question was asked, so i decided to throw it here for more light
Lets hear ur opinion
is not good to park in with a man yr not married to, even if the girl is crazy about sex, thats not enough reason to pack in and start living with a man yr not married to.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "brightossy") brightossy at 10-05-2011 11:05 AM (13 years ago) (m) >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> peeping, reading, learning, 4rm d ladies . | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:05 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Thank u Missy, but lemme ask u this question
what happens in d days of mamas and fathers??
Was there anything like dating and getting to know each other b4 d marriage???
I wouldnt be wrong if i say that u are in one way or the other supporting premarital sex
I wasnt saying its a good thing to stay with someone you are not married to...To be sincere ive stayed with ma BF for 3weeks b4 And those 3 weeks was a living hell...And I thank God I did....atleast i have the chance of knowing d kind of monster he was Cos i would have ended up marrying him...and that would have bn a disaster And talking about premarital sex...that one don tey So if you can actually be sleeping with someone you're not married to...I wonder why its soooo bad to stay with him atleast for sometimes.atleast till you're satisfy he's the one Abi na who be virgin hia...apart from me  Talking about ur bf...staying with him was out of the way...i will be last to tell u to stay wif ur bf....u could have implore other ways of getting to know him better...but that is by d way now....... talking about premarital sex...I quite agree with u that is has been in voke for God knows ow long But it is not good, God does not like it, It is a sin..... premarital sex and moving in with ur bf/fiance is one thing that shouldnt be done by especially d ladies cos u already assume d wifey role wen u are not one and so many take advantage of this and delay d marriage.... pls let us focus on opinions that will cause a change to our society...... Note: If i could turn back d hands of the clock, my virginity would have been d first thing i would claim and hold tight and if i had knew then wat I know now maybe no man would have cross me until i get married Yeah i understand...am not saying i would do it again, buh i didnt regret what i did And i seconded the virginity thing too ooo If only i could turn back the hands of time :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:07 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:08 AM (13 years ago) (f) Is it proper for a lady to be living with her bf/fiance whom she is not married to yet??
If yes: Give Reasons
If no: What can we do to stop it
Our youth are so concern about d word sex! sex!! sex!!! Forgeting the fact that the life we are living is a borrowed one and that the giver can take it away at any time HE wants....
We are have forgot about the law that states that "Premarital sex is a sin"
And we have also forgot the law that states that "our body is suppose to be the temple of the lord"
I was listening to Wazobia Fm yesterday evening and this question was asked, so i decided to throw it here for more light
Lets hear ur opinion
No its not a good idea.. but if she's pregnant for him and she accepts ..why not! pregnancy is a different case If she had not open her legs premaritally, she wouldnt have gotten pregnant I think its high time all d ladies come to thier senses and stop distributing premarital sex | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:08 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 10-05-2011 11:09 AM (13 years ago) (m) Blessedme... your boyfriend don teach you lesson, anyways its making you to re-evaluate yourself. We all know the deal that we arent suppose to be with a man or woman if we are not married,even when I was out there my conscience used to convict me when I was shacking and fornicating wth this girl in school,so everybody knows the deal but they just choose to do bad. | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:09 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Is it proper for a lady to be living with her bf/fiance whom she is not married to yet??
If yes: Give Reasons
If no: What can we do to stop it
Our youth are so concern about d word sex! sex!! sex!!! Forgeting the fact that the life we are living is a borrowed one and that the giver can take it away at any time HE wants....
We are have forgot about the law that states that "Premarital sex is a sin"
And we have also forgot the law that states that "our body is suppose to be the temple of the lord"
I was listening to Wazobia Fm yesterday evening and this question was asked, so i decided to throw it here for more light
Lets hear ur opinion
is not good to park in with a man yr not married to, even if the girl is crazy about sex, thats not enough reason to pack in and start living with a man yr not married to. I hia you. | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:11 AM (13 years ago) (f) Is it proper for a lady to be living with her bf/fiance whom she is not married to yet??
If yes: Give Reasons
If no: What can we do to stop it
Our youth are so concern about d word sex! sex!! sex!!! Forgeting the fact that the life we are living is a borrowed one and that the giver can take it away at any time HE wants....
We are have forgot about the law that states that "Premarital sex is a sin"
And we have also forgot the law that states that "our body is suppose to be the temple of the lord"
I was listening to Wazobia Fm yesterday evening and this question was asked, so i decided to throw it here for more light
Lets hear ur opinion
No its not a good idea.. but if she's pregnant for him and she accepts ..why not! pregnancy is a different case If she had not open her legs premaritally, she wouldnt have gotten pregnant I think its high time all d ladies come to thier senses and stop distributing premarital sex ok learning..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:11 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:11 AM (13 years ago) (f) Blessedme... your boyfriend don teach you lesson, anyways its making you to re-evaluate yourself.
We all know the deal that we arent suppose to be with a man or woman if we are not married,even when I was out there my conscience used to convict me when I was shacking and fornicating wth this girl in school,so everybody knows the deal but they just choose to do bad.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:11 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:11 AM (13 years ago) (f) Anyway in my own opinion i think staying wif your BF/Fiance has its own Advantages and disadvantages
The advantages is
You get to know him more
you will be rest assured that you're not making any mistake by getting married to him eventually
you'd know his weakness, his do's and dont's
The disadvantages is Sex Sex and Sex...buh you've got to use your brain in handling that part
Lack of freedom
And lack of respect for both parties
So i think its good to stay with him atleast for some weeks b4 saying I DO
staying with ur Bf/ fiance dose nt mean u pack ur bag to his house, u can visit once a while during weekend dat time is enough for u to find out wat u wnt to moreover u can't find out all about a person. me i don't buy dat idea of staying with ur guy in d name of u wnt to know him well cos he will definitely get tire of u and there wil always be a intercourse u can't escape from dat Of course you can escape the sex part....If you really want to And sex is the least of the problem Cos you're still gonna have sex with him anyway What am trying to say in essence is Get to know him wella b4 making a commitment Its better to stay with him and see if he's d one, than to be married to a monster Anyway what works for me doesnt have to work for you oooo Buh seriously that's what i would do. I dey come sha For ow long will u continue to escape sex wen u are staying with a man that u love and share d same bed  | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) (f) packing my ngwo gwo back to my fathers house
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) (f) From the christian perception, It is wrong 4 a man and a woman living together when both are not yet married based on the following reasons... 1, they will end up fornicating which the word of God is against. 2, this could hinder their christian life. 3, lack of moral up bringing. 4, they could end up having unwanted pregnancy when they are not yet prepared to shoulder responsibility. Note: Outside the christianity view, it has adavantages and i won't hilights on that.
God bless u for this words i wouldnt want u to highlight anything outside christianity cos anything outside christ is as good as dead! | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:15 AM (13 years ago) (f) Is it proper for a lady to be living with her bf/fiance whom she is not married to yet??
If yes: Give Reasons
If no: What can we do to stop it
Our youth are so concern about d word sex! sex!! sex!!! Forgeting the fact that the life we are living is a borrowed one and that the giver can take it away at any time HE wants....
We are have forgot about the law that states that "Premarital sex is a sin"
And we have also forgot the law that states that "our body is suppose to be the temple of the lord"
I was listening to Wazobia Fm yesterday evening and this question was asked, so i decided to throw it here for more light
Lets hear ur opinion
is not good to park in with a man yr not married to, even if the girl is crazy about sex, thats not enough reason to pack in and start living with a man yr not married to. God bless u Sir! | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "uwa190") uwa190 at 10-05-2011 11:16 AM (13 years ago) (f) i do not think it is proper to live with a bf/fiance both morally and religiously. as a christian, am not supposed to do that because there is a 99% chance that it will lead to premarital sex which might lead to unwanted pregnancy,e.t.c. living with him does not even guarantee knowing him better because he might as well hide he true self for the time been. and no, i cant think of a way that this can be stopped it only gets worse... | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:16 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:17 AM (13 years ago) (f) Sir?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:17 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@ ble its just for sometimes...am not talking about staying with him forever Like i said....i've done it b4 and i didnt regret ever doing it...And that deosnt mean i would do it again. | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:19 AM (13 years ago) (f) Thank u Missy, but lemme ask u this question
what happens in d days of mamas and fathers??
Was there anything like dating and getting to know each other b4 d marriage???
I wouldnt be wrong if i say that u are in one way or the other supporting premarital sex
I wasnt saying its a good thing to stay with someone you are not married to...To be sincere ive stayed with ma BF for 3weeks b4 And those 3 weeks was a living hell...And I thank God I did....atleast i have the chance of knowing d kind of monster he was Cos i would have ended up marrying him...and that would have bn a disaster And talking about premarital sex...that one don tey So if you can actually be sleeping with someone you're not married to...I wonder why its soooo bad to stay with him atleast for sometimes.atleast till you're satisfy he's the one Abi na who be virgin hia...apart from me Talking about ur bf...staying with him was out of the way...i will be last to tell u to stay wif ur bf....u could have implore other ways of getting to know him better...but that is by d way now....... talking about premarital sex...I quite agree with u that is has been in voke for God knows ow long But it is not good, God does not like it, It is a sin..... premarital sex and moving in with ur bf/fiance is one thing that shouldnt be done by especially d ladies cos u already assume d wifey role wen u are not one and so many take advantage of this and delay d marriage.... pls let us focus on opinions that will cause a change to our society...... Note: If i could turn back d hands of the clock, my virginity would have been d first thing i would claim and hold tight and if i had knew then wat I know now maybe no man would have cross me until i get married Yeah i understand...am not saying i would do it again, buh i didnt regret what i did And i seconded the virginity thing too ooo If only i could turn back the hands of time :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Dont cry dear...take hankie and wipe ur tears am sorry if i make u cry  | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:19 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) (f) chai!!
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 10-05-2011 11:21 AM (13 years ago) (m) The problem we have about wanting to have sex is because we "tasted" it, if we had not "tasted" it then we wouldnt have know what it feels like, but seeing that we tasted it and we like it, we then want some more which turns some into freaks,nymphoes dogs and hoes.We shouldnt have tasted it.the only time we are supposed to taste it, is when we are married, now everyone abuses the purpose of intercoursing. | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:21 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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