i do not think it is proper to live with a bf/fiance both morally and religiously. as a christian, am not supposed to do that because there is a 99% chance that it will lead to premarital sex which might lead to unwanted pregnancy,e.t.c. living with him does not even guarantee knowing him better because he might as well hide he true self for the time been. and no, i cant think of a way that this can be stopped it only gets worse...
Uwa thank you buh i would like for everybody to usuing the word getting pregnant while staying wif your man
It happens to those that're not staying together...let alone to people staying together
I only want to hear that from someone who has never known man b4 you hia  | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:23 AM (13 years ago)  (f) learning
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
|
![-]( "olumbareal") olumbareal at 10-05-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago) (m) Reading and Learning.
u berra come here and say something before i loose ma temper ooo meanwhile ow are u dis morning  Am good fenx. 9ice topic gurl. Staying or visiting your GF/BF accord one the opportunity of knowing who you are dating or getting married to, It has both Advantages and Disadvantages. I could remember back den in squ my girlfriend house is not too far from my, she suggested to put her house for lease i told her no, dat i cant stand living as couple she thought i was up to something or cos i want to flirt around. I made her realize am human and it weakens relationship. Even after graduation i faced similar situations, i didn't allow any lady to visit me nor spend a night in my father`s house. When i eventually got my own rented apartment men come see style wey my so called chick begin dey take style bring her kaya, She started by she would like to keep few of her things so dat whenever she come visiting so tey her load pass my own wey get the house sef.. It got to a stage i asked her if we eventually get married wetin she wan bring again.lol | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago) (f) hmmmmmmmm..confessions
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
|
![-]( "olumbareal") olumbareal at 10-05-2011 11:32 AM (13 years ago) (m) Thank u Missy, but lemme ask u this question
what happens in d days of mamas and fathers??
Was there anything like dating and getting to know each other b4 d marriage???
I wouldnt be wrong if i say that u are in one way or the other supporting premarital sex
I wasnt saying its a good thing to stay with someone you are not married to...To be sincere ive stayed with ma BF for 3weeks b4 And those 3 weeks was a living hell...And I thank God I did....atleast i have the chance of knowing d kind of monster he was Cos i would have ended up marrying him...and that would have bn a disaster And talking about premarital sex...that one don tey So if you can actually be sleeping with someone you're not married to...I wonder why its soooo bad to stay with him atleast for sometimes.atleast till you're satisfy he's the one Abi na who be virgin hia...apart from me  Talking about ur bf...staying with him was out of the way...i will be last to tell u to stay wif ur bf....u could have implore other ways of getting to know him better...but that is by d way now....... talking about premarital sex...I quite agree with u that is has been in voke for God knows ow long But it is not good, God does not like it, It is a sin..... premarital sex and moving in with ur bf/fiance is one thing that shouldnt be done by especially d ladies cos u already assume d wifey role wen u are not one and so many take advantage of this and delay d marriage.... pls let us focus on opinions that will cause a change to our society...... Note: If i could turn back d hands of the clock, my virginity would have been d first thing i would claim and hold tight and if i had knew then wat I know now maybe no man would have cross me until i get married Yeah i understand...am not saying i would do it again, buh i didnt regret what i did And i seconded the virginity thing too ooo If only i could turn back the hands of time :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Baby stop na, its ok. Your heart is willing but the flesh is | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:32 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 10-05-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago) (m) Is it proper for a lady to be living with her bf/fiance whom she is not married to yet??
If yes: Give Reasons
If no: What can we do to stop it
Our youth are so concern about d word sex! sex!! sex!!! Forgeting the fact that the life we are living is a borrowed one and that the giver can take it away at any time HE wants....
We are have forgot about the law that states that "Premarital sex is a sin"
And we have also forgot the law that states that "our body is suppose to be the temple of the lord"
I was listening to Wazobia Fm yesterday evening and this question was asked, so i decided to throw it here for more light
Lets hear ur opinion
It is Proper, cos when yu Get Married Finally, there'll be no Surprises
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
|
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:39 AM (13 years ago) (f) Blessedme... your boyfriend don teach you lesson, anyways its making you to re-evaluate yourself.
We all know the deal that we arent suppose to be with a man or woman if we are not married,even when I was out there my conscience used to convict me when I was shacking and fornicating wth this girl in school,so everybody knows the deal but they just choose to do bad.
lesson or no lesson....Since I and my fiance knew what fornication is....we stopped it for a very long pending wen we will get married...that is why i dont go visiting but he does...... Thank God for ur life cos u have conscience thats pricks u wen u are doing something bad, cos some of us has actually loss our conscience | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:39 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:40 AM (13 years ago) (f) ATUMA
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:40 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
|
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:41 AM (13 years ago) (f) i do not think it is proper to live with a bf/fiance both morally and religiously. as a christian, am not supposed to do that because there is a 99% chance that it will lead to premarital sex which might lead to unwanted pregnancy,e.t.c. living with him does not even guarantee knowing him better because he might as well hide he true self for the time been. and no, i cant think of a way that this can be stopped it only gets worse...
 | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:42 AM (13 years ago) (f) Sir?
yes sir....anything wrong in that | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "trolling") trolling at 10-05-2011 11:43 AM (13 years ago) (m) Blessedme... your boyfriend don teach you lesson, anyways its making you to re-evaluate yourself.
We all know the deal that we arent suppose to be with a man or woman if we are not married,even when I was out there my conscience used to convict me when I was shacking and fornicating wth this girl in school,so everybody knows the deal but they just choose to do bad.
lesson or no lesson....Since I and my fiance knew what fornication is....we stopped it for a very long pending wen we will get married... that is why i dont go visiting but he does......Thank God for ur life cos u have conscience thats pricks u wen u are doing something bad, cos some of us has actually loss our conscience But that defeats the purpose now | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:43 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) (f) The problem we have about wanting to have sex is because we "tasted" it, if we had not "tasted" it then we wouldnt have know what it feels like, but seeing that we tasted it and we like it, we then want some more which turns some into freaks,nymphoes dogs and hoes.We shouldnt have tasted it.the only time we are supposed to taste it, is when we are married, now everyone abuses the purpose of intercoursing.
Is there anything we can do to help d situation cos it is getting worse by d day...those who are not even upto 18+ are being affected d more | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:47 AM (13 years ago) (f) sill learning
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:47 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
|
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:48 AM (13 years ago) (f) Reading and Learning.
u berra come here and say something before i loose ma temper ooo meanwhile ow are u dis morning Am good fenx. 9ice topic gurl. Staying or visiting your GF/BF accord one the opportunity of knowing who you are dating or getting married to, It has both Advantages and Disadvantages. I could remember back den in squ my girlfriend house is not too far from my, she suggested to put her house for lease i told her no, dat i cant stand living as couple she thought i was up to something or cos i want to flirt around. I made her realize am human and it weakens relationship. Even after graduation i faced similar situations, i didn't allow any lady to visit me nor spend a night in my father`s house. When i eventually got my own rented apartment men come see style wey my so called chick begin dey take style bring her kaya, She started by she would like to keep few of her things so dat whenever she come visiting so tey her load pass my own wey get the house sef.. It got to a stage i asked her if we eventually get married wetin she wan bring again.lol u can imagine d desperation | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "trolling") trolling at 10-05-2011 11:49 AM (13 years ago) (m) The problem we have about wanting to have sex is because we "tasted" it, if we had not "tasted" it then we wouldnt have know what it feels like, but seeing that we tasted it and we like it, we then want some more which turns some into freaks,nymphoes dogs and hoes.We shouldnt have tasted it.the only time we are supposed to taste it, is when we are married, now everyone abuses the purpose of intercoursing.
Is there anything we can do to help d situation cos it is getting worse by d day...those who are not even upto 18+ are being affected d more You or I cant change it, God will change it, its just that evil has to reach its peak before the good comes. | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:50 AM (13 years ago) (f) Is it proper for a lady to be living with her bf/fiance whom she is not married to yet??
If yes: Give Reasons
If no: What can we do to stop it
Our youth are so concern about d word sex! sex!! sex!!! Forgeting the fact that the life we are living is a borrowed one and that the giver can take it away at any time HE wants....
We are have forgot about the law that states that "Premarital sex is a sin"
And we have also forgot the law that states that "our body is suppose to be the temple of the lord"
I was listening to Wazobia Fm yesterday evening and this question was asked, so i decided to throw it here for more light
Lets hear ur opinion
It is Proper, cos when yu Get Married Finally, there'll be no Surprises I see | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:50 AM (13 years ago) (f) ATUMA
Whatever!!! | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 10-05-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) (f)    huh?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
Reply |
![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 10-05-2011 11:52 AM (13 years ago) (f) Blessedme... your boyfriend don teach you lesson, anyways its making you to re-evaluate yourself.
We all know the deal that we arent suppose to be with a man or woman if we are not married,even when I was out there my conscience used to convict me when I was shacking and fornicating wth this girl in school,so everybody knows the deal but they just choose to do bad.
lesson or no lesson....Since I and my fiance knew what fornication is....we stopped it for a very long pending wen we will get married... that is why i dont go visiting but he does......Thank God for ur life cos u have conscience thats pricks u wen u are doing something bad, cos some of us has actually loss our conscience But that defeats the purpose now i dont get u....what purpose...pls throw more light | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:52 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
It is not proper........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 10-05-2011 11:52 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
MissyBarbie
TRENDING GISTS 
Southampton v Manchester City: UEFA Champions League Semi-Final Match,Team News,Goal Scorers &Stats
Overcrowding or Low Turnout? - Wizkid’s Show In Berlin Cancelled Days After Toronto Failed
He Laughed At Me When I Had Issues With The Authorities -Bobrisky React To VeryDarkMan’s Arrest
PHOTOS: Troops Arrest Notorious Gunrunners, Recover Arms In Kaduna