What dyu think bout Teenage-Preggers-Mom????................

.........I am gonna be as honest as possible if am faced wit this kinda situation.....................I believe strongly and I emphasize 'STRONGLY' in getting rid of anythn that stands in ma way....I do 'NOT' believe in concidences cuz for me 'coincidence takes alot of planning'...I believe in Abortions mayb cuz I am in de Med field and I understand how a foetus develops........at 25 weeks de foetus is already viable....so if I find maself in a situation whr am preggers I will get rid of it ASAP to prevent 'it' from causing any kinda 'change' in ma plans.............as a mother..I hope to be really understanding buh I 'WILL' make an exception wen it comes to ma kid being preggers..so if I find out that ma kid is preggers...I wld ask her a simple question 'Dyu wanna be a mom??'.......(jus for formality)....if she says 'Yes'...I wld respect her wishes buh tell her plainly 'I wld love for u to be a mom buh uv got 2 options: u either go be a mom in ur hubby's crib or u be a 'kid' in ma house'.....................really simple....I believe one has got a lifetym to be preggers......de age of 10-15 for me.......jus aint de tym...........

Posted: at 8-07-2011 09:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@Sophie....a fetus becomes viable at 24weeks....anythn less than that......is not viable....its liquid.........

Posted: at 8-07-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

As for me: When i FOUND masef in that condition 7yrs ago..so many tins came into my mind. cos i was afraid of my dad.
But to ma suprise i was being advised..nvr to Abort..i have conscience, and a soft hrt too of which ma parent knows..I hate Abortion,i hate killing/murder..the child was Innocent so i decided to kip it..Seeing urself in  such conditions doesnt mean u'll nvr see urself in that condition till u die. u'll someday..to crown it all..I will kip the baby..nurse d child and watch him/her grow..

if my daughter finds hersef in such situation..weda d pikin pregnacy na 3days,1wk,1month oooooooooooo she go kip am..
But i will make sur i do my best to teach her and make her understand what life as a single parent is..so that she no go fall victim..SHEKINA

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Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:10 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i cant read long lines lik dis

Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:19 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

.....we all got diff. views bout this....buh I strongly believe I am a 'MOM' and ma daughter is a 'KID'.....altho for her to indulge in unprotected sex shows pretty much that she's an adult.........buh she'll always be a kid..........I will not allow her to ruin her future cuz she's preggers.....I wld personally drag her to de hospital and get it flushed out..........................I wld feel better having 'to not forgive maself ltr in life'..............buh since am dealing wit 'now'....I am gonna exercise de power of NOW!!!.....

Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i dey fine sweety ......how abt urs?..............yu no dey fear to mention 50 name

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Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Did you ask bout my own night? NO..

Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Darling my MB abeg no vex so how was ur night, hope u had a swell time, wish u all the best today can offer.

Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

123Sonia Whats happening here
 

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Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:42 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero