He tells his friend our family secrets (Page 6)

Quote from: Adikpe on 16-07-2011 01:23 PM

You really need to talk to him not just as a husband, but like a friend also. Be calm, calculated and be matured when talking to him about the issue, try as much as possible never to be harsh when discussing it. Try to tell him more of the disadvantages than the advantages of discussing family issues with friends. Try to let him know that they (his friends) will later use the issues to mock him thereafter.

It is very bad to discuss family issues with friends, because they will definitely give HIM advises that will not suit the life style of you and your him, which will probably tear the family apart.

ONCE AGAIN, BE CALM AND WISE WHEN TALKING TO HIM ABOUT THE ISSUE!

I agree with your advice my brother.  When the husband and wife have longed settled, the issues he shared outside the home with his family and friends will still be living from their mouths...sworming with full affect.  It usually taints any advice they wish to share.  Instead of being objective and giving the best advice, these issues may remain in their heart.   Remaining calm while sharing how he's leaving the family unprotected by sharing husband and wife private secrets, is important.  Also, ask God to help you share it in a way that reaches your husband's heart, he will surely help you.  God bless you and your marriage. 

Posted: at 17-07-2011 03:49 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

I ADVICE you don't talk to him real hard take it easy with him,if situation refused to change talk to his friend,i mean the guy his fund of disscusing you with tell him how you are feeling and make him see reasons with you,seek advice from your mum or his mum.

Posted: at 17-07-2011 05:58 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Let the thing of the mind work it out for u, and thtz maturity. Always pray for him God pass them

Posted: at 17-07-2011 08:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

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Posted: at 17-07-2011 08:44 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Just talk to your husband the way u suppose to. U know him better.

Posted: at 17-07-2011 08:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Quite a pitiful situation to marry a kid-in-man! Patience must participate actively. Tolerance must befriend you for a while. It may or may not take time though it must be surprising, only if you can do it.
                         1a-Remove the pain on your face. 1b-Disregard it a beat.
                         2-Don't forget what you want. Let him see that you are still happy with him.
                         3-If you can sample a comprehensive story that portray exactly his abnormality and your feeling; tell him in
                            the most casual way possible, IN HIS BEST AFFORDABLE MOOD with bent neck............
                         4-Don't conclude the story for him.
                         5-Don't make him to think on it immediately.
                         6-Stop forcing him to know that you are feeling too bad about it.
                         7 Stop winking at him while he is with a friend---better leave them and get to your room without mix feeling.
                         8-Stop making him feel you are afraid, unsafe, and suspecting.
                         9-Accept that his confidence in you is trembling and do more to reaffirm it.
 ----------------------Your prayer may do the rest,and you will have your husband back and full if your story is so sincere.
                             MY BEST OF WISHES FOR YOU.

Posted: at 17-07-2011 10:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

brb

Posted: at 17-07-2011 10:29 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master

Your man no responsible , e no get reserve at all. this your man fit still tell him friend how him take de sample u 4 bed. make u go reportam to him brothers and sisters.

Posted: at 17-07-2011 11:52 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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Posted: at 18-07-2011 07:29 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Hmmm

Posted: at 18-07-2011 09:02 AM (12 years ago) | Hero