Whenever his friends comes around, he has no time for me nor children. They 'll gathered around discussing about unnecessary matters and the most painful aspect is that he discuss our family issues with them which I find uncomfortable with. I have discussed this with him severely to stop doing it, but he wont just listen, sometimes he yell at me to stop it preventing him from doing it.
What should I do ?
Posted: at 16-07-2011 10:15 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
lynnclassic at 16-07-2011 10:31 AM (13 years ago) (f)
nne sorry ohhh,na marriage palava be this one.is painful seeing ur hus talking 2 his friends what happens in his house but handle it with care coz is a sensitive issue coz he might be thinking that u want 2 cut his relationship with his friends.
IMPORTANT TAKE NOTE: PRAY 2 GOD 2TOUCH HIM N MAKE HIM REALIZE WHAT HE'S DOING. PRAY THIS PRAYER POINT ASWELL(EVERY NEGETIVE RELATIONSHIP IN UR MARRIAGE SHOULD BE SCATTERED) is painful coz sumtimes u will be wondering if u r safe 2 talk n share ideas with him knowing that his friends can make an impact in ur marrital life.it's well b strong GOD will see u tru this amen!
Posted: at 16-07-2011 10:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
lynnclassic at 16-07-2011 10:41 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: xena15 on 16-07-2011 10:18 AM
Oh! Damn! I hate that!!! U gotta talk 2 him real hard coz its nt helping at all..... ...men who kiss and tell....
pls bcareful with d advice u give 2 a woman like U!!!! 2POSTER IF U TALK REAL HARD U HAVE NOT SOLVED D PROBLEM LIKE I SAID U CAN TALK 4ROM 2DAY 2 2MORROW INSTEAD OF HIM CHANGING HE WILL B WORST COZ NO MAN WANT'S A WOMAN THAT TELLS HIM HOW 2 RUN HIS LIFE BUT GOD CAN GIVE U D GRACE SAME TIME TAKE CHARGE OVER THE SITUATION IN UR MARRIAGE.
Posted: at 16-07-2011 10:41 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
chiglamour4u at 16-07-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: lynnclassic on 16-07-2011 10:31 AM
nne sorry ohhh,na marriage palava be this one.is painful seeing ur hus talking 2 his friends what happens in his house but handle it with care coz is a sensitive issue coz he might be thinking that u want 2 cut his relationship with his friends.
IMPORTANT TAKE NOTE: PRAY 2 GOD 2TOUCH HIM N MAKE HIM REALIZE WHAT HE'S DOING. PRAY THIS PRAYER POINT ASWELL(EVERY NEGETIVE RELATIONSHIP IN UR MARRIAGE SHOULD BE SCATTERED) is painful coz sumtimes u will be wondering if u r safe 2 talk n share ideas with him knowing that his friends can make an impact in ur marrital life.it's well b strong GOD will see u tru this amen!
GBAM
Posted: at 16-07-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
You really need to talk to him not just as a husband, but like a friend also. Be calm, calculated and be matured when talking to him about the issue, try as much as possible never to be harsh when discussing it. Try to tell him more of the disadvantages than the advantages of discussing family issues with friends. Try to let him know that they (his friends) will later use the issues to mock him thereafter.
It is very bad to discuss family issues with friends, because they will definitely give HIM advises that will not suit the life style of you and your him, which will probably tear the family apart.
ONCE AGAIN, BE CALM AND WISE WHEN TALKING TO HIM ABOUT THE ISSUE!
Posted: at 16-07-2011 01:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
diplomatik at 16-07-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Akinzos on 16-07-2011 10:15 AM
Whenever his friends comes around, he has no time for me nor children. They 'll gathered around discussing about unnecessary matters and the most painful aspect is that he discuss our family issues with them which I find uncomfortable with. I have discussed this with him severely to stop doing it, but he wont just listen, sometimes he yell at me to stop it preventing him from doing it.
What should I do ?
amebo in the house
tell 1 of his issues to ur friends and let dem confront him..maybe then he'll see reasons with u
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Posted: at 16-07-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Idikacholu at 16-07-2011 01:36 PM (13 years ago) (m)
TOO BAD! U HAVE TO REALLY TALK TO HIM THIS TIME, PRAY AND ASK FOR GOD"S DIRECTION. THERE IS NO PROBLEM HE CANNOT SOLVE. IT"S ONE OF THE PALAVAS IN MARRIAGE. SMILE, JESUS LOVES U.
Posted: at 16-07-2011 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
real hard u said, Real hard to extent of punches nooo
oh lawd! punches for telling him the truth?its not acceptable to be in an ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP for any reason whatsoever most especially when its physical,RUN now before its too late,please we don't need another akolade and omon part 2 stories please.besides only whims tell their private lives to the whole world without seeing anything wrong with it.babes pls STOP hanging onto wrong marriages because of societal pressure because at the end na only eya and sorry u go get.think wisely.
Posted: at 16-07-2011 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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