damygurl at 19-12-2008 07:35 PM (16 years ago) (f)
It's actually common but people don't talk about it. mine did when i was about 5. one of the couple needs to go to court to file the papers. i don't know if the process has changed but the processing n everything takes less dan a year. someone serves the paper to the other spouse n both couple appear in court n the presiding judge finalizes d divorce
Posted: at 19-12-2008 07:35 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
damygurl at 19-12-2008 07:38 PM (16 years ago) (f)
oh yea one of the spouse ask for sole custody or they can both ask for joint custody and the husband is required to pay child support of a certain amount each month dat has probably changed now since sometimes the wife is d breadwinner
Posted: at 19-12-2008 07:38 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
damygurl at 19-12-2008 08:08 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dguy on 19-12-2008 07:50 PM
I think African women akways want to, but they are afraid of their image in the society, they cant bcome leaders once they are divourced
In a way it's a good thing dat there are factors like dat , that still prevents people from getting a divorce. Marriage really should be till death but i understand why some people are pushed to it though i think reasons such as he's poor, has no job, or she's not the woman i married, or cheating r not good reasons to get a divorce.
Posted: at 19-12-2008 08:08 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Divorce is fast growin in Nigeria these days. Everytime I go on Nigerian website I read about dem. If cheatin is not a reason for divorce, then can u tell me wot is? Bcos my bible explicitly states that divorce should only be done on the ground of adultery. So wot r u saying?
Posted: at 20-12-2008 06:46 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
damygurl at 20-12-2008 11:15 PM (16 years ago) (f)
If every couple in the world whose spouse has cheated on them got divorced, i don't think we gon have that many marriage left. i'm not saying cheating is right, we all know it's wrong but at the same time couples should learn to forgive instead of going through the divorce route, especially as christians. I said cheating bcuz nowadays couples get divorced just bcuz they suspect their spouse is cheating on them or say it happened once
Posted: at 20-12-2008 11:15 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming