I am tireedd of my MARRIAGE!!! (Page 4)

AMEN n u too 

Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Gud advice!

Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

have u divorce him yet

Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:21 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

My dear its really pathetic reading your story, but i must tell u, u re not the only one going thru this, there are worst situations than urs, but they bottle it up in their heart and goes out pretending all is well.

Problems shared is always half solved.

Marriage is an institution we never can graduate from, Reading thru you post, i'm glad u know Christ, invite him into ur home and he will take control, show ur husband much love, try talking to him i mean watch out when u know he's really in a good mood, pour your heart out to him, tell him the areas you really appreciate him and the areas u will like him to improve upon. tell him all of this in love not quarrels or nagging. Tell him why you people should try and plan for ur future not for your sake (2 of u) but for the sake of your son. Tell him the plans u have on ground and how u think both of u can implement it. Tell him how he's the best man to you and how u will re-marry him again in the other world if there's any. This will boost his ego and make him listen to u even if he doesn't want to.

Pls and pls never you try comparing him to other men and what they are doing to their family. Appreciate him always even when he's doing the wrong thing, i must confess its not easy but it works like magic.

After all said and done, NEVER you reminds him of his short comings. DO YOUR BEST TO MAKE UR MARRIAGE WORK MY DEAR,

If not for any one else but ur SON. No marriage outside is perfect all have its ups and down.

Singlehood after you have tested marriage is NOT the best, don't allow anyone deceive u, The loneliness is worst compare to when you were not married.

The society we are always see divorcee as the worst people on earth even when the know the truth behind it. Pls pray  and ask God to grant u wisdom on how to build your home and with the help of the Holy Spirit he will rebuild your home to the best in Jesus name.

Every morning when you wake up, go on your knees and  pray to God to bless him and keep him for you, Always pray to his hearing and my dear it was the little secret that brings the turn around in my own marriage.

It will work for you too in Jesus name.


Lastly never complain but rejoice and give thanks always because God that instituted marriage will surely perfect your home in Jesus name, AMEN

Luv.

Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

123Sonia I miss u 

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Posted: at 25-07-2011 12:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

50 how was ur weekend dear?

Posted: at 25-07-2011 12:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Fantastic

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Posted: at 25-07-2011 12:14 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

How many times do
I have to tell you I enjoy your afang soup
With everything u do for me

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Posted: at 25-07-2011 12:22 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 25-07-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

u have a problem eziokwu

Posted: at 25-07-2011 12:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac