Extended family gives an Ultimatum "Get Married or Else..." (Page 7)

Date: 12-08-2011 6:41 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Darky
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- estilizo at 15-08-2011 03:11 PM (12 years ago)
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someone needs to be metally and physically ready to go into marriage.We are not in the stone age,where we are been forced to get married,so babe be yourself and maybe give that a taught too.

Posted: at 15-08-2011 03:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- precita at 15-08-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago)
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wat is she waiting 4 at 31 dats ricks oh she shud be hapi there ve remained ha abt ha marital status she sud get marred and then can continue with ha studies marriage wont stop ha education pls   
Posted: at 15-08-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Angelita2 at 15-08-2011 04:05 PM (12 years ago)
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she should get married jare.
Posted: at 15-08-2011 04:05 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Moonjin at 15-08-2011 04:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Leave the country and follow her heart.
Posted: at 15-08-2011 04:12 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- samorlar at 15-08-2011 04:23 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: drnoel on 13-08-2011 12:56 PM
Quote from: slice on 13-08-2011 07:35 AM
I just pity her watin she dey use all the education 4, at the end she go end up inside kitchen. The education she hard, i think is enof for her. ladies get old faster than guys, u can't compeer a lady @ 30 to a guy @ 35 i bet u the guy will look more younger dan her. i know fully well that guys don't go for ladies who facial looks is older than there own, instead they go for young girls @ the age of 25. so plz b4 it is too late go and get married.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Guy, I don't really think u believe what u just wrote. She won't be very happy 2 read ur comment, though I will forward it 2 her (cos that is my agreement with her). She is currently fighting it out with her family on the pain of being ostracized. Besides, who mentioned that all her degrees will end up in the kitchen, sorry that is no more obtainable. Its her decision, if she would have a career or get married. So try not 2 be myopic...
Abi o, i dont know who told him women education ends in kitchen, to my dear sis, just follow ur mind, dont rush but be prayerful so that when the rit man comes u w nt miss him, the Lord will c u tru
Posted: at 15-08-2011 04:23 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- AlphaOscar at 15-08-2011 04:52 PM (12 years ago)
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People are still leaving in dark times. with due respect, this is very common among our people from east.
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- dappa at 15-08-2011 05:13 PM (12 years ago)
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don''t cry , education  gives you all that you need ,nigeria need educated people, do not mind the presure.
Posted: at 15-08-2011 05:13 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- moniconyez at 15-08-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago)
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WOMAN MARRY NOW OOO, U DON OLD.  Grin OR U THINK SAY YOU BE 13? COS WHEN NAIJA LADY TELL U SAY SHE BE 31, CHECK AM WELL WELL NA 41 SHE DEY APPROACH  LOL  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 15-08-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- charmingzeo at 15-08-2011 05:41 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmmm guys 2 be frank with you all, i sincerely pity those that gave the idea that she show go for marriage when she is'nt ready for it or has'nt found the right man come her way, it is'nt anybody's fault when they think marriage is'nt just right for them right now, same also goes to the male not only her that we should all achieve our dreams and desires b4 being forced to do what we do not wish to do, when the time right for her and she finds the right man i strongly believe and tell you all that she would be the one pressurizing the man for marriage. So please my dear i would encourage you to pursue what your heart desires you to do just take your time and focus on the future because i believe the future is green for you and it is for us all Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss  
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- HISJOY at 15-08-2011 08:12 PM (12 years ago)
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as she wishes
Posted: at 15-08-2011 08:12 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- virgineve at 15-08-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Thats not Ibo culture though marriage too is important
Posted: at 15-08-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- skyleo at 16-08-2011 09:39 AM (12 years ago)
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Well everything in this life is matter of choice, she can wait till anytime she feel like. But the most important thing in life is happiness if she thinks she can be happy at the end without a man in her life let her go ahead with her education. Once a lady is approaching 30years she is no more a lady, either married or be a single she is a woman. No guy out there that is ready to marry a woman but a lady, even not just a lady, a looking good lady, but later if she change her mind she will also find a married man that will marry her as a 2nd or 3rd wife at the end of all a career. The game is hers.
Posted: at 16-08-2011 09:39 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Gentledove102 at 16-08-2011 03:00 PM (12 years ago)
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its very important to know the meaning before jumping into it
Posted: at 16-08-2011 03:00 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- drnoel at 16-08-2011 05:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: skyleo on 16-08-2011 09:39 AM
Well everything in this life is matter of choice, she can wait till anytime she feel like. But the most important thing in life is happiness if she thinks she can be happy at the end without a man in her life let her go ahead with her education. Once a lady is approaching 30years she is no more a lady, either married or be a single she is a woman. No guy out there that is ready to marry a woman but a lady, even not just a lady, a looking good lady, but later if she change her mind she will also find a married man that will marry her as a 2nd or 3rd wife at the end of all a career. The game is hers.

Sorry bros but I don't agree with you. What you said is not true, it is only your opinion...Say what you know, not what you think is obtainable

Posted: at 16-08-2011 05:04 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tambeiort at 16-08-2011 08:14 PM (12 years ago)
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@poster u forgot to tell how heart brakes she mate on the way all this 31yrs journey.
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- kelechi86 at 16-08-2011 10:28 PM (12 years ago)
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she can do both if the suitor is available and understanding
Posted: at 16-08-2011 10:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- KingE at 17-08-2011 02:50 AM (12 years ago)
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Na dat yeye Extended family get her life instead of them to be happy for her imagine @ 31 a lady under the process her Doctorate Degree instead those illetrate wan put bad luck. Gal carry own infact go to place where they can neva c u again n when U get ur PhD Then look for some that will want to get marry that way n bring her to ur parents for blessings period
Posted: at 17-08-2011 02:50 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Imade4life at 17-08-2011 04:02 PM (12 years ago)
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I think is time for u to get MARRIED oooooooooooooooooo live education for now u can get back later.
Posted: at 17-08-2011 04:02 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Ecto at 21-08-2011 06:28 AM (12 years ago)
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CAPITAL NO
Posted: at 21-08-2011 06:28 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moniconyez at 21-08-2011 02:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: inegbemo on 21-08-2011 08:52 AM
GIRL GET MARRIED OK AT YOUR AGE YOU SHOULD BE IN YOUR HUSBAND HOUSE NOT LECTURER CLASS OR ELSE............................

TELL HER Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin COS DEGREE WITH NO HUSBAND IN NAIJA IS? Lips Sealed
Posted: at 21-08-2011 02:49 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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