help!help he needs a urgent engagement. (Page 7)

Poster, marriage is like your Protective brother, your understandable sister, your kindhearted mother, your Brave Father, and your true best friend. If you don't see any of these things in him, please hold your peace and help him out. Remember Courtship is a learning process, and not the road to the ALTAR. if there is no change in this man then definitely he is a mama's boy. He can't make decision on his own. (Hope not!)
He suppose to lead you, but plz do not be fast to judge the cover of his book because you guys are only two yrs old in this race. You are very lucky my sister to have meet a guy who is free of himself because some men will pretend in such a way that you will never care to investigate anything about him b4 saying "I Do" as the end you find every man to blame for your ignorant. But guess what? Your man is open/been himself at the same time so you have plenty of time to teach him what he needs to know.
Men does not come to us if we can't help them become somebody. So my sis accept the proposal, but do not jump into any marriage thing with him until you have read him, understand him, accepted him for him. Until you are sure that you can tolerate some nonsense from him. Please oh....time is the master, and the master is God. So let Time and Nature lead the way....Ku LUCK!