Crying and Smiling wives (Page 9)

Date: 13-11-2011 10:31 pm (13 years ago) | Author: lynn
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- lynnclassic at 15-11-2011 09:24 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: MYKELGUY on 15-11-2011 09:07 AM
95% of the most are unfaithful to the point that there wife is even away of their wayward life.They dont regard their wife at all.And sometimes if she got the gut to question their infidelity ,she wouldn't like the result
that is the painful thing no respect at all for their wives, how can u talk about it? u know n so what??
Posted: at 15-11-2011 09:24 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyiis at 15-11-2011 09:42 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Chibon on 13-11-2011 11:59 PM
Wen i saw dz post,i culdnt help shedding tears cos am among doz crying n smiling wives.d man i knw and married has completely changed.he belives i have no other choice than to stay and take his dsgusting attitudes to me.i hardly know wat hs doing with wen i ask am told to mind mybusnes n let hm be.he bullies me.shouts at me even in public .am so miserable.he belves a womans place is in the kitchen.i cannt take a decision in the house and he accepts it.everythng lies n ends in hs command.some1 talk 2me cos am gradualy losing it pls

did u court him ?

Posted: at 15-11-2011 09:42 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- MYKELGUY at 15-11-2011 10:06 AM (12 years ago)
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onyii pls am a newbie pls how can i copy  a comment i want to comment on.I have been using copy and paste method but it isn't working that way.
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- onyiis at 15-11-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago)
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just above that particular comment , there is a "quote" icon , click on it a box will open and then write ur comment below in the box

Posted: at 15-11-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2011 10:13 AM (12 years ago)
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MMRS QUOTA Tongue

Posted: at 15-11-2011 10:13 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- priceless87 at 15-11-2011 10:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Chibon on 13-11-2011 11:59 PM
Wen i saw dz post,i culdnt help shedding tears cos am among doz crying n smiling wives.d man i knw and married has completely changed.he belives i have no other choice than to stay and take his dsgusting attitudes to me.i hardly know wat hs doing with wen i ask am told to mind mybusnes n let hm be.he bullies me.shouts at me even in public .am so miserable.he belves a womans place is in the kitchen.i cannt take a decision in the house and he accepts it.everythng lies n ends in hs command.some1 talk 2me cos am gradualy losing it pls
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oh dear, pls be strong. I feel your pain and i know exactly what you are going through.

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not to be endured. It's well with you and your marriage IJN
Posted: at 15-11-2011 10:23 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Annizzle at 15-11-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago)
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It's sad you know. This is a very sensitive issue. The bottom line is that if a man or a woman is not ready to keep to any commitment. It's better you don't marry. Marriage is not a must. It is a institution by God which requires commitment , respect , faithfulness , sacrifices, patience.. the list could go on and on. Men respect your woman and women should do the same.
 My heart goes to all the married men and women who have been mistreated in their marriage.  Communication is essential in marriage..ladies are fond of keeping things  to themselves.
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- onyiis at 15-11-2011 11:04 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 15-11-2011 10:13 AM
MMRS QUOTA Tongue

 Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 15-11-2011 11:04 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 15-11-2011 11:05 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chisparlis on 15-11-2011 11:01 AM
YOU ARE A VERY STUPID GUY...BIG ONE FOR THAT MATTER, WHEN A WOMAN TELLS YOU HOW SHE FEEL ABOUT HER HUSBAND WHO ARE YOU TO SAY YOU WILL REVIEW HIS SECRETE. ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY HER HUSBAND DOES NOT QUALIFY ALL THOSE QUALITIES SHE MENTIONED BECAUSE I KNOW YOU ARE THE TYPE OF GUY OR MAN THAT GO AROUND SPOILING MARRIED WOMEN MIND AND SLEEPING WITH THEM...GUY YOU BE LIKE DEVIL TO ME AND I HATE YOU DIEEE Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

easy bros  Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 15-11-2011 11:05 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2011 11:08 AM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin

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- chikaj26 at 15-11-2011 11:11 AM (12 years ago)
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This a very good question which I know that It is only very few men would honestly talk about..
In my own view.. I have done a lot of personal but secret research on this and I can say that:

1) Our Culture is unfair when it comes to men and women relationship..
No body teaches us practically well that why you should involve in courtship, in the first place even as a kid is for Marriage.
In our society, it is clearly assumed that you have so much right to live your life to fullest with different girls and when It is time for marriage, you now look for the wife material to marry. But how possible does it sound to you, that just because you got married now will make you to stop the chronic habit of seeing other women suddenly. When some also keep another woman out at their bachelors eve night.
This is not same in so many other Countries I know.

2)Lack of Men  3) Immorality increase in the power sector. (Bad leadership)  If you want to know more of this I can send you the full details later.. Just a tip of an iceberg.
Posted: at 15-11-2011 11:11 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- chikaj26 at 15-11-2011 11:16 AM (12 years ago)
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This a very good question which I know that It is only very few men would honestly talk about..
In my own view.. I have done a lot of personal but secret research on this and I can say that:

1) Our Culture is unfair when it comes to men and women relationship..
No body teaches us practically well that why you should involve in courtship, in the first place even as a kid is for Marriage.
In our society, it is clearly assumed that you have so much right to live your life to fullest with different girls and when It is time for marriage, you now look for the wife material to marry. But how possible does it sound to you, that just because you got married now will make you to stop the chronic habit of seeing other women suddenly. When some also keep another woman out at their bachelors eve night.
This is not same in so many other Countries I know.

2)Lack of Men  3) Immorality increase in the power sector. (Bad leadership)  If you want to know more of this I can send you the full details later.. Just a tip of an iceberg.
Posted: at 15-11-2011 11:16 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Annizzle at 15-11-2011 11:34 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: nnamdibolt on 14-11-2011 10:00 AM
this may happen when the man feels the wife is now old and can't satisfy them any more unlike when they were young and sexy{SELFISH},or maybe the wife no longer treat there husband with respect.so they would look for those who would value them.

Marriage is for better for worst.
   
  Does he think, he doesn't gets weak and old that he can't satisfy his wife any more. Common there are so many young fresh dudes looking for sugar mummy, women too like active dudes as well. Don't forget that there are some women who have high sex drive.
     When it comes to respect some women loose it I agree. But a sensible man who love his wife honestly would talk to her about it rather than letting the issue of her disrespecting lie under the carpet.
 -God is important in every marriage
- Respect..it's a two way thing.
- Communication  is very important. It's very worrying how couples do not communicate with each other. There is no room for        assumptions here. If your not happy about anything  talk about it in a nice manner, no nagging, shouting etc..
-CRITICISM: This is where the whole problem starts and women are good at this. Mind the way you criticize your man cos it hurts their ego.    
Posted: at 15-11-2011 11:34 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyiis at 15-11-2011 11:43 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chisparlis on 15-11-2011 11:25 AM
Na your father mate you de call man...he is 58 years old put little sir even if you are richer than him, this Nigerian guys lack respect for their elders....................

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 15-11-2011 11:43 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2011 11:47 AM (12 years ago)
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 :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

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- onyiis at 15-11-2011 11:49 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 15-11-2011 11:47 AM
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

why u dey cry ?

Posted: at 15-11-2011 11:49 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2011 11:59 AM (12 years ago)
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am nt smilling

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- onyiis at 15-11-2011 12:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 15-11-2011 11:59 AM
am nt smilling

yea , i can see ur tears

Posted: at 15-11-2011 12:36 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2011 12:39 PM (12 years ago)
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 :'(

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- Shetalent at 15-11-2011 12:44 PM (12 years ago)
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na wah, one gat to look well b4 settln down
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