Am Married & Having a Crush On Another (Page 3)

Date: 24-04-2012 10:12 am (12 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- rowlandlove at 24-04-2012 02:33 PM (12 years ago)
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hi i will love to add to what others say ,please be ur self and be self controled  ,and come to think of it u marrried and respect that manto of been an house wife it's very important u stay away
Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:33 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- osupia at 24-04-2012 02:37 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-04-2012 10:12 AM
I'm a female, 28 years old. My Husband is a little older than me, 32, and we are married for 3-4 years now;dated for 2 years before that. I don't really have any major complaints with my husband, just the usual marital ups-downs. I started Post graduate school in 2011 and most of my classes involve group work. We are usually assigned to groups by professors and some professors allow us to choose our group members. So I happened to know this guy. There were no feelings in the first semester and we were all getting to know each other. Now, since the beginning of this semester, Jan 2012, I've realized that I'm a little attracted to this guy.

This guy is actually younger to me(27 years old), of a different ethnicity, of a different religion and yet I feel a strong connection. He seems to have a lot of principles, my husband does too, but I've not met too many men with principles. He does not behave his age, he actually acts older like may be a 30 year old or something. I'm so attracted that I've actually started dressing - up for my classes, which I never did in my first semester. I look forward to seeing him, to talking to him and just being with him. We usually only discuss classes/study. He knows i'm married and we both never hang out or something(this is because of lack of time and if he would invite me to hang out, i might end up going!!). I feel so sad to say this but I'm even segxwally attracted to him to a small extent. This guy is not the drop-dead good looking guy, his looks are not even average. I shoudn't say this but I want to mention it to let you all know that my attraction is not just physical. We had a  break 2 weeks ago and not seeing him for 2 weeks is killing me.

I am a very self controlled and disciplined person myself and I'm feeling so silly and small to know that I have this issue. I've never ever found any guy more attractive than my husband.I will be gradauting in december and that thought is scarying me because i won't be able to see this guy. I feel I'm acting like a teenager

What's going on here with me? I don't even want advice like " stay away" etc because I know that's what I should be doing anyway. I am aware that this is totally wrong and immoral of me. I feel guilty but the excitement is also addictive. May be there are issues in my marriage that need to be fixed, but I seriosuly don't even think about my marriage these days. All on my mind is : my classes, exams, this guy, dressing - up, talking to him and being together.

P.S.: I feel so bad admitting to this. .. I need ur advices..

Matured comments please
She lack all those claims......................................she needs to tell her self the truth if not there's nothing anybody can do about it  Sad Sad Sad
Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:37 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 02:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: paulyoungd1st on 24-04-2012 02:20 PM
slippery slope, curb watever feelings u have for that guy now before it ruins your life. marriage sucks sometimes as it limits you but once u r in der u jst hv to bear it.. besides nothing good can ever com out from ur lust 4 ds guy..diff religions?? it'l never work out..mayb jst a few rounds of steamy hot sex and den its over..then you have to live wt d guilt forever..not worth it..stay away

thx

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:39 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 02:40 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: osupia on 24-04-2012 02:37 PM
She lack all those claims......................................she needs to tell her self the truth if not there's nothing anybody can do about it  Sad Sad Sad

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:40 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 24-04-2012 02:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Nor mind her,... She dey like to put one leg for house and outside...she feels like having all the men to herself..greedy woman..one dick for reach you again u won join another one..,u never hear sa..the thing wa dey sweet person well dey kill am.. U never fit phyuk your man finish u won add another one join...listen poster make I see you get close to that dude again...I go set fire on you.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 24-04-2012 02:42 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-04-2012 02:39 PM
thx
U re welcome

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:42 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 02:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: southpool16 on 24-04-2012 02:25 PM
In this issue you have to be strong on your fillings thank God you can control your self, this is normal for some ppl, i know this fillings well at the begining its sweet but at the end is  Cry, but be strong and put it in pratice by stope seen this fellow or be carefull what you discuses with him becos that will push him more forder, just finish your study and stope any contact with the fellow it may pain you but it will not harm you for sure, is for your own benefits if you truely love your husband, and remember this is a temptetion if you are not carefull by time you DO it your eyes will be OPEN and then your problem will become dobble and dificult, the bible says LOVE THE ONE YOU MARRY, is not love the one you want to marry i wish you mentalstrong.

ur a darling

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:43 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 02:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 24-04-2012 02:41 PM
Nor mind her,... She dey like to put one leg for house and outside...she feels like having all the men to herself..greedy woman..one d*1*ck for reach you again u won join another one..,u never hear sa..the thing wa dey sweet person well dey kill am.. U never fit fcuk your man finish u won add another one join...listen poster make I see you get close to that dude again...I go set fire on you.

 Grin Grin Grin Grin yeye woman... make i catch u near my man..i go burn ur honeypot even b4 u open am for am  Grin

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 24-04-2012 02:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-04-2012 02:45 PM
Grin Grin Grin Grin yeye woman... make i catch u near my man..i go burn ur p**sy even b4 u open am for am  Grin
I nor wants your hubby self..,but na u dey eye someone own..ola

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:47 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 02:50 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:50 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osupia at 24-04-2012 02:50 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-04-2012 02:45 PM
Grin Grin Grin Grin yeye woman... make i catch u near my man..i go burn ur p**sy even b4 u open am for am  Grin
kikikikikikkikikikikikkikikikikikikikikkii............................SOPHI!! what? what? na  happiness u want waste ooooooooooooooo
Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:50 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 02:51 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:51 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osupia at 24-04-2012 02:52 PM (12 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:52 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 02:55 PM (12 years ago)
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 Kiss Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:55 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ikwo1 at 24-04-2012 02:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 24-04-2012 02:21 PM
Nice advice
Are you married?  Just asking
u want to marry him?
Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:57 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dora11 at 24-04-2012 02:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Sophi dear,pls try and controlled ur feelings.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:59 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- osupia at 24-04-2012 03:00 PM (12 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 24-04-2012 03:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Dora11 at 24-04-2012 03:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Na weti?
Posted: at 24-04-2012 03:02 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Treasure2 at 24-04-2012 03:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-04-2012 02:45 PM
Grin Grin Grin Grin yeye woman... make i catch u near my man..i go burn ur p**sy even b4 u open am for am  Grin
Hmm, are you sure?
Posted: at 24-04-2012 03:04 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-04-2012 03:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Dora11 on 24-04-2012 02:59 PM
Sophi dear,pls try and controlled ur feelings.

ok dear

Posted: at 24-04-2012 03:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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