wat do u think about sex b4 marriage (Page 5)

@spicychap, ofcourse there is...a couple can be swimmin in da ocean of love but pathetic when it comes to bedmantics...The man may wanna try new things and the girl wil be ok with only the conentional stuffs...so on and so forth. Yu need to make sure both of you are compatible in bed....

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Posted: at 26-03-2008 10:36 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Is Ukoma a virgin???

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Posted: at 27-03-2008 12:23 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ofcourse not, how could he still be a virgin after last night?..

Posted: at 27-03-2008 03:32 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

lol, it was perfect. I mean do you see him around anywhere?..still recuperating cuz i put da workin on him.

Posted: at 27-03-2008 09:09 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

he has been avoiding that question since the day he joined...coz thats the day when i first asked....

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Posted: at 27-03-2008 12:51 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 the bible says it is wrong but we say it is rite

Posted: at 27-03-2008 07:32 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

Its so good to know that people like u still live in the earth. i really appreciate wat uve said so far

Men are naturally hunters! That’s the way God made them. The sex drive of men is much more powerful than that of women, naturally. Unfortunately, not many men have the ability or the desire to control their sex drive. If a guy is so much in love and he says the only way for you to show your love is by sleeping with you, he’s a liar. He is not in love, he is in Lust! If you are stupid enough to fall for his seduction, you will regret it. Tell him to wait until you get married. If he can’t wait, let him run off somewhere. Believe me, you haven’t lost anything. He’s just a Billy Goat in heat!


Wanna thank u all for ur comments on this topic of sex. i can only deduce that most of u guys think having sex during a relationship is a reward or a price to pay to your girl/boyfriend which is not so. for God sake if im going out with someone and the person thinks for him to be sure of mi love for him or that he wants to have something that even if i dont marry him, he wont be sad........dats pure rubbish, i rather burn the eprson,he is not worth mi love or sacrifice.

True love is being trustworty to the person you fall for, share your problems together, plan for your future together and always stand by each other every moment of ur lives. Love is very great and always cause problem among uurselves. Sex is not worth given out in a relationship or courtship but only when married. Any man that require for sex is surely going to be a betrayal then why lose ur virginity or ur self esteem/personality just like dat because u dont want him to go or wateva. Be ur self and u will be love by ur future person than the pretenders that exists right now.

My people of nigeria lets be ourselves and not to copy the whites nature. thanks to everyone that read this blog....do have a nice time

Posted: at 27-03-2008 08:14 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

guys pls i love this thread,why dont we want to be realistic,for guys it's not easy
u grab any opportunity thats comes your way

Posted: at 27-03-2008 08:17 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

@myra, lucabraccio,etc I feel pity reading ur post. i agree that we cant judge people or choice how people should live their life but as a matter of fact "u gat to do the right thing at the right time" SEX IS NOT SOMETHING DONE OUTSIDE MARRIAGE.

Emotions they say is like a wildfire, never satisfied, ready to consume everything on its way. Decisions create events. Decide for the good of yourself and God. If you are in a relationship and your spouse wants to have it (all the time), it is better you call it off before harm is done. Sex is not what you do to cool off outside marriage. It is a sacred relationship to be enjoyed in the sanctity of a marriage context.

THE THREE THINGS ABOUT SEX

1. Sex is progressive in nature
You don’t always decide to have sex outside marriage but most people end up having sex because they do not understand the law of progression. The law says you always move towards greater physical intimacy with your partner unless you consciously decide against it. What satisfied you the last time you met will not satisfy you the next time you meet. So there had to be a conscious agreement as to what not to do in the context of any relationship which neccessarily needs the backup of God’s word.

2. Sex is not love
Whoever wants you to prove your love by consenting to sex outside marriage is a compound fool. There is no love in that context, only gratification of an hormonal rush that will bring unprecedented heartaches. That sex equals love is an eternal aberration.

3. Sex is not the most important thing.
Food is more important than sex. You cannot survive for a year without eating, but I do know of people who survived for years without sex! They've never had sex until they got married. Sex appears urgent, but what is urgent is not necessarily important. Sex can wait. You can wait. God wants you to wait.

U gat to be sincere with yourself. Never be caught up with self-deceit. Be straightforward so that your destiny can be straight. One degree away from truth is also falsehood. When fire is brewing under you, don’t act as if you’re in ‘A.C’. You can only correct what you confront. Seek help. Don’t hide. The extent of your vulnerability is the degree to which you are secretive about your weaknesses.

Posted: at 27-03-2008 08:27 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

gal wat church do u attend
u dont like a virgin to me

Posted: at 27-03-2008 08:41 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie