Qualities Of a Life Partner

Date: 30-05-2012 10:50 am (12 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- at 30-05-2012 10:50 AM (12 years ago)
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Finding a life partner could be very challenging. At times we may not know what they want. Here are a few characteristics which you can look for in a mate. Note however, that there is no such thing as perfect, so you may not find someone with all the characteristics listed below.

• Accepting you for who you are
• Could be a shoulder to lean on
• Admits when he/she is wrong
• Don't gossip or acts as a busybody or encourages you in any such thing
• Possesses patience
• Allows you to be yourself in his/her presence and even when you are in the company of friends
• Godly
• Even though he/she doesn't have much book sense, he/she must have common sense. That is the ability to think off the back of his/her head.
• Is willing to compromise, at least just enough to make things better.
• Honest and truthful about everything including emotions, the past, present and future.
• Willing to wait
• Knows how to dress and in a modest manner
• Can be trusted with other friends
• Supportive and trusts your decision-making and vice versa.
• Faithful and committed to the relationship for the long-term
• Someone who knows how to lead. But is not a dictator.
• Someone strong, well-built in statue
• Considerate towards others
• Can be able to parent his/her children
• Can be trusted when alone together
• Is sure of what he/she wants to accomplish in life
• Does not pressure you or ask you to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable.
• Punctual and conscious of time
• Believes it when you pray, and have faith in God.
• Loves in spite of faults and weaknesses
• A good conversationalist
• Ambitious
• Have a good job or career
• Don't follow the crowd or what others are doing
• Understanding
• Respects you as well as his/her family members and those in authority
• Fun to be with or have a good sense of humour
• Don't give up easily and is willing to go the extra mile
• Loves to pray in everything or in every situation
• Don't get jealous when you talk with other friends
• Helpful towards you and towards people in need
• Not boastful or bragging
• Could be a shoulder to lean on
• Don't make promises he/she can't keep
• Don't embarrass you in front of others
• Open minded
• Has a positive outlook on life
• Don't bring up the past
• Has good money management
• Have a car or a driver's license with the intention of getting a car
• Have his/her own place or is looking or building one
• Neat and tidy
• Available when you need him/her
• Knows when to be quiet, talk, stop, tell you something nice etc.
• Is sure of himself/herself. That is, he/she has a high level of self-esteem and self-confidence


Posted: at 30-05-2012 10:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- Bachelorette at 30-05-2012 10:55 AM (12 years ago)
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Jezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....what is any or few of dem are missing. will I remain single all my life?

Posted: at 30-05-2012 10:55 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 30-05-2012 11:01 AM (12 years ago)
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lolzzzzzzzz..u better start warming up with these qualities Grin

Posted: at 30-05-2012 11:01 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 30-05-2012 11:07 AM (12 years ago)
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Hmmmmm, much novel to read but none to put in Practice.
Posted: at 30-05-2012 11:07 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- omomarty at 30-05-2012 12:11 PM (12 years ago)
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i go read am later
Posted: at 30-05-2012 12:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 30-05-2012 02:10 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 30-05-2012 11:07 AM
Hmmmmm, much novel to read but none to put in Practice.

u read posts...novels longer than these..but not to worry..i got ur reasons on why u r commenting dis way sis..nobotodaynyanshdeyback

Posted: at 30-05-2012 02:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 30-05-2012 02:19 PM (12 years ago)
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something is cooking  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked i see conspiracy  Angry

Posted: at 30-05-2012 02:19 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 30-05-2012 02:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on 30-05-2012 10:55 AM
Jezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....what is any or few of dem are missing. will I remain single all my life?
no be small thingz Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 30-05-2012 02:20 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 30-05-2012 03:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-05-2012 10:50 AM
Finding a life partner could be very challenging. At times we may not know what they want. Here are a few characteristics which you can look for in a mate. Note however, that there is no such thing as perfect, so you may not find someone with all the characteristics listed below.

• Accepting you for who you are
• Could be a shoulder to lean on
• Admits when he/she is wrong
• Don't gossip or acts as a busybody or encourages you in any such thing
• Possesses patience
• Allows you to be yourself in his/her presence and even when you are in the company of friends
• Godly
• Even though he/she doesn't have much book sense, he/she must have common sense. That is the ability to think off the back of his/her head.
• Is willing to compromise, at least just enough to make things better.
• Honest and truthful about everything including emotions, the past, present and future.
• Willing to wait
• Knows how to dress and in a modest manner
• Can be trusted with other friends
• Supportive and trusts your decision-making and vice versa.
• Faithful and committed to the relationship for the long-term
• Someone who knows how to lead. But is not a dictator.
• Someone strong, well-built in statue
• Considerate towards others
• Can be able to parent his/her children
• Can be trusted when alone together
• Is sure of what he/she wants to accomplish in life
• Does not pressure you or ask you to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable.
• Punctual and conscious of time
• Believes it when you pray, and have faith in God.
• Loves in spite of faults and weaknesses
• A good conversationalist
• Ambitious
• Have a good job or career
• Don't follow the crowd or what others are doing
• Understanding
• Respects you as well as his/her family members and those in authority
• Fun to be with or have a good sense of humour
• Don't give up easily and is willing to go the extra mile
• Loves to pray in everything or in every situation
• Don't get jealous when you talk with other friends
• Helpful towards you and towards people in need
• Not boastful or bragging
• Could be a shoulder to lean on
• Don't make promises he/she can't keep
• Don't embarrass you in front of others
• Open minded
• Has a positive outlook on life
• Don't bring up the past
• Has good money management
• Have a car or a driver's license with the intention of getting a car
• Have his/her own place or is looking or building one
• Neat and tidy
• Available when you need him/her
• Knows when to be quiet, talk, stop, tell you something nice etc.
• Is sure of himself/herself. That is, he/she has a high level of self-esteem and self-confidence

i dont bliv in most of the posts especial the strike through one............yu dont tell a man how yu feel abt him bcos he might use it against yu.......we let them feel the it rather than saying it so they dont take yu for guarented .............another one is abt the PAST'' let the dead burry themselves.............since it is past why reincarnating something that might ruin ur r/ship?? unless the person is virgin mary if not we all ve a story to tell..............i 'did advice that the past shud remain past Wink Wink

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:14 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 30-05-2012 03:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 30-05-2012 03:14 PM
i dont bliv in most of the posts especial the strike through one............yu dont tell a man how yu feel abt him bcos he might use it against yu.......we let them feel the it rather than saying it so they dont take yu for guarented .............another one is abt the PAST'' let the dead burry themselves.............since it is past why reincarnating something that might ruin ur r/ship?? unless the person is virgin mary if not we all ve a story to tell..............i 'did advice that the past shud remain past Wink Wink

thankGod sey u read am..... Grin

nyways..what works for u cant work for me..as for me..there are some past that needs to be told...i tell abt my past..what i wudnt buy is when u use it against me..and dat alone can brk us..

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Adikpe at 30-05-2012 03:26 PM (12 years ago)
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all these qualities? ...then nobody go marry be that na.
Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:26 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 30-05-2012 03:28 PM (12 years ago)
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no one is perfect...look well into it.. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:28 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 30-05-2012 03:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 30-05-2012 02:19 PM
something is cooking  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked i see conspiracy  Angry

no one is conspiring against any..or are u?

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:29 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 30-05-2012 03:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-05-2012 03:25 PM
thankGod sey u read am..... Grin

nyways..what works for u cant work for me..as for me..there are some past that needs to be told...i tell abt my past..what i wudnt buy is when u use it against me..and dat alone can brk us..
exactly why we shud let the sleeping dog lay Cool i try finish em bcos am less busy today Roll Eyes

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 30-05-2012 03:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-05-2012 03:29 PM
no one is conspiring against any..or are u?
did yu see me online Huh?

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 30-05-2012 03:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 30-05-2012 03:30 PM
did yu see me online Huh?

not at all

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:34 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 30-05-2012 03:36 PM (12 years ago)
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 Tongue

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Adikpe at 30-05-2012 03:37 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-05-2012 03:28 PM
no one is perfect...look well into it.. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin


.....okay, I go shine my eye well well.
Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:37 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 30-05-2012 03:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on 30-05-2012 03:37 PM

.....okay, I go shine my eye well well.

u beta do..cos better woman dey rare

Posted: at 30-05-2012 03:39 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- elton at 28-06-2012 05:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 30-05-2012 10:50 AM
Finding a life partner could be very challenging. At times we may not know what they want. Here are a few characteristics which you can look for in a mate. Note however, that there is no such thing as perfect, so you may not find someone with all the characteristics listed below.

• Accepting you for who you are
• Could be a shoulder to lean on
• Admits when he/she is wrong
• Don't gossip or acts as a busybody or encourages you in any such thing
• Possesses patience
• Allows you to be yourself in his/her presence and even when you are in the company of friends
• Godly
• Even though he/she doesn't have much book sense, he/she must have common sense. That is the ability to think off the back of his/her head.
• Is willing to compromise, at least just enough to make things better.
• Honest and truthful about everything including emotions, the past, present and future.
• Willing to wait
• Knows how to dress and in a modest manner
• Can be trusted with other friends
• Supportive and trusts your decision-making and vice versa.
• Faithful and committed to the relationship for the long-term
• Someone who knows how to lead. But is not a dictator.
• Someone strong, well-built in statue
• Considerate towards others
• Can be able to parent his/her children
• Can be trusted when alone together
• Is sure of what he/she wants to accomplish in life
• Does not pressure you or ask you to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable.
• Punctual and conscious of time
• Believes it when you pray, and have faith in God.
• Loves in spite of faults and weaknesses
• A good conversationalist
• Ambitious
• Have a good job or career
• Don't follow the crowd or what others are doing
• Understanding
• Respects you as well as his/her family members and those in authority
• Fun to be with or have a good sense of humour
• Don't give up easily and is willing to go the extra mile
• Loves to pray in everything or in every situation
• Don't get jealous when you talk with other friends
• Helpful towards you and towards people in need
• Not boastful or bragging
• Could be a shoulder to lean on
• Don't make promises he/she can't keep
• Don't embarrass you in front of others
• Open minded
• Has a positive outlook on life
• Don't bring up the past
• Has good money management
• Have a car or a driver's license with the intention of getting a car
• Have his/her own place or is looking or building one
• Neat and tidy
• Available when you need him/her
• Knows when to be quiet, talk, stop, tell you something nice etc.
• Is sure of himself/herself. That is, he/she has a high level of self-esteem and self-confidence

i have them all wat re we wait for? Huh? Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 28-06-2012 05:44 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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