I have been married for five wonderful years. We have it all mutual understanding, common interests, good sex life, nothing to complain about not even financial troubles. But I have a problem.
My husband is one of those charming men with perfect manners who captivate everyone with ease. That is one of the reasons why I married him but nowadays this part of his personality makes me nervous.
It really bothers me when he pays attention to other women or when they pay too much attention to him. It doesn’t matter if it is a family friend, a waitress, the next door neighbor or even my sister. I get unreasonably angry and start thinking he is cheating on me with the woman he is talking to. I bite my tongue and think of a reason why they should end the conversation.
The monotony is killing me and I think it does the same to him. So I don’t understand why his innocent flirting is bothering me so much.
I hate that I spoil my own mood because of such trivial things.
Posted: at 1-06-2012 09:51 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Treasure2 at 1-06-2012 09:56 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Woman if you don't put the word CONTROL on your jealousy, you will be shown the EXIT very soon. Don't destroy what you have worked hard to build just bc of greeting. You don't hv any issue at any. Keep your soul and spirit busy with something positive and forget who He greet or not.
Posted: at 1-06-2012 09:56 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Treasure2 at 1-06-2012 09:57 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 1-06-2012 09:56 AM
Woman if you don't put the word CONTROL on your jealousy, you will be shown the EXIT very soon. Don't destroy what you have worked hard to build just bc of greeting. You don't hv any issue at all. Keep your soul and spirit busy with something positive and forget who He greet or not.
Posted: at 1-06-2012 09:57 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Eewe,am not married but with the little have learned from a few married women around,it doesn't worth it getting unnecessarily worked up if you see your man with other women,when it gets too much,you would push him out by yourself. Just continue being the good lady that you are and pray your hubby doesn't get tempted outside(although that is not easy cos men are naturally polygamous). Just calm your nerves.
i love me
Posted: at 1-06-2012 09:57 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Eewe,am not married but with the little have learned from a few married women around,it doesn't worth it getting unnecessarily worked up if you see your man with other women,when it gets too much,you would push him out by yourself. Just continue being the good lady that you are and pray your hubby doesn't get tempted outside(although that is not easy cos men are naturally polygamous). Just calm your nerves.
I think you'll make a good wife.
Posted: at 1-06-2012 07:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Sophyrocks at 1-06-2012 07:28 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 1-06-2012 09:56 AM
Woman if you don't put the word CONTROL on your jealousy, you will be shown the EXIT very soon. Don't destroy what you have worked hard to build just bc of greeting. You don't hv any issue at any. Keep your soul and spirit busy with something positive and forget who He greet or not.
SECONDED.and by d way,she shud hav oda fins doin to occupy herself instead of bein overly concerned abt him cheating.
Life is damn too short to be sitting around miserable.
Posted: at 1-06-2012 07:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Sophyrocks at 1-06-2012 07:33 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Woman,if ure alwys overly concerned abt where ur hubby is,wat he's doin at anytym or weda he's cheatin, ure gonna drive him straight to do it. so relax n occupy urself wit oda stuff. i believe housewives r usually dis way. workin class women got no tym for worryin ova deir hubbies. so get busy.
Life is damn too short to be sitting around miserable.
Posted: at 1-06-2012 07:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
interpo77 at 1-06-2012 07:50 PM (12 years ago) (m)
it is equal to ladies and men though, what u lack is trust and faithfullness in marriage, i met this friend of mine that every time she "THOUGHT" her husband has done something against her some where(may be having xtra marrital rela)she must walk out and do her own as reprisal,,,,,conrol urself and play matured....
Posted: at 1-06-2012 07:50 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Afi Suru...No woman likes it when her man stares or even admire another woman in her presence.but then,u must neva allow inferiority complex weigh u down (dats incase,she is hotter than u r). Just pretend u did nt c it cos making up a fight,wnt help matters. Make sure u r servicing him wella on bed and feeding him wella. It is true dat sm men r nt just content with wat they ve,but then u do ur best n leave d rest. Patience and prayers is all u need. Men ll still remain men...they ll always wnt 2 knw wats inside another woman's pants. Ur own prayer should b dat,even if he cheats,he should always remember the way back home n make sure u ll always b ready 2 accept him back n nt chasing him away with ur nagging. Hmm...May God help us!
Posted: at 1-06-2012 08:10 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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