We’ve Been Together 12 Years, & He’s Been With Another Woman For 3 Years & Has A

Date: 05-07-2012 9:31 am (10 years ago) | Author: AYORINDE MAYOWA
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Dear MJ Family,
I have been in a relationship with a man for over 12 years. I love him dearly and know that he loves me. My every want and desire he gives me.

I have always suspected that he was cheating and I would have reoccurring dreams about this. He has recently told me that he has been in a relationship with a woman for three years and has an 18 month old child with her. I was obviously devastated with this news. He said that he does not love her and there is nothing else between them, other than the fact that they have a child together.

He stated his desire for us to move forward past this and said that he is working on being a better man. But, I still feel a lot of hurt and anger, and the trust is no longer there. We live in different states, which definitely make it easy for him to lie and cheat. However, we commute frequently to see each other, and he said he will move to where I am. But, like I said there is a lot of hurt and anger that I am feeling.

I love him and still want to be with him, and on the other hand I just do not know what to do.

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- Idbabe at 5-07-2012 01:19 PM (10 years ago)
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12 years of courtship or wetin una call am.  Na wa ooo e tay ooo.  A man u hv been with for 12 years and still went ahead to impregnate another woman has lost the trust.  Follow ur mind, its only you dat will live with him not NP members, take your stand and move on.
Posted: at 5-07-2012 01:19 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Solidstonez at 23-07-2012 10:40 AM (10 years ago)
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- Solidstonez at 23-07-2012 10:40 AM (10 years ago)
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- janetbims at 28-08-2012 05:04 AM (10 years ago)
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IS THIS LIFE??? HE LOVES YOU BUT HE HAS A BABY MAMA NOW, THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT THAT... Follow your damn mind girl....

IF IT WAS TO BE YOU IN HIS SHOES, HE WOULD NEVER FORGIVE YOU AND WOULD NEVER EVER MARRY YOU AFTER SUCH A LONG TIME!!!
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- chicco77 at 4-09-2012 09:17 AM (10 years ago)
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