My parents wont let my daughter's father see his daughter because he is black. (Page 3)

babe u get to be strong

Posted: at 31-05-2011 05:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

pls just go on your kneels and ask God for forginess, den tell him your problem and i assure you they will call you and apologies.

Posted: at 9-09-2011 05:47 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

listen lady.. while i sympathise with your situation, you are becoming just as annoying as your parents. loooking at the replies to your post,, u'v been given adwquate advice yet, you still use your parents view of yourself as an excuse.. without much furtherado, our ideas in this life should be influence by what is right not what you are told. I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that your parents view are biased as you already know and it has nothing to do with culture but pure ignorance, of which not even prayers, fasteing and endless church attendence will ever rectify..Knowledge is indivisible!! You need to grow up, and grow up fast and take responsibilty of your life. take the advice given to you by these NL and tell your parents to take it or lump it, because it's not every day you come across a man who gives up his life's ambition to take care of that of is wife let alone his girlfriend. you have a gem of a men in your hand. if your parents won't accept him, you go to him and let him provide for you and your child, manage whatever you have and support eachother. But, make know mistake, while you might be young,  just imagine you meeting a future potential partner and you confide in him, revealing that you took your parents advice under the circumstance you explained, i can assure you that most men wont want to deal with. so my dear; take do wat is right not wat your parents think, because i bet that if he was rich and successful, they would talk of nothing other than marriage... so get a move on. you might miss them and cry for the first few weeks, but life will continue..

Posted: at 18-11-2011 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

My parents wont let my daughter's father see his daughter because he is black.
WONDERFUL!
Na wa oh, WHAT DO YOU MEAN HE'S BLACK??

Are you white? 

Posted: at 24-01-2012 04:15 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Where were ur parents when u're datin a black...ur parent are just fool 4 discrimatin black

Posted: at 6-02-2012 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

you have your life to leave,and your daughter need her parental care which is very essential to everyone born here on earth so no one should rubb her of that not even ur parents,so try and be with ur man and manage the little you both have,if ur parents are not satisfy let them do whatever they want to,but someday they will know the reality and your happiness with you,your husband and your daughter then you will both reconcile,but if you treat your man wrong to satisfy your parents will the future will bring forth bittterness in you and your daughhhter,that,s my words of advice for you.

Posted: at 20-02-2012 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

MY DEAR U HAVE GOT UR LIFE TO LIVE AND THEY HAVE THEIRS TOO AND DONT FORGET DIS GUY HAVE UR SKIN,HE MIGHT BE FROM UR COUNTRY BUT JUST DAT THEY WERE TAKING AWAY FROM US,UR DAUGHTER WONT BE HAPPY WITH U IF SHE GROWS UP AND FOUND OUT D TRUTH,I THINK U SHOULD GIVE HIM A CHANCE AND DONT MAKE UR CHILD FATHERLESS WHEN U KNOW VERY WELL THE FATHER IS READY TO TAKE EVERY RESPONSIBILITY.THINK TWICE MY DEAR

Posted: at 23-03-2012 07:24 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

my dear you have made up ur mind to kik him out cus of financial benefit from ur parents, all through out you hav answer to every sugestions made by others the fact remains the same if your dauter grow up without her father she will rezent you nd ur parents for depriving her of her right nd love her father more than she can love u nd ur parents put together. i have seen it befor think nd look b4 you leap you grew up with your parent why then re u taking the road to deprive ur child.

Posted: at 29-06-2012 11:43 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

 

Posted: at 12-09-2012 03:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

there is something that i will like to know....where is the guy for the whole nine months?if the guy didn't take care of the pregnancy,the girl can loose the so called boy and the family,,,,so my dear,,,,listen to your family and plead with them,talk to them,if anything happen between you and that guy,,,,where will you run to??obey your father and mother so that your life will be long.....

Posted: at 15-02-2013 11:15 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac