help help---my friend have a bad mother

Date: 21-04-2009 10:51 am (15 years ago) | Author: GEOFFERY ANGEL DXKEY
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- at 21-04-2009 10:51 AM (15 years ago)
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her story is long but i will cut it short

my friend disobey her mother by falling in love with a man at the age of 19

the moda taunt her so hard she has to run back to d village

now she is 25 she is in love with anoda man hu is ready to marry her

her mother says she wont be present on d wedding day and without her the wedding will not hold

my friend has apologized ---her mothers people have also begged on her behalf

the mother says she wont still be there ---now the elders says without her d weeding will not take place

unless she is dead

the mother is demanding 1 million where as d girls do not even have half of dat

lookin back she has not done much --just disobedience



should my friend kill her mother --cos the wedding is in 3 weeks time
 
or should she borrow one million and give to d mother

but mind u--she has no where too borrow such money from

is dere any options

plzzzzzzzzzzz helppppppppppppppp



Posted: at 21-04-2009 10:51 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
- princesser2love at 21-04-2009 10:56 AM (15 years ago)
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dnt know who is lying is it u or ur friend cos i can see any thing that make sense in wat u wrote.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 10:56 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pires07 at 21-04-2009 11:01 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mystangel on 21-04-2009 10:51 AM
her story is long but i will cut it short

my friend disobey her mother by falling in love with a man at the age of 19

the moda taunt her so hard she has to run back to d village

now she is 25 she is in love with anoda man hu is ready to marry her

her mother says she wont be present on d wedding day and without her the wedding will not hold

my friend has apologized ---her mothers people have also begged on her behalf

the mother says she wont still be there ---now the elders says without her d weeding will not take place

unless she is dead

the mother is demanding 1 million where as d girls do not even have half of dat

lookin back she has not done much --just disobedience



should my friend kill her mother --cos the wedding is in 3 weeks time
 
or should she borrow one million and give to d mother

but mind u--she has no where too borrow such money from

is dere any options

plzzzzzzzzzzz helppppppppppppppp


what kinda help do u need from us? spiritual help? if d elders and close relatives to ur frnd cant help her, who am i?

Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:01 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- patienceudosen at 21-04-2009 11:03 AM (15 years ago)
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What's the one million for? Sales of a girl child or a price for giving birth to a girl child?
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- onchedu at 21-04-2009 11:04 AM (15 years ago)
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Ur friend "have a bad mother" so wetin concern U. and what gives U the right to judge any mother. U don born Ur children?
Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:04 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 21-04-2009 11:05 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mystangel on 21-04-2009 10:51 AM
her story is long but i will cut it short

my friend disobey her mother by falling in love with a man at the age of 19

the moda taunt her so hard she has to run back to d village

now she is 25 she is in love with anoda man hu is ready to marry her

her mother says she wont be present on d wedding day and without her the wedding will not hold

my friend has apologized ---her mothers people have also begged on her behalf

the mother says she wont still be there ---now the elders says without her d weeding will not take place

unless she is dead
the mother is demanding 1 million where as d girls do not even have half of dat

lookin back she has not done much --just disobedience



should my friend kill her mother --cos the wedding is in 3 weeks time
 
or should she borrow one million and give to d mother

but mind u--she has no where too borrow such money from

is dere any options

plzzzzzzzzzzz helppppppppppppppp



"Unless she is dead" IS she a witch?  Shocked Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:05 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Resi at 21-04-2009 11:27 AM (15 years ago)
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Does this sound real?

Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:27 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ibobobelvis at 21-04-2009 11:35 AM (15 years ago)
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mystangel,u sure say no b u this thing dey happen to so,wey u dey say na ur friend lool

Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:35 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mystangel at 21-04-2009 11:46 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ibobobelvis on 21-04-2009 11:35 AM
mystangel,u sure say no b u this thing dey happen to so,wey u dey say na ur friend lool

am not d one okay

am nt even thinkin of gettin married

while this is a real story

all am asking is dis

should dis girl borrow money for the marriage
or should she end her mother

simple question --simple answer

i wonder y d insult

Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:46 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ibobobelvis at 21-04-2009 11:59 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mystangel on 21-04-2009 11:46 AM
Quote from: ibobobelvis on 21-04-2009 11:35 AM
mystangel,u sure say no b u this thing dey happen to so,wey u dey say na ur friend lool

am not d one okay

am nt even thinkin of gettin married

while this is a real story

all am asking is dis
 Cool Cool Cool Cool
should dis girl borrow money for the marriage
or should she end her mother

simple question --simple answer

i wonder y d insult
Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:59 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lovemar at 21-04-2009 12:53 PM (15 years ago)
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Ur frd just have to sit her mother, have a heart to heart conversation wit her mother, money is not everything this she has to let her mother understand.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 12:53 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mystangel at 21-04-2009 01:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: lovemar on 21-04-2009 12:53 PM
Ur frd just have to sit her mother, have a heart to heart conversation wit her mother, money is not everything this she has to let her mother understand.


thanks your advice is appreciated

Posted: at 21-04-2009 01:06 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lovemar at 21-04-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mystangel on 21-04-2009 01:06 PM
Quote from: lovemar on 21-04-2009 12:53 PM
Ur frd just have to sit her mother, have a heart to heart conversation wit her mother, money is not everything this she has to let her mother understand.


thanks your advice is appreciated

U are welcome
Posted: at 21-04-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- welli at 21-04-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago)
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Super Story!!

Posted: at 21-04-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Recoverd at 21-04-2009 05:21 PM (15 years ago)
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Ur frend is nt ready 2get marid else sh wil damn d woman n marry d man. Have u not heard of court marriage? If d mother and d elders wil not approve let her leave d village and go wit the man to the city n marry in court. She and d man can also go to a pastor privatly wit closest frends n do marriage blessings. SIMPLE.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 05:21 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mystangel at 21-04-2009 05:46 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Recoverd on 21-04-2009 05:21 PM
Ur frend is nt ready 2get marid else sh wil damn d woman n marry d man. Have u not heard of court marriage? If d mother and d elders wil not approve let her leave d village and go wit the man to the city n marry in court. She and d man can also go to a pastor privatly wit closest frends n do marriage blessings. SIMPLE.

we have thought of her doing that but i tell ya the hsuband says no

he need a big time full church wedding

everyone is damn confused rite now

besides that the wedding have been fixed--cards have been shared --its just d mother acceptance dat is remaining

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- HOPEA23 at 21-04-2009 05:49 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mystangel on 21-04-2009 10:51 AM
her story is long but i will cut it short

my friend disobey her mother by falling in love with a man at the age of 19

the moda taunt her so hard she has to run back to d village

now she is 25 she is in love with anoda man hu is ready to marry her

her mother says she wont be present on d wedding day and without her the wedding will not hold

my friend has apologized ---her mothers people have also begged on her behalf

the mother says she wont still be there ---now the elders says without her d weeding will not take place

unless she is dead

the mother is demanding 1 million where as d girls do not even have half of dat

lookin back she has not done much --just disobedience



should my friend kill her mother --cos the wedding is in 3 weeks time
 
or should she borrow one million and give to d mother

but mind u--she has no where too borrow such money from

is dere any options

plzzzzzzzzzzz helppppppppppppppp


i can help but on one condition

Posted: at 21-04-2009 05:49 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 21-04-2009 08:10 PM (15 years ago)
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I don't have much 2 say but just pray sha god shall help your friend god bless c ya Smiley

Posted: at 21-04-2009 08:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Recoverd at 21-04-2009 08:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Must her mum b there 4d wedding or is d man insisting sh b there? Sh can look 4 someone else to stand as her mother. I hav seen cases wer it is don. Are u sure it is d woman that gave birth 2her? Which kain mama b dat?
Posted: at 21-04-2009 08:54 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 21-04-2009 10:11 PM (15 years ago)
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then she aint her real mom... despise her daughter's mistake in life...she can turn her back on her...ya need to do DNA test b4 d wedding. something is bhind this shit. gurl.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 10:11 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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