ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? (Page 3)

Date: 07-03-2013 7:19 pm (8 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- etibaba at 8-03-2013 11:04 AM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: morgrawl231 on  7-03-2013 10:07 PM
when one is Submissive,,,it keeps d relationship going smoothly....

Posted: at 8-03-2013 11:04 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chicco77 at 8-03-2013 11:14 AM (8 years ago)
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bcos husband is always the head
Posted: at 8-03-2013 11:14 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chicanorose at 8-03-2013 11:57 AM (8 years ago)
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being submissive is very good, but to some extent

Posted: at 8-03-2013 11:57 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- crusifixo at 8-03-2013 12:03 PM (8 years ago)
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this days the women are the neck, men are the head...just bcos the neck is beneath doen't mean it submissive, the neck turn the head in any direction in want, to me that not submission.... Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 8-03-2013 12:03 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- crusifixo at 8-03-2013 12:06 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: dabattleaxe on  7-03-2013 10:40 PM
The problem with some of us sometimes is that we read the bible upside down. The bible says "Woman submit to your husband" and to the man it say " Love your wife as Christ loved his church". My deaconess stood up in church at a particular service during a  Q&A session and said "once you sign the dotted lines it gives you an equal right in your home". Marriage is legal but let's don't forget it's spiritual and scriptural angle too. If as a woman you crave for a man's LOVE then it's a must that u must be submissive. Sarah called Abraham Lord.

women of nowadays can never call you Lord.......they will call you by ur name or the use the term 'that man' or 'this man'
Posted: at 8-03-2013 12:06 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- AUJ2011 at 8-03-2013 12:12 PM (8 years ago)
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PERSONAL RESPONSE TO SOCIAL ISSUES ON PEPPER
Submission to the husband is not a choice, rather it is an instruction from God to all Godly women "Christian Woman". The fulfillment of marriage life depends on how much a wife obeys God's instruction by submitting absolutely to her husband. The institution of marriage comes from God, and He alone has the solution, therefore if we His people really want to enjoy marriage, submission is a condition for a fulfilled marriage life.

Let me add that submission is not a sign of weakness on the part of the wife, rather it is strength in a woman who posses this rear quality. It is actually gracesious and loveable for wives to naturally submit themselves to their husbands in obedient to God's instruction. Such wives enjoys the bliss of marriage, they are also covered with the glory of God and they never lack the love of their husband especially when they keep the spirit of submission without condition. They also enjoy the fellowship and love of others. It is a great honor for wives to submit to their own husband, because in so doing they win the love of their husband and that of their children including in-laws e.t.c.
Today, It appears that this virtue is rear amongst wives, even christian wives. But the truth remains that submission is a must according to the scriptures for every woman who desire to enjoy a fulfilled marriage life in this world and the husband most love the wife unconditionally.
Posted: at 8-03-2013 12:12 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- dabattleaxe at 8-03-2013 12:59 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: naturalqueen on  8-03-2013 10:44 AM
Women have been biblically instructed to be submissive. Doing this is obeying God. So it is not weakness.
The same bible also told men to love their wife. You see, submission (on the part of the woman) & Love (on the part of the man) go hand in hand.
When this is done, u find out that the two live as a team in the marriage.
A man who loves his wife cannot abuse her or take advantage of her ability to submit. A woman who truly loves her husband will naturally respect and submit to him. When u see a woman talking to her husband anyhow, then look deeply, she is not totally in love with him. She is holding something back.
This is why, when u see a woman who looks hard when dealing with people, and u look beside her and see how quiet and composed she is in the company of her husband, u wonder why? It is because of love. Sometimes you see a smallish man controlling a giant woman who acts like Margaret Thatcher. Love softens our heart towards who we love.

I score you 10/10. You are a mother and a wife, it'll take a great mind to understand this. Well spoken.
Posted: at 8-03-2013 12:59 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 8-03-2013 01:02 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-03-2013 07:19 PM
Is submission weakness?

As a man, do u want a submissive wife or a doormat?



As a woman, do u believe being submissive to ur husband is positive for ur marriage? And does it also include doing things u are really against?

As a man, do u prefer a submissive woman, or sombody who can stand her ground?

Oya lets go there


Man, by the fact that he was first created; that the woman was taken from him; that he is better qualified for ruling than she is, is evidently designed to be at the head of the little community that constitutes a family. In many other things, woman may be his equal; in loveliness, and grace, and beauty, and tenderness, and gentleness, she is far his superior; but these are not the qualities adapted for government. Their place is in another sphere; and there, man should be as cautious about invading her prerogative, or abridging her liberty, as "she" should be about invading the prerogative that belongs to him. In every family there should be a head - someone who is to be looked up to as the counselor and the ruler; someone to whom all should be subordinate. God has given that prerogative to man; and no family prospers where that arrangement is violated. Within proper metes and limits, therefore, it is the duty of the wife to obey, or to submit herself to her husband.
1. In domestic arrangements, the husband is to be regarded as the head of the family; and he has a right to direct as to the style of living, the expenses of the family, the clothing, etc.
2. In regard to the laws which are to regulate the family, he is the head. It is his to say what is to be done; in what way the children are to employ themselves, and to give directions in regard to their education, etc.
3. In business matters, the wife is to submit to the husband. She may counsel with him, if he chooses; but the affairs of business and property are under his control, and must be left at his disposal.

back to ur Qweshun...Submission is not weakness... but most tyms some men need some kain woman wey go dey kakaraka for ground for dem.. wey if dem say SIT here.. dem go SIDAN  Grin .. SHUT UP dem go close mouth..  Grin Grin Grin Oya GO MARKET go grind this pepper, buy meat, crayfish and okazi.. dem go run go, even enter keke sef, so that madam no go hallah dem  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

For more Informate---- Read: Prov 31:10-31..

Posted: at 8-03-2013 01:02 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dabattleaxe at 8-03-2013 01:12 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  8-03-2013 08:24 AM
Yes, love ur wife as Christ loved his church, but
most men demand submission, they dnt deserve it

If I don't love you, don't think I would've married u in the first instance but most women are so pretentious, just for them to get in and eventually turn to tiger. Like someone said submission is earned, it's not true 'cos I can't find that in the bible. It says WIFE SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND it didn't say MAN LOVE YOUR WIFE FIRST but here is the clincher the man first loved the woman and that is why they got  married in the first instance.
Posted: at 8-03-2013 01:12 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dabattleaxe at 8-03-2013 01:20 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  8-03-2013 08:20 AM
Can a man be submissive to a woman?


In what sense naa. I just don't get it. Man and woman don't share equal right in the house just as Christ is the HEAD OF THE CHURCH so is MAN THE HEAD IN THE FAMILY. the man and woman sharing equal rights is the reason most of our ladies are still single. In my local church there is this lady that had about 10 suitors, this men went to the pastor for her but in the same church you have sisters that don't even have a single suitor.
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- chetznomso at 8-03-2013 01:53 PM (8 years ago)
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Eph 5:22 and verse 25

22. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
KJV


25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
KJV


The above bible passages are commandments to wives and husbands.
Even though the commandment to the wives precedes that of the husbands in the bible, it does not necessarily mean the wives have to submit first before the husbands will love.
The conflict in opinion is usually because the wives would rather read the letter written to the husbands in verse 25 than read the letter written to the wives in verse 22 and the husbands would  rather read the letter written to the wives in verse 22 than read the letter written to the husbands in verse 25.
If  the wives and the husbands would read the commandment written to each of them specifically, and practice it not minding what was written to the other person,the problem of SUBMISSION & LOVE will not arise.
So I say to both wives and husband "DON'T READ YOUR PARTNER'S LETTER, READ YOUR OWN"
Posted: at 8-03-2013 01:53 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 02:46 PM (8 years ago)
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Nice comments, lemme get back to u guys later
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- sophiebaby at 8-03-2013 03:10 PM (8 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

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- BlueIxora at 8-03-2013 03:36 PM (8 years ago)
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Submiting to a humble man is easy. What is not easy is submitting to an arrogant man who treats you like a slave. Cool
Posted: at 8-03-2013 03:36 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ela214 at 8-03-2013 03:48 PM (8 years ago)
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because the bible says so,and submission dose´nt mean u are stupid
Posted: at 8-03-2013 03:48 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 8-03-2013 03:52 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: ela214 on  8-03-2013 03:48 PM
because the bible says so,and submission dose´nt mean u are stupid

eziokwu bu ndu

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- sophiebaby at 8-03-2013 03:52 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: BlueIxora on  8-03-2013 03:36 PM
Submiting to a humble man is easy. What is not easy is submitting to an arrogant man who treats you like a slave. Cool

GBAM  Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

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- Nicksam at 8-03-2013 03:54 PM (8 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:25 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: dabattleaxe on  7-03-2013 11:06 PM
Love my wife I must but a woman that gets her way with her man must find a way of getting him do her wish, some use sex as a tool, for some it's food while for the virtuous woman it's submission. No real man will allow a woman Lord it over him 'cos men are natural leaders. God made it so from the beginning n watch homes that women are in charge. Not saying a woman should be treated as a doormat, sometime as couples issues has to be brought to the table n sometimes a vote has to decide a decision. The man in some cases has to put his foot down n take a decision. There also comes a time when a man should say "honey what do u think we do". EVERYONE should have a sense of belonging, even the children has to take decisions too but there comes a time u decide for them. In a nut shell submission is a must for every woman.

We learned that sex nd food is not workin, bcos
A wifey can b chef cook for kitchen nd slut for bed, som
Men r neva satisfied whn it coms to dat...so if she is submissive
All d way, will it be enuf?
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:25 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 8-03-2013 04:26 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: dickman2 on  8-03-2013 06:54 AM
i dont know.

Am not suprised  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 8-03-2013 04:26 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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