HELP! I Was Drunk and Slept With My Brother In-Law By Mistake, What Should I Do?

Published 6 years ago by: Daniel Bosai
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at 02:42 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)

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I had séx with my brother-in-law by mistake. In the dark I thought he was my husband. I’m 29, my husband’s 31. His parents held a family party for his niece’s 18th birthday last weekend.



Everyone was there, including my husband’s brother who was home from working away in Saudi. He’s 36. We all get on well and there was plenty of alcohol and food. It was a nice party and we carried on drinking and dancing into the small hours.


My husband went up to bed before me and said he’d be waiting for me. I followed him up 20 minutes later. I got into bed feeling frisky and we ended up having séx. I woke up a couple of hours later and sat up to get a drink of water. I pulled back the curtain to let some light in through the window from the street lamp right outside the bedroom.

I looked round and got the shock of my life when I realised I was in bed with the wrong man. The man beside me was my husband’s brother. I’d gone into the wrong bedroom and I guess my brother-in-law thought it was his lucky day. We had all had a lot to drink. I ran to the right bedroom and crawled into bed with my husband who was fast asleep. Then I realised I’d left my underwear in the other room, so I sneaked back.

My brother-in-law was stirring so I hissed that we must keep quiet about what had happened. He just said, “Whatever.” He’s flown back to Saudi now but I don’t know whether to admit everything to my husband. If this comes out I’ll lose a man I love more than anything and cause family ructions.

What should she do?

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chicco77 at 03:07 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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see wetin drink do u Shocked Shocked
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Ricardoprinz at 03:39 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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U have to let it be. What has happened has happened. But U MUST NOT LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN.
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dabattleaxe at 03:47 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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The guy is an idiot, wouldn't do that for anything in the world. Don't drink though.
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lanudja at 03:55 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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E b like say d brother in law dey like u b4.. bt wel sha, i no knw wetin 2 tel u. D next next person might av sometin better to tel u.
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eddiemike19 at 03:57 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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Posted here before, by the way What is the name of dis Movie ?
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arsenal123 at 04:03 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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Whatever!.. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin..
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Jaylen at 04:12 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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God go punish that brother in-Law wey took advantage of her when she was drunk he is a punk shameless animal  he need to be dealt wit proper beating will do for now..
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Jaylen at 04:16 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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I will advice you to tell ur man what happened so that they will deal with it issue now that it is fresh he will not kill u if he truly loves u as u do love him keep the abominable act to yourself will cause catastrophic error in judgement  ..
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Jaylen at 04:18 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Jaylen on 04:16 PM,  8/04/2013
I will advice you to tell ur man what happened so that they will deal with the issue now that it is fresh he will not kill u if he truly loves u as u do love him keeping  the abominable act to yourself will cause catastrophic error in judgement  ..
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mankaa at 04:37 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Jaylen on 04:16 PM,  8/04/2013
I will advice you to tell ur man what happened so that they will deal with it issue now that it is fresh he will not kill u if he truly loves u as u do love him keep the abominable act to yourself will cause catastrophic error in judgement  ..
Dear tell your Hubby.if he love you then he will understand the situation than hearing it from that his useless brother
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bestbuky at 04:52 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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sophie baby, i thik we need your help here
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mary11 at 04:55 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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Dis nonsense wey I don read like 3weeks ago 4 Facebook,who carry am come hia?

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bestbuky at 04:57 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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sophie baby, we need your help here
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osamabinladin at 05:15 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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My hand no dey ooo !
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ezchusa at 05:39 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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Drink more next time

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tanglefree at 05:44 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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I really feel your pain my dear.It could happen to anybody.

I don't trust anybody that uses the word ''whatever'' in a serious issue like that.

tell ur husband now so that he will know that u are truly sorry for what happened!
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arsenal123 at 05:59 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
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Ifemylove at 06:13 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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your brother inlaw in an idiot
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Noble12 at 06:19 PM, 8/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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U cheap no b small!
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