Single mothers should not be sigmatized in the society (Page 4)

Date: 20-08-2009 10:41 am (12 years ago) | Author: yemi
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- Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 12:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:40 PM
MY SIS COME TELL US SOMETHING I GO SERVE U A COFE Tongue

thanks sis...i really need it oo! but even coffee cant help the sleep im feelin right now

HMM WATIN U DID AT NIGHT?YA IKEBE SHAKE WELL Wink Wink Cheesy

Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:48 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 20-08-2009 12:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:51 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- stealth_biatch at 20-08-2009 12:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 20-08-2009 12:47 PM
Don't know about the buzzing brain Steathie but the mismatched eyes could be a problem. Grin
Maybe that's why U sounded diff. Thot U were just stirring controversy.

I was ... *evil grin* ....

... glad it caught your attention ... lol

Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:52 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 12:53 PM (12 years ago)
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watching

Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:53 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- erikaakpan at 20-08-2009 12:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:48 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 20-08-2009 12:45 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:40 PM
MY SIS COME TELL US SOMETHING I GO SERVE U A COFE Tongue

thanks sis...i really need it oo! but even coffee cant help the sleep im feelin right now

HMM WATIN U DID AT NIGHT?YA IKEBE SHAKE WELL Wink Wink Cheesy

hahaha..no i didnt...when hubby got up this mornin for work he makes so much noise n i couldn't go back to sleep...but i think imma try to get some more sleep.... whos this Adam Gordon  u talk about in ur status?

Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:54 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 20-08-2009 12:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: stealth_biatch on 20-08-2009 12:52 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 20-08-2009 12:47 PM
Don't know about the buzzing brain Steathie but the mismatched eyes could be a problem. Grin
Maybe that's why U sounded diff. Thot U were just stirring controversy.

I was ... *evil grin* ....

... glad it caught your attention ... lol

Not the kind of thing I'd have missed.
Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:56 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 12:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 20-08-2009 12:54 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:48 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 20-08-2009 12:45 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:40 PM
MY SIS COME TELL US SOMETHING I GO SERVE U A COFE Tongue

thanks sis...i really need it oo! but even coffee cant help the sleep im feelin right now

HMM WATIN U DID AT NIGHT?YA IKEBE SHAKE WELL Wink Wink Cheesy

hahaha..no i didnt...when hubby got up this mornin for work he makes so much noise n i couldn't go back to sleep...but i think imma try to get some more sleep.... whos this Adam Gordon  u talk about in ur status?

SEE AM BELOW...

Interests: Paleoanthropology, primate evolutionary morphology, primate ecology

Areas: Madagascar, Africa, Asia, Neotropics

Research Statement
Adam Gordon is a physical anthropologist with interests in the evolution of size and shape in non-human primates, modern humans, and our fossil ancestors.  His work attempts to identify the relative importance of ecological and social selection pressures in producing the size and shape variation found in living primates at various levels of taxonomic scale, ranging from intrapopulation comparisons within subspecies to broad comparative analyses across the Order Primates.  Dr. Gordon is particularly interested in identifying sex-specific responses to resource stress in primates, including fossil hominins.  In addition, he is broadly interested in methodological questions related to analyzing variation in incomplete datasets such as those typically associated with fossil and zooarchaeological settings, and has developed new techniques for comparative statistical analysis of hominin fossil data.

Posted: at 20-08-2009 12:57 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 20-08-2009 01:01 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:57 PM
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:48 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 20-08-2009 12:45 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 20-08-2009 12:40 PM
MY SIS COME TELL US SOMETHING I GO SERVE U A COFE Tongue

thanks sis...i really need it oo! but even coffee cant help the sleep im feelin right now

HMM WATIN U DID AT NIGHT?YA IKEBE SHAKE WELL Wink Wink Cheesy

hahaha..no i didnt...when hubby got up this mornin for work he makes so much noise n i couldn't go back to sleep...but i think imma try to get some more sleep.... whos this Adam Gordon  u talk about in ur status?

SEE AM BELOW...

Interests: Paleoanthropology, primate evolutionary morphology, primate ecology

Areas: Madagascar, Africa, Asia, Neotropics

Research Statement
Adam Gordon is a physical anthropologist with interests in the evolution of size and shape in non-human primates, modern humans, and our fossil ancestors.  His work attempts to identify the relative importance of ecological and social selection pressures in producing the size and shape variation found in living primates at various levels of taxonomic scale, ranging from intrapopulation comparisons within subspecies to broad comparative analyses across the Order Primates.  Dr. Gordon is particularly interested in identifying sex-specific responses to resource stress in primates, including fossil hominins.  In addition, he is broadly interested in methodological questions related to analyzing variation in incomplete datasets such as those typically associated with fossil and zooarchaeological settings, and has developed new techniques for comparative statistical analysis of hominin fossil data.


oh ok..thats deep...i wish him well wit that...i'll holla at u later...imma try this sleep thing once agin

Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 01:02 PM (12 years ago)
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OK DEAR HAVE A NICE REST..

Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:02 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- anonymous2 at 20-08-2009 01:03 PM (12 years ago)
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i'll be back

Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 01:04 PM (12 years ago)
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OK SEE U DEAR

Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:04 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- pope12 at 20-08-2009 01:37 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: stealth_biatch on 20-08-2009 12:32 PM
I aspire to become a single mother ...



who can blame me ?

ur reasons first
Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:37 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ihuoma at 20-08-2009 01:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: anonymous2 on 20-08-2009 10:41 AM
Why are single mothers stigmatised in d society?i mean they say ....NEVER SAY NEVER.Most ladies dat say such can neva happen to them find themselves in dis kind of situation.Now d question is...why d rejection and scorn they face in d society? i think most teenage single mothers should be counselled instead of d stigmatisation.wats ur own view to this issue?

I don't agree.
Being a single mother is different than being a teenage single mother. Now being a teenage single should remain a stigma and should not be accepted in society. What are they going to be counseled on?

Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:55 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pope12 at 20-08-2009 02:10 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Ihuoma on 20-08-2009 01:55 PM
Quote from: anonymous2 on 20-08-2009 10:41 AM
Why are single mothers stigmatised in d society?i mean they say ....NEVER SAY NEVER.Most ladies dat say such can neva happen to them find themselves in dis kind of situation.Now d question is...why d rejection and scorn they face in d society? i think most teenage single mothers should be counselled instead of d stigmatisation.wats ur own view to this issue?

I don't agree.
Being a single mother is different than being a teenage single mother. Now being a teenage single should remain a stigma and should not be accepted in society. What are they going to be counseled on?

lets not look at it from the illicit sex point of view.
what if the pregnancy resulted from a rape incidence and the girl in question decided to keep it.
Posted: at 20-08-2009 02:10 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- NenyeN at 20-08-2009 09:10 PM (12 years ago)
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I do not understand how people cannot expect stigmatization in cultures that are still heavily centered on the idea that family is a man, woman, and children. I personally have no problem with stigmatizing teenage mothers [to be] (with the exception of rape). As for single mothers... that would depend on the situation surrounding their single motherhood.

Posted: at 20-08-2009 09:10 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Ann-marie at 20-08-2009 09:21 PM (12 years ago)
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d stigma only lasts wen d kids n modaz r yung but afta some years it dies down cuz u find out dat girlz dat have kidz at certain ages lik 4rm 13 2 like 18,dey relax at d end.cuz at lik age 35 wen dia mates r stil Bosom  feedin dey r seein dia kid(kidz) alredy finishin skool,workin n even takin care of dem!!!!
Posted: at 20-08-2009 09:21 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- temi07 at 20-08-2009 09:28 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: NenyeN on 20-08-2009 09:10 PM
I do not understand how people cannot expect stigmatization in cultures that are still heavily centered on the idea that family is a man, woman, and children. I personally have no problem with stigmatizing teenage mothers [to be] (with the exception of rape). As for single mothers... that would depend on the situation surrounding their single motherhood.
Thank you, yes even though they should'nt be stigmatized to the point of alienation, wrong is wrong and am only talking abt teenage mothers, like the stupid 15 year olds that made a pact to give birth in the same month and 17 of them got pregnant, they need more than ass whooping. Majority of all teenage pregnancies are by accident, i look @ it this way, if u are ready to have unprotected sex then u should be ready to shoulder everything that comes with it and @ this point stigmatization does, well maybe except in the US we have alot of single mothers here apparently its fashionable, kinda like a gucci bag.
Posted: at 20-08-2009 09:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- meczytimber at 20-08-2009 09:35 PM (12 years ago)
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Well, maybe due to some reason people tend to put them aside. Lets say taking them as irresponsible persons,
i love and care for them.
ohh am lacrimating!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 20-08-2009 09:35 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- fireman at 20-08-2009 09:40 PM (12 years ago)
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I believe that the harassment many single women face in Nigeria is caused by inadequate laws protecting the right of the girl child.Labour laws as well as there is no empowerment for women more or less single mothers economically.

Posted: at 20-08-2009 09:40 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- d_man at 20-08-2009 09:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Dnt see no single mothers facing stigmatization  in my society
if u talking bout teenage mothers..good.. thats just the way it is..Stigmatization of that class aint goin away anytime soon

Posted: at 20-08-2009 09:43 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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