I’ve Prayed For Forgiveness, My Dad Was Really A Good Father – 21-Yr-Old Student

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Tolani Ajayi was cool and his mien was exceptionally calm. One could have mistaken him for a young man who had just rolled out of bed to answer a knock at the door. But what brought him to the Criminal Investigation Department of the Ogun State Police Command, Eleweran, Abeokuta was an unimaginable crime.

The 21-year-old man’s face betrayed no emotion safe for occasional easy smile that lightened up his face. One would notice immediately that Tolani was not a young man who was likely to have experienced much suffering in his life as despite his present condition, he was unmistakably handsome.

When he sat down for the interview with Saturday PUNCH, he used his two hands to wipe his face as someone preparing for a good show in the glare of the camera.

But Tolani had it all figured out in his head.

“Why is that important?” he would say to one question, “I have answered that in my statement with the police,” he would say to another question.

He was prepared to frustrate any attempt to get him to give the gory details of how he hacked his 64-year-old father, Mr. Charles Ajayi, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria to death at a house within the Redemption Camp along the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway in the middle of the night last week Thursday.

Tolani would later budge to give a chilling detail of how he killed his father, a story that seems to come straight from a Hollywood movie script.

Reports about the murder had dwelled on Tolani’s drug problem but he took time to clarify the issue. He said he indeed had problem with the management of the Redeemer University as a result of his drug using habit, even though he would not reveal what kind of drug it was.

He said, “I was not introduced to drug by my friends. Of course, they may have told me about drugs but it was my choice to get drugs and use them. I can’t tell you where I got the drugs either.

“Drugs did not push me to kill my father, I was just angry because he was hitting me and also bit me in my shoulder. I had to rush to the kitchen and took a knife that I used to stab him. It was after that I went to take a cutlass that I used to hack him into pieces.”

The young man said it was his father’s choice for him to attend the RUN, stating that his university of choice was the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria. Asked how that made him feel, Tolani simply shrugged and smiled.

Saturday PUNCH learnt that Tolani’s wayward behaviour was the reason the father left his Abuja base for the RCCG Camp for a prayer intercession for his first son.

In the middle of the night, around 1.30am, the father woke up for a prayer and urged the son to take part, it was learnt.

The police said as the father prayed, the son kept mute. But when the infuriated father urged him to say ‘Amen’ to each word of prayer, Tolani reportedly told him, “You are praying to God, not me. Why is it important that I should say ‘Amen?” He was said to have willingly and calmly explained to the police what transpired between him and his father.

Our correspondent asked if his father was in the habit of beating him and whether that was why he felt he had had enough, Tolani firmly said that his father never beat him and that that was the only time he would bite him.

“He was a good father and actually took care of us well. I never lacked anything. I was just angry that day,” he said.

The young man told our correspondent that he regularly attended church programmes but said, “I am not a spiritual person.”

“I have prayed since I killed my dad and asked God for forgiveness because I actually regret that I killed him. What can anybody do for me? I am ready to face the consequences of my crime.” he said.

Asked if he had spoken to his mother who was at home in Abuja when he was killing his dad in Lagos, Tolani shook his head.

He said, “I expect that she would be devastated right now and would still be mourning. I would tell her I am sorry when I speak with her.

“But I have spoken to my sister on the phone since after the incident. She was devastated too.”

Tolani, a 300-level student of History and International Relations, said he even has a girlfriend and other friends in school, who would obviously still be in shock at the moment.

When our correspondent spoke with the spokesperson for RUN, Mr. Tunji Adeleye, on the phone on Wednesday, he expressed the university’s displeasure about reports that had attached the name of the institution to crime.

He said, “We are strict and enforce scriptural value, any misconduct or plan for misconduct can earn summary dismissal. RUN is not a rehabilitation centre, parents cannot transfer their responsibilities to institutions. But we don’t have information from the parents about how he was raised. So, we cannot assume anything. People should not add to the family’s agony.

“The case did not happen under our jurisdiction. The boy has even said he was on holiday. We don’t have much information more than what is already reported in newspapers.

“Only God can remedy the damage that reports about this case has done to the image of RUN. People should focus on the investigation by the police because it has nothing to do with us.

“In any case, the Vice-Chancellor is not available now. We will reach out to you when he is available to give any information we may have on the boy.”

The Police Public Relations Officer of the Ogun State Police Command, Mr. Muyiwa Adejobi, said investigation would reveal every hidden truth about the crime committed by Tolani.

He said, “The boy did not deny anything. He did not attempt to run away when our men got to the house. It is quite unfortunate. Something propelled him to kill his father in such a gruesome manner but we will leave that to the court because he would be arraigned soon.

“The Commissioner of Police, Mr. Ikemefuna Okoye, commiserates with the family for this unfortunate incident and we will liaise with the management of RUN on the matter.

“But we want to use this opportunity to advise schools, individuals and families to learn from this incident. Even, we as police have a lot to learn from this.”




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jar84 at 08:33 AM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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God hv mercy on u
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seveneleven at 08:40 AM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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okay na
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winace at 09:43 AM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Such a handsome boy. Well its will serve as experience force their children to do wat they don't like. Sometimes dialogue wit them, kn their minds and wat they want. He might have kept dis grudge since d dad refuse him to go to d sch he wants. And we all kn dat private university wether missionary or personal have only rich pple children and we kn dat all dis rich kids have a lot up their sleeve. He might have join d rich loose kids who cum to sch wit drugs. Its so painful.
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winace at 09:46 AM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Quote from: winace on 09:43 AM, 12/07/2014
Such a handsome boy. Well, it will serve as experience for some parents. Don't force ur children to do wat they don't like. Sometimes dialogue wit them, kn their minds and wat they want. He might have kept dis grudge since d dad refuse him to go to d sch he wants. And we all kn dat private university wether missionary or personal have only rich pple children and we kn dat all dis rich kids have a lot up their sleeve. He might have join d rich loose kids who cum to sch wit drugs. Its so painful.
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Freshlycrazy at 10:20 AM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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if to say d guy go ABU, he probably 4 join boko haram...
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Wysetots at 11:59 AM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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This Boy is HARAMic in Nature.
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okuboye at 12:11 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Bad boy
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schmit at 12:31 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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The story is so touching, R.I.P to d dad, I pray God forgives u, promising young boy, na u will be in jail, y didn't u hold back urself, or walk away from ur dad, na wa ooo , something entered u or it was bcus of d drug, maybe u needed at that time, and everything irritates u then, its a big lesson to everyone
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iam_teehizik at 01:29 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Quote from: Freshlycrazy on 10:20 AM, 12/07/2014
if to say d guy go ABU, he probably 4 join boko haram...
there iz nothin more to say ur username has said it all. i feel pity for d boi
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cocoeni at 04:21 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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BAD SON
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rzq2012 at 08:13 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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christian boko haram
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chicco77 at 08:18 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
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osamabinladin at 08:37 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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 Sad
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papadip at 10:02 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Such a tragic affair....
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Ololababs at 10:18 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Quote from: Wysetots on 11:59 AM, 12/07/2014
This Boy is HARAMic in Nature.

 Grin nice one "Haramic" hehehe
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Ololababs at 10:22 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Ah! Na wa o! Looking from a mother's perspective, she will neva pray to loose two people at once. Instead, she'll rather seek help for d boy in all aspects of life as we know say Na devil borrow his mind and brain. Boy, May ur soul RIP o just in case them no free u from dis saga. Accept ur destiny. What a wicked world. May God grant ur family to hear d loss as they've lost 2 people already Cry
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Ololababs at 10:24 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Typo error: bear d loss and not hear
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Ololababs at 10:25 PM, 12/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Grant them d fortitude to bear d loss. Person too dey rush!
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scotik at 12:14 AM, 13/07/2014 (5 years ago)
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Quote from: Ololababs on 10:24 PM, 12/07/2014
Typo error: bear d loss and not hear

Not typo, is Type,  u want to correct a type error at the same time make ur own type error who to blame no.
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