How can you make your man hate u and brake up with u? (Page 2)

u  want  d  word 2 know  dat  ur  feeding  ur man  let  me ask u  wat  is  ur  work  over  there  dont  u know dat ur  man  know  how d moni  of feedin  him comes  so  abeg  fashi dat side , only witch  ur body com dey  red ; d u tell us wat u  called  him 

Posted: at 27-09-2009 05:30 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

@poster why dont just pretend u r just witch ...just has he  said ......i bet u


he wont come looking for u again......


 culled from basket  mouth's  joke

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Posted: at 27-09-2009 08:34 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

from frying pan to fire   

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Posted: at 27-09-2009 08:38 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

U really need to figure out exactly what u want in a relationship...if after all u guys have been thru, the best he could do was to call u a witch...thats really stupid of him. Even at that evryone deserves a second chance so i will say give him a second chance.

Posted: at 27-09-2009 09:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

@poster, its like u forced urself into him. Ur luv nd his are not equal, its one sided. U pet him a lot and we guys dnt appreciate dat. No man is perfect, movin 2 anoda man MAY not give u da best. Do this, give him 2nd chance, reduce ur love n equate it wit his. If he reciprocates it then carry on. I dnt know al the whole story but use ur brain, al is mathimatics.

Posted: at 27-09-2009 09:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well girl i seem to understand ur plight and what u've been going through.first it is written in the bible that ''love thy neighbour as thy self'' the key word there is ur self first b4 anyone else.also there is a  saying that ''charity begins at home''
very well what u did u do it for love but love not appreciated can always find it's way out through the back door.

sincerely speaking u hav tried ur best and the earlier u realise the guy in question those not love u or better still care about u the better for u.

secondly,u will be helping him a great deal if u let go now cos he will learn to value what he has  next time and  u will be pushing him to the wall to wake up to the realities of life and fend for himselfas a man no matter how odd it will appear.

there is a saying that ''necessity is the mother of invention''.

if u keep on with that relationship u wont be doing him any good as a man that he is cos he won't see any need to look for something doing.just free him for two or three week's he will look for some thing doing,believe me he can't afford to go hungry.giving him a chance again is not necessary to me cos atlast he will end up hurting u even more.

love is an emotional bank that is supposed to be serviced by the both parties and should't be one sided unlike ur's that u r the one loving,feeding,caring etc.

now u hav to know that there is a purpose for everything that happens, it's only left for u to interpret it the way it best suits u.

but my candid advice for u is; if u continue with that relationship what u will have from him is more  pretence to love u in order to keep u close until when he hammers cash and believe me if u are still with him when he enventually makes a hit,....u know what will happen?

payback!! hence dumping u like a piece of trash.

be wish girl ''try to learn something about everything and everything about something''

he never valued u and won't start now but neverthless be mindfull not to rush into a new relationship all in the name of looking for someone to pet u.

''learn to pause or nothing worthwhile will catch up to u'' u will definately meet someone that will love u for who u are,respect u,appreciate ur little effort and treat u like a lady that u are.

remember u can always find true love even though it might take time.

all the very best!

Posted: at 27-09-2009 11:01 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

BE CAREFUL NIGERIAN LADIES, HERE IS ONE OF THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How on earth will sm1 claims he love u and never care 2 smile after food....... FOOOOOOODDD  wooo abeg. that guy no love u poster

Posted: at 28-09-2009 02:44 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Go n tel him ur problemz.If he doesn't do anything about it, u avoid him.U don't need him 2 hate u

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Posted: at 28-09-2009 04:57 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

if you don't see the qualities of a husband in him why waist your time, money and energy? i won't say you should leave him because he's jobless o but because he's not nice to be with.

Posted: at 28-09-2009 11:32 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Babi u have tried as a human begin,but for the seck of CHRIST and love plz don't leave the guy like that,just admire his presence but not as b/4 and then gradualy u we be looking for another guy,u know it takes much time to find the one u need,b/c too desprate over the search can lead u to another wrong place ,and plz don't count on what u have done 4 him love can do more than that ,

remember friends are like baloon.

Posted: at 28-09-2009 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming