where is the best place to raise kids? (Page 5)

the issue is not where u raise ur kids but how u raise them. kids raised in the most 'conducive' of environments can turn out terrible if raised in the wrong way. its like bringing up a child in a church and not teaching him to read and make use of bible teachings. tell me how is dat kid going to turn out?

Posted: at 5-10-2008 12:43 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Since we are from NAIJA with the best culture in the world,the best option is to take back and learn and later be back just because of brain lock for kids.Honestly very difficult to raise a child in your own way in YANKEE due to laws of the land,little things is what they act on and in schools ,those kids being told that as an AMERICAN,they are the best in the world and IMMUNITY is always for them anywhere they step into.
So by this,i hope we treat our young one better way cos we have more JAILS  than to build COLLEGE.

Posted: at 6-10-2008 09:57 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Anyways if u want ur kids brought up in either naija or abroad. Better do it while they're still babies.

Posted: at 6-10-2008 12:15 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

a place like victoria island or lekki or, my end okota..all in lagos , nigeria.
its best to rais eur kids in nigeria coz they wuld be trained to be panasharp

Posted: at 6-10-2008 05:26 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

I think there shouldn't be any issue of where to raise kids... Raise your kids in where you domicile. Your permanent base. I think it doesn't make any sense if u give birth to a child in Asia, then u bring the child to America for up bringing? what if u work in Asia, are u going to abandon your job? So raise your child well.. teach him/her morals, so that when they grow up, they'll not depart from it.......

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Posted: at 7-10-2008 01:02 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

this particular question of where to raise kids should be "understand statement." A round of applause for Hanny babe', a standin ovation 4 ya! i feel the way u approach this topic.

Posted: at 7-10-2008 09:39 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

There is no where to face the fact that is not condusive to raise children. It is the grace of God that abounds anywhere.

Posted: at 9-10-2008 02:49 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

where you raise your kids is immaterial to how you raise them, the bible says you should teach them the way they sould go and they will not depart from it.i live in the US, well in a way i prefare home that is NAIJA,  i was raised there my father never laid his hands on me too and i am very respectful but do you know what? no one taught me in the school to look straight into my parent's face and talk to them, or call 911 when i am being punished, that is the culture here and another thing? a girl of 12 can come and tell you to your face 'Dad will can you  please  stop and pick my boyfriend, so we can go to the dance together?'that was what my friends daughter said to the mum, my dear, the following month she was sent to naija. now what is my point? you can raise them here but let them go to Naija too maybe for like 4 yrs and learn our culture, by the time they come back, they will appreciate you their parents more.

Posted: at 10-10-2008 02:20 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

anywhere where there is great people and great neighbors. and a church

Posted: at 13-10-2008 02:17 AM (16 years ago) | Hero

y do u hate me so much

Posted: at 13-10-2008 03:36 AM (16 years ago) | Hero