anywhere where there is great people and great neighbors. and a church
y church..?is that the only means of salvation? y do u hate me so much lol...u know wat they say bout haters...they only make u better..well its nutin personal..just expressin my opinions,just the way u are... | Posted: at 13-10-2008 03:46 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "berebe") berebe at 13-10-2008 12:38 PM (16 years ago)  (m) your village is the best, I will never mislead u my brother. | Posted: at 13-10-2008 12:38 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "wawase") wawase at 14-10-2008 10:03 PM (16 years ago) (m)  YOU CAN RAISE KIDS BETTER IN NAIJA, PROVIDED YOU HAVE A SERIOUS CARING FAMILY BACK HOME. | Posted: at 14-10-2008 10:03 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "peacetee") peacetee at 15-10-2008 12:07 PM (16 years ago) (f) It is not the place that raises a child, but the Parents..once the foundation is strong..u can raise a child anywhere in the world. Prayers and Love is wot a child needs.
Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the c | Posted: at 15-10-2008 12:07 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "-SoChiMa-") -SoChiMa- at 15-10-2008 10:34 PM (16 years ago) (f) it depends on the situation. but i can assure you when children go to high school in america it is not a positive experience alot of the time if your child follows her friends in doing bad things BUT if you trained her well and not to be a folllower and not get into foolish things then high school in america will be good if she is smart. i went to high school in america and i am not that bad. high school in america is where kids get introduced to sex, drugs, and fighting. High school in nigeria is better if u think ur child will fall victim to the akata lifestyle. if she goes to high school in america be careful of who her friends are she should spend more time with naija ppl rather than akata. | Posted: at 15-10-2008 10:34 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "osituga") osituga at 16-10-2008 12:32 AM (16 years ago) (m)  | Posted: at 16-10-2008 12:32 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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your village is the best, I will never mislead u my brother.
i disagree. but don't ask me why | Posted: at 16-10-2008 02:16 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "chik001") chik001 at 16-10-2008 10:01 PM (16 years ago) (m) rasing your kids in Naija is the best as long as am concern. av lived in Uk for five years now , the kids here are very crazy due to type of laws and policies empowering them to do anything. A kid here can just pick up a phone and call the police for anything against the parents or teacher , even if he lies ; before you know it police and social care are down knocking on your door and if your booked it will be difficult for you to get a job here. believe me ma two kids were born here but they are all back home in naija. we might be called bad names across the world but I know we are very good in instilling morals into our kids. | Posted: at 16-10-2008 10:01 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "monifere") monifere at 17-10-2008 12:36 AM (16 years ago) (f) it depends on the situation. but i can assure you when children go to high school in america it is not a positive experience alot of the time if your child follows her friends in doing bad things BUT if you trained her well and not to be a folllower and not get into foolish things then high school in america will be good if she is smart. i went to high school in america and i am not that bad. high school in america is where kids get introduced to sex, drugs, and fighting. High school in nigeria is better if u think ur child will fall victim to the akata lifestyle. if she goes to high school in america be careful of who her friends are she should spend more time with naija ppl rather than akata.
Shame........this is the kind of mentality that creates so much trouble and war around the world..........people thinking one race is better than others.........this kind of racist mentality only brings negative effects and continues to cultivate bigots and harbour racism. Very sad. | Posted: at 17-10-2008 12:36 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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racism is bad | Posted: at 17-10-2008 02:00 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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you can your kid any way the most important thing is the way you train them and advice them it will help them in future | Posted: at 17-10-2008 12:21 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "naijainct") naijainct at 18-10-2008 03:29 PM (16 years ago) (m) Just found out that its kinda cheaper to raise a child here if you'd consider quality free education and tax deductions. Guess I'm gonna have to bring my son after all. | Posted: at 18-10-2008 03:29 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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either america or naija.....obviously dere is no difference, it all depends on the way you train/ bring up your child....
Be with someone who knows wat they ve wen they ve u............  | Posted: at 19-10-2008 12:47 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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it depends on the situation. but i can assure you when children go to high school in america it is not a positive experience alot of the time if your child follows her friends in doing bad things BUT if you trained her well and not to be a folllower and not get into foolish things then high school in america will be good if she is smart. i went to high school in america and i am not that bad. high school in america is where kids get introduced to sex, drugs, and fighting. High school in nigeria is better if u think ur child will fall victim to the akata lifestyle. if she goes to high school in america be careful of who her friends are she should spend more time with naija ppl rather than akata.
dat makes no difference though because there are some nigerian girls who still fall in d victim of bad friends company so is all everywhere but d training is more important.
Be with someone who knows wat they ve wen they ve u............ | Posted: at 19-10-2008 01:09 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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you can your kid any way the most important thing is the way you train them and advice them it will help them in future
god bless u sister cuz i agree hundred and twenty percent | Posted: at 20-10-2008 05:36 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedono") blessedono at 25-10-2008 02:12 PM (16 years ago) (m) 9ja is ok to train up a child depending on the parents. Parents that love their children will correct their children with good counsel as well as the rod of correction by applying cane. 4get about US culture. Ours is in line with scriptures that says "train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart 4rm it" & another that says " foolishness is bound in the heart of a child but the rod of correction will drive it far from him" Read proverbs and get it straight for yourself. Abi you non dey feel me  | Posted: at 25-10-2008 02:12 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Dguy") Dguy at 25-10-2008 02:29 PM (16 years ago) (m) Raising kids depends on the parents, it dosnt matter where you raise them. The only thing that might be slightly different is the accent - everyother thing would be same
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit | Posted: at 25-10-2008 02:29 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "-SoChiMa-") -SoChiMa- at 25-10-2008 08:03 PM (16 years ago) (f) @monifere u can think my opinion is racist if u want to but its not. i am speaking purely from experience and observation. i am an american and i know exactly what im talkin about u have no idea what goes on here. u can disagree if u like but dont turn my statement around and say it is racist cuz thats a lie. | Posted: at 25-10-2008 08:03 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]() at 31-10-2008 08:28 AM (16 years ago) ![]() SUIT YOURSELF...THE COUNTRY DOESNT REALLY MATTER WAT MATTERS IS THE ORIENTATION YOU GIVE THEM | Posted: at 31-10-2008 08:28 AM (16 years ago) | | |
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where you train up your kids is not the problem but how you bring them up. Children can be raised anywhere, what matters is teaching them the right way to face this life.
actually, your suggestion seems to be so constructive ,proper upbringing is essential for shaping one kid's future life. but when considered from another point of view, the place that ones kids live is influential to their way of life. For instance, Nigerian child couldn't be compared in any way with his American counterpart, and what brought this is the difference in the way people behave towards their kids and how they are trained to grow up well mannered of the two countries | Posted: at 2-11-2008 06:24 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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