At what point do you open up?

Date: 12-01-2010 4:57 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Obinna George
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- at 12-01-2010 04:57 PM (15 years ago)
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We all have secrets which we keep to ourselves, sometimes we share with only our most trusted friends. At what point in a relationship do you trust your patner strongly enough to open up your secrets to the person?


Posted: at 12-01-2010 04:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- dirtykid at 12-01-2010 04:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Not at all.. secret is secret ! best known and kept well for me alone.

Posted: at 12-01-2010 04:59 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- OB3ICE at 12-01-2010 05:00 PM (15 years ago)
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Personally, I dont know the right time, cos if we break up, I might as well have told the whole world

Posted: at 12-01-2010 05:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 12-01-2010 05:01 PM (15 years ago)
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Thats why is good to keep it urself... secret is secret Smiley

Posted: at 12-01-2010 05:01 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 12-01-2010 05:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Dirty secrets. . . Tongue

Posted: at 12-01-2010 05:06 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 12-01-2010 05:46 PM (15 years ago)
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dirty little secret..i think when the time is right.

Posted: at 12-01-2010 05:46 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- adedupcy at 12-01-2010 05:51 PM (15 years ago)
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No point!Cos secret is secret,once revealed it's no more secret.
Posted: at 12-01-2010 05:51 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 13-01-2010 12:30 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: OB3ICE on 12-01-2010 04:57 PM
We all have secrets which we keep to ourselves, sometimes we share with only our most trusted friends. At what point in a relationship do you trust your patner strongly enough to open up your secrets to the person?

Depends on what the secret is,some are best left unsaid while some secrets just have to be told to set yourself free and enjoy life cos that secret might eat you up slowly & gradually
Posted: at 13-01-2010 12:30 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gimac at 13-01-2010 05:07 AM (15 years ago)
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yes and no but it depending how the relationship are going not not everything as man
Posted: at 13-01-2010 05:07 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 13-01-2010 11:10 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 12-01-2010 05:06 PM
Dirty secrets. . . Tongue

There are still some Pretty secret to keep best unknown.

Posted: at 13-01-2010 11:10 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ajose1 at 13-01-2010 11:45 AM (15 years ago)
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Secret is nothing but secret.....so u dnt need 2 open it.
Posted: at 13-01-2010 11:45 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ebony_cutie at 13-01-2010 11:52 AM (15 years ago)
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Yes some secrets shld be locked in 4ever, i still think some secret will come up to hunt one in yrs to come if not shared
Posted: at 13-01-2010 11:52 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sheenor at 13-01-2010 12:13 PM (15 years ago)
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i don't share secret with any friend but em!

Posted: at 13-01-2010 12:13 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 13-01-2010 12:18 PM (15 years ago)
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There are some secrets which are better left secret and should never be told until the last minute before death!

Posted: at 13-01-2010 12:18 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 13-01-2010 01:50 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on 13-01-2010 12:18 PM
There are some secrets which are better left secret and should never be told until the last minute before death!
Shocked Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 13-01-2010 01:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 13-01-2010 01:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2010 11:10 AM
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 12-01-2010 05:06 PM
Dirty secrets. . . Tongue

There are still some Pretty secret to keep best unknown.
I like dat. . . Wink Cool

Posted: at 13-01-2010 01:51 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 13-01-2010 02:08 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 13-01-2010 01:50 PM
Quote from: humblej on 13-01-2010 12:18 PM
There are some secrets which are better left secret and should never be told until the last minute before death!
Shocked Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

yes, dnt be like that, he have a good point.

Posted: at 13-01-2010 02:08 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 13-01-2010 02:16 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on 13-01-2010 02:08 PM
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 13-01-2010 01:50 PM
Quote from: humblej on 13-01-2010 12:18 PM
There are some secrets which are better left secret and should never be told until the last minute before death!
Shocked Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

yes, dnt be like that, he have a good point.
Did i say anything? Sad but dem type of secrets sound rather disastrous and scary dat's all.


What is a secret anywayz?does it necessarily have 2 be somefin bad or somefin some1 doesn't know?

Posted: at 13-01-2010 02:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 13-01-2010 02:21 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: OB3ICE on 12-01-2010 04:57 PM
We all have secrets which we keep to ourselves, sometimes we share with only our most trusted friends. At what point in a relationship do you trust your patner strongly enough to open up your secrets to the person?
Secrets are best kept secrets. Better not to give what U would rather keep, and feel at peace doing so. if it's a secret, keep it a secret. Not many secrets are good things anyway so better do whats right so Ur secrets will be few and U can enjoy life with a lighter heart.
Posted: at 13-01-2010 02:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- corah2 at 13-01-2010 02:24 PM (15 years ago)
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secret is simply secret..............bt i blieve nobody shud kip secrets cos it hurts...
Posted: at 13-01-2010 02:24 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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