first step to owning that spot in his heart.
Love him like he’s the only guy in the
world.
Make him feel special and happy. Let him
know and feel that he’s the king of your
heart and no one can replace him.
He likes the fact that you’re crazy about
him so show him by giving him those
tender kisses, hugs, smooches, and say “I
love you” when there’s a chance.
#2. Don’t Be Too Possessive: Its cute to
get jealous at times and make him feel
like you don’t want to loose him to anyone
but when you start checking his messages
and contact list, that can be a big turn off.
Your man does’nt want to feel like he is
being monitored or watched.
Have some trust him and let him feel that
he has got a confident woman not an
insecure girl.
#3. Just Be Yourself: Don’t try to be like a
supermodel or Beyonce because he likes
her music or has a few photos of her on
his phone or change the way you laugh or
act because you want to impress him.
Men notice all that but its not going to
change a thing because he loves you for
who you are and that is the reason he
asked you out in the first place.
Look good for him, stay fresh and as
beautiful as you were when you just met .
So be free to laugh loud and act silly
around him, he likes it.
#4. Care For Him: Let him know that you
are always going to be there for him
through thick and thin not just by saying it
but your actions should correspond.
Ask him about his family especially the
brother or sister that he is really attached
to. Talk about work and what business
venture he plans to dive into.
Be the caring girlfriend that wants to know
if he has had lunch,dinner, how healthy
he is eating.
You can also put in some efforts by
cooking for him or preparing something
special and bringing it to him.
The path to a man’s heart is through his
belly so cook well for him.
#5. Give Him Space: Yes ladies, give your
man some space! You don’t want him
feeling all chocked up around you.
Let him have some time to hangout with
his friends and do some exciting thing
except he invites you, best time to
hangout with your friends too.
Don’t be a clinch or the girlfriend that is
there 24/7. Let him miss you a little and
think about you then give you a call.
#6. Be Independent: Don’t be the girl
who runs to her man at every little
problem, try to fix things yourself.
At the beginning of the relationship he
might find it cute that you see him worthy
enough to help out but if you keep calling
on him, he might begin to find it irritating
so don’t push it ladies.
Pay your own bills if you can, fix that
broken tap or call a plumber. Don’t stress
him out or be that needy chick, he can
start to think twice about you.
#7. Never Compare Him To Your Ex’s:
He might not be hottest or the richest but
he’s willing to do everything in his power
to please you and make you happy.
So acknowledge the fact that he’s putting
in effort and make him feel appreciated.
Don’t complain when that favour you
requested for isn’t forthcoming or make
spiteful comments about he not
measuring up to your ex.
That can hurt his pride so instead just be
supportive and give him the energy he
requires emotionally.
#8. Communicate With Him: Let him
know what’s going on in your life and what
your fears are, he’s listening! A problem
shared is half solved so confide in him
and he will do the same.
He’s not a magician and cannot read your
mind so don’t be shy to open up to him
about work, the girl you’re having
problems with, your family.
Let him be your friend not just your lover.
There should always be something to talk
about but when there’s nothing, just
cherish the silence and cuddle.
#9. Stay Loyal: Chris Brown thinks we
ain’t, prove him wrong! BE LOYAL.
Don’t be the chick that flirts with her man’s
friends or keeps secrets, he might start to
have reasons to doubt your loyalty.
Let him know he’s the only one and you’re
as committed as he is in the relationship.
Be honest and never leave anything
unsaid concerning your feelings or
changes you’re starting to see that you
don’t like.
#10. Be Positive: Learn to see the best in
him and give compliments when he does
something right or when he’s looking his
best.
Try to embrace him and let him know that
you liked it when he helped with the
dishes or helped to carry your bag.
Don’t be negative or start silly arguments,
that’s a total turnoff! When you focus on
the negative, all you”ll see is negativity.
Be the backbone he needs and not the
bone in his throat.
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