You’ve cried a river, Taken out stock in Ben & Jerry’s, put away the mementos. And then just when you think you’re starting to reclaim your life, you get the text message.
I've missed you so much... Can we talk?
Now what? If this person really meant something to you, your heart probably did a little flip before reality set in. The bottom line is that you two broke up. And while you might desperately have wished to hear those words for weeks, months or even years, running straight back into an ex’s arms without a little forethought may be a risky proposition for your love life.
But what if HE/SHE is the one and now you two have a real shot ? Well, that is precisely the kind of thing you have to think about prior to responding.. would you ever thought Why did you break up in the first place? What was you own part in this breakup? Why would I want HIM/HER back? What questions will you want to ask him/her when you speak?
Finally, realize that if you open your arms again, HE/SHE will be lucky to get you back.
Whats your own opinion people !!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-02-2010 03:11 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
is depense what cos the break up before...for my own ideal a break plate will never be like normal one even if u gum it...is dangeriouse,but its really depense on the ppl involved and also the sytuation...
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 1-02-2010 03:18 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
it's difficult to tell now, especially when I'm in the right mood. When it happens, I'll know what to do. I'm not hoping it will happen sha. but I no be robot wey girl go dey take play on and off
it's difficult to tell now, especially when I'm in the right mood. When it happens, I'll know what to do. I'm not hoping it will happen sha. but I no be robot wey girl go dey take play on and off
But we all know in Life, someone is made for us special and all hope to meet that particular person.. if im right? what if that happens along the line of the so called smooth relationship?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-02-2010 03:58 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 1-02-2010 04:34 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 1-02-2010 03:11 PM
You’ve cried a river, Taken out stock in Ben & Jerry’s, put away the mementos. And then just when you think you’re starting to reclaim your life, you get the text message.
I've missed you so much... Can we talk?
Now what? If this person really meant something to you, your heart probably did a little flip before reality set in. The bottom line is that you two broke up. And while you might desperately have wished to hear those words for weeks, months or even years, running straight back into an ex’s arms without a little forethought may be a risky proposition for your love life.
But what if HE/SHE is the one and now you two have a real shot ? Well, that is precisely the kind of thing you have to think about prior to responding.. would you ever thought Why did you break up in the first place? What was you own part in this breakup? Why would I want HIM/HER back? What questions will you want to ask him/her when you speak?
Finally, realize that if you open your arms again, HE/SHE will be lucky to get you back.
Whats your own opinion people !!
everything is not always what it seems...the person in particular may be the one..or not...but figuring out why u broke up is a big step..weigh the pros and cons first..b4 jumping bck..and if u do..start of as friends..don't just rush in also state ur feelings make it known that when he/she did whatever...that u were hurting..or u did not like it..then if they got some for u as well..then u guys work towards making things better..no relationship is a bed of roses..
hope u understood me..my thoughts r abit jumbled dis morning..
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 1-02-2010 04:34 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 1-02-2010 04:37 PM (15 years ago) (f)
thanks..
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 1-02-2010 04:37 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
tostevsn2002 at 1-02-2010 04:43 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Well..it hard to let her back again... My heart is not a playing ground.. If she is really serious to come back again and I still ave that strong feelings for her...well,I might take her back .as people always say the devil you know it better than the angle u aven't know.
My question I will ask her is that why did we first brokeup? I don't really know is hard man...but sha I will examin her very well.
Posted: at 1-02-2010 04:43 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
erikaakpan at 1-02-2010 04:58 PM (15 years ago) (f)
if u and this person has continuously been off and on. she cant jus expect u jus to drop everything and jus run back to her like that. if its something u think the 2 of u can work out, then give it another shot especially if u think she is the ONE.
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 1-02-2010 04:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
diplomatik at 1-02-2010 05:01 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: around_d_corner on 1-02-2010 04:42 PM
@akpan and dipl whatsup palz........... @ pter will get back @ ya post.......
i'm gr8..u? hey erika..whats up babe?
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 1-02-2010 05:01 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
if u and this person has continuously been off and on. she cant jus expect u jus to drop everything and jus run back to her like that. if its something u think the 2 of u can work out, then give it another shot especially if u think she is the ONE.
my sweet name sis come make u fire this place small
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 1-02-2010 05:05 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 1-02-2010 05:18 PM (15 years ago) (f)
been busy girl..
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 1-02-2010 05:18 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
if u and this person has continuously been off and on. she cant jus expect u jus to drop everything and jus run back to her like that. if its something u think the 2 of u can work out, then give it another shot especially if u think she is the ONE.
What u have never been in touch for a longer period of time, but u do think abt the person,.. do u still think is possible to give it a shot?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-02-2010 05:25 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Well..it hard to let her back again... My heart is not a playing ground.. If she is really serious to come back again and I still ave that strong feelings for her...well,I might take her back .as people always say the devil you know it better than the angle u aven't know.
My question I will ask her is that why did we first brokeup? I don't really know is hard man...but sha I will examin her very well.
Yea exactly.. kinda little complicated and diffcult.. but what if u re the one that contributed alot in the breakup thing? what will be ur reactions? and what questions will u ask then ?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-02-2010 05:28 PM (15 years ago) | Hero