8 ways you can use a terrible break up to create a better version of yourself

Date: 17-06-2016 5:09 pm (8 years ago) | Author: Olabola Tobi
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Sometimes, breakups feel like the end of the world. In a sense, it is an end, but it’s only the end of that particular relationship. It’s also the beginning of a new relationship, the most important relationship of all — the one with yourself.

Breaking up with someone is like moving out of an old house. It takes time and effort, and it requires you to let go of stuff. However, it also allows you to reevaluate some of your own personal baggage and belongings and decide whether or not they are serving any purpose.

If you’re going through a tough breakup, think of it as a grand opportunity. Here are 8 ways to become a better version of yourself after a painful breakup.

1. Remember your passions.

Relationships are time-consuming. The hours you used to spend practicing an instrument, reading, writing, playing a sport, or traveling suddenly turn into hours spent with your significant other. We often forget about what drove us or brought us real pleasure before falling in love.

This is a chance to remember what you’re passionate about and pursue it again. You never know where this pursuit might lead you.

2. Start a journal.

One of the best ways to learn about yourself is to start a journal. When in a relationship, we often lose sight of who we are because we’re so focused on our significant other. It’s important, especially during a breakup when you’re feeling vulnerable, to turn your attention inward.

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Posted: at 17-06-2016 05:09 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
- CHRISETTE at 18-06-2016 12:48 AM (8 years ago)
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Nice will apply this
Posted: at 18-06-2016 12:48 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- GermoDon at 18-06-2016 06:51 AM (8 years ago)
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Noted
Posted: at 18-06-2016 06:51 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- scottchris at 18-06-2016 09:42 AM (8 years ago)
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NEVER HAD A TERRIBLE BREAKUP...... AND I WONT HAVE IT.... SOO I WILL PASS

Posted: at 18-06-2016 09:42 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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