I dont understand myself. Pls help

Date: 20-04-2010 11:43 pm (14 years ago) | Author: emeka
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- at 20-04-2010 11:43 PM (14 years ago)
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I want to have a g.f but anytime i'm very close to getting the girl, something in me will condemn me having a g.f. This happens time without number. I have never slept with any girl before and when i almost get the chance, some reasons will appear in my mind why i shouldnt. Recently i met this girl whom i like so much, i approached her and after all her resistance, she began responding; though she hasnt said yes to me and meanwhile i have been waiting for my mind to condemn but nothing of such happened. Now that she wants to agree, my mind condemns it. My mind gives me reasons like 'if u date her, u must sex her and sex is sin (though am not a saint). Pls help me to be decisive

Posted: at 20-04-2010 11:43 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- Tuks at 20-04-2010 11:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Its not a must u sleep wif every gurl,u cum across.U can juz be fwendz,without takin dem 2 bed....
Posted: at 20-04-2010 11:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 21-04-2010 12:02 AM (14 years ago)
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@Tuks, WORD!!!
Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:02 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 21-04-2010 12:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: emkus111 on 20-04-2010 11:43 PM
I want to have a g.f but anytime i'm very close to getting the girl, something in me will condemn me having a g.f. This happens time without number. I have never slept with any girl before and when i almost get the chance, some reasons will appear in my mind why i shouldnt. Recently i met this girl whom i like so much, i approached her and after all her resistance, she began responding; though she hasnt said yes to me and meanwhile i have been waiting for my mind to condemn but nothing of such happened. Now that she wants to agree, my mind condemns it. My mind gives me reasons like 'if u date her, u must sex her and sex is sin (though am not a saint). Pls help me to be decisive


Sorry broo, How old are u ? if i may ask ? Make ordinary friends first and dont attach anything more than that.

Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 21-04-2010 12:10 AM (14 years ago)
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walking 2wards my sweet chocolate pie
Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 21-04-2010 12:19 AM (14 years ago)
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Then zip ur pant up,.

Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:19 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Bazemaster at 21-04-2010 12:24 AM (14 years ago)
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i get plenty to give off, who is interested............

Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:24 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 21-04-2010 12:25 AM (14 years ago)
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plenty of wetin?baze
Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Rolinppp at 21-04-2010 12:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Follow your conscience

Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:30 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 21-04-2010 12:35 AM (14 years ago)
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You want to follow the devil abi.

Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:35 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kurupt419 at 21-04-2010 12:49 AM (14 years ago)
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make i pass
Posted: at 21-04-2010 12:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- j-rules at 21-04-2010 01:25 AM (14 years ago)
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i agree with Tuks you can be friends without sex if you are disciplined enough  though not all of us can be so disciplined
Posted: at 21-04-2010 01:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kurupt419 at 21-04-2010 01:31 AM (14 years ago)
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...
Posted: at 21-04-2010 01:31 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 21-04-2010 05:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Friends without wetin? Eunuch.

Posted: at 21-04-2010 05:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- neossha at 21-04-2010 06:22 AM (14 years ago)
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@ poster u never can tell, maybe u are destined 2 be a rev. father
bsides u mustnt have a gf or have sex.......
Posted: at 21-04-2010 06:22 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- belindajustins at 21-04-2010 08:41 AM (14 years ago)
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hmm...
Posted: at 21-04-2010 08:41 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sweetrae at 21-04-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago)
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i dont understand U...
Posted: at 21-04-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tuks at 21-04-2010 02:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Y?
Posted: at 21-04-2010 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 21-04-2010 02:42 PM (14 years ago)
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passing and dancing
Posted: at 21-04-2010 02:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Michro at 22-04-2010 12:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Sorry o.
It is beta to obey ur conscience

Posted: at 22-04-2010 12:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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