I think its high time i voice out, i need help (Page 5)

Quote from: olumbareal on 13-05-2010 03:56 PM

Hi everyone out there my name is Vincent  i based in Abuja, i need help urgently, I graduated in year 2007 and served 2008-2009 in Borno state. i was in a relationship with a lady from my school between 2005 to 2007, before thins started falling apart. I started having problem with this lady ever since i was refused an entry visa to UK in the year 2006, in order not to waste ur precious time i lost her to another man who has a good job and desperate to get married.
ever since i finished serving have searching for jobs as an applicant, up till now i have no job and this is giving me sleepless night nothing around me is making me happy, am tired of bn a burden to people around me sometimes i wonder if there are people going through the same challenges am facing now, if you want to suggest prayer have prayed and fasted nothing is working around me.
Am afraid of having relationship because of this challenges am not happy being alone but am afraid i cannot be there for any lady now i don't want to fool myself, my look could not help me i don't need anybody to tell me that am good looking. pls i need ur advice

was just wondering about this ur post. is it really about u? if yes, have u tried relocating to lagos to see maybe there might be ur lucky break...  and if there's anyway u think i might be of help just get in touch....

Posted: at 15-05-2010 06:07 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

We r in dis 2 gether, bt i started sumtin. Try livin witout a gf, until u av sumthn doin. I knw its nt easy, bt u wil feel irresponsible if u cant provide basic tins 4 hr. Cheers.

Posted: at 15-05-2010 08:28 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Ma guy dont wory u've already make it. Wen dere is lyf, equaly dere iz hnpe, so wory not kip on praying.

Posted: at 15-05-2010 09:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Hope things better....wish ya d best

Posted: at 15-05-2010 09:46 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

na waoh dis one sef go finally demoralize the guy.

Posted: at 15-05-2010 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

newbie take am easy on dis broo

Posted: at 15-05-2010 03:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@Corper/Poster, do not get demoralized. U have to take stock of harsh realities. What are the harsh realities around you?
Boys that learnt carpentary for six months are surviving. Are they not?
Boys that learnt how to fix cars are flexing. Are they not?
Girls that learnt tailoring are are chilling. Are they not?

Now u have some so called degree that cant put food on the table. U need to take stock of the harsh realities against you.

Never be afraid of scratch. We were made from scratch. We shall return to scratch. Never fear scratch. Ha aha ha hah ahahahah.

This is reality. Most Nigerian graduates fear scratch. They fail to realize that the perspective of scratch is the true perspective. Ground zero doesnt lie. No forming. I aint saying u should become sad.

My Guy dont fear scratch. Dont fear. Scratch has it's blessings. Disguised blessings. U see things people dont. U are close to the people. U see opportunities they dont see.

It may not be your money that will make u but somebody elses money. Say u start supplying fire-wood to restaurants. Probably rent a pickup for 3thousand naira and source the firewood with 7thousand naira. Say you get 4 thousand naira profit. In a a day or two days work u make 4 thousand. U keep going. With the incessant power shortage say u manage to colonize upper-iweka in onitsha or some busy place in lagos, u will need more hands.

U still havent made that big money. U still chasing. Dogged, continous and never flinching hustler. Tougher than Dangote cause u aint scared of scratch. U still havent made that big money. But, u havent stayed dormant. U mind has been absorbing and analyzing unconciously. And u say that opportunity, and everybody knows u is a hard worker. Every body knows. They know u is a fighter. U aint gat the money. But u know the people. U talk to that big madam that has that restaurant in town. And sharply, u guys colonize that prospect. U relax a little. After-all u are just a man. U transfer ur proceeds into something that is not to strenous.


Your loneliness afflicts u to your soul. Two years ago, u thought the world will end. Decisive action has propelled you into now. Look at your. Big screen TV. Though ur car is a Tokunbo, at least it is decent. U can afford a 1Million Naira wedding. U pray and if God agrees, the right girl is at the corner at the right time. U give her that ring one time. No hesitation. A man deserves some peace.

U stay focused. U respect ur family. Ur respect society. U dont let that money get into ur head. U watch ur kids grow up. And u thank God every day of ur life for his mercies.


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@Corper/ Poster, The short story is possible, if only u are not scared of starting from scratch. Do not be scared of scratch. Man is made from scratch.

I wish u good luck.

Sorry, I have to attend to some other matters, hence, the many typos in the short story.

Corper. Take inventory of ur realities.

Throw away Tobacco.
Throw away Alcohol.
Throw away Bumper to Bumper.
If u are addicted to the above, ur fight is three times as harder than normal

If what u learnt in school has no market. Learn something that can bring u money. Do u know that in some parts of Nigeria, there is something called Agency fee in the Real Estate industry and it is payed to mostly illiterates? Some Estate Management graduates go sit down d complain say no job. Meanwhile some illiterates d collect money just for finding person wey go rent house.

@Corper/Poster.
Do not be scared of scratch. And use that head. Use that ur big konkolo head. No be only for inside class na im person d use head. Use dat head.

NEVER GIVE UP. NEVER GIVE UP. NEVER GIVE UP. NEVER GIVE UP.

You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.


You cant solve a problem by thinking at the level of thinking that created the problem. U must increase ur level of thinking. Einstein said that and i believe him.

Posted: at 15-05-2010 05:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

increase  ur  prayer   schedule   and   be  very   very   serious  with   ur   God.    dont   give  up   on  God!!!!!!!!!   ur   miracle   is   surely  on  d   way.

Posted: at 15-05-2010 08:16 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

don't just wait for job & 4get that babe be a realistic person so you can live upto ur time 2 shine!

Posted: at 16-05-2010 03:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

go nd suck Ara nwayi asaba

Posted: at 16-05-2010 09:48 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac