Pls Help Me! 'My Wife Said Her Ex-Boyfriends are Better Than Me' - Young Man Seeks advice

Published 3 days ago by: Adegbenga Ayinla
at 12:11 PM, 16/05/2019 (3 days ago)

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A Nigerian man identified as Shegson12345, on a popular forum, took to the platform to express how sad he feels after his wife compared him to her ex-boyfriends.
According to the man, his wife of three years told him point-blank that her ex-boyfriends are better than him.

He shared:
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I seriously need mature mind men opinion. This is a lady i meet managing in a room with her friends, i did my little best to rent an apartment for her. This is a lady i meet using Tecno java phone, i bought her her first android phone(Infinix). I never even propose wedding to her before she started discussing marriage with me because she is very sure i loved her. We wedded after 9months we met.(3years ago).
Four month ago, i wanted to help her apply for a job online which i have done to the stage of uploading credentials and i asked her to give me her credentials in order to complete the registration, but to my surprise, she told me she has not collected her certificate from the school she graduated from for the past 5years and she never bordered to collect it. I was forced to report her to her sister.
She latter bounced back on me with force, comparing me to ex-boyfreinds, asking me what did i even have that am doing shakara, that her ex is far better than me financially, that her ex rented 3bedroom flat for her then but she just choose to come to the one room i rented for her. so on and so fort.
And now, i have started thinking negatively towards our marriage and am very confused on reason why she would even compare her ex to me just because of this little matter. And how come her ex is better than me.
Thanks in advance for opinion.


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Olandetujaa at 12:34 PM, 16/05/2019 (3 days ago)
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You provoke her first, trying to be inquisitive about her result
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kp45 at 12:59 PM, 16/05/2019 (3 days ago)
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Quote from: Olandetujaa on 12:34 PM, 16/05/2019
You provoke her first, trying to be inquisitive about her result
I don't think that's the case.
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kp45 at 01:04 PM, 16/05/2019 (3 days ago)
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I think the husband deserve the right to know about her educational background. There is something outside what we are reading which is not stated.
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Baye77 at 02:36 PM, 16/05/2019 (3 days ago)
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May God save us from loose spouse
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kellyosas at 05:08 PM, 16/05/2019 (3 days ago)
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How did he wronged her by try to be inquisitive about her result?? Please according to the guy is question its for matured mind only...Theirs nothing wrong for a husband ask facts from the wife and to you my brother invite her parents and sort it out with her for posterity sake or you are just swimming in a very big pond
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Doyourworst at 07:49 PM, 16/05/2019 (3 days ago)
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Quote from: Olandetujaa on 12:34 PM, 16/05/2019
You provoke her first, trying to be inquisitive about her result



He provoked her, how?....I  hate men like you that think through their Anus!. Next time, think well before you vomit shit here. That's a warning!.
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DMJazz at 10:35 PM, 16/05/2019 (2 days ago)
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She is like Pa Buhari -certificateless! Like president, like citizen
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amasan1 at 11:35 PM, 16/05/2019 (2 days ago)
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Upgrade yourself

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