Pls Help Me! 'My Wife Said Her Ex-Boyfriends are Better Than Me' - Young Man Seeks advice

Date: 16-05-2019 12:11 pm (4 years ago) | Author: Adegbenga Ayinla
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A Nigerian man identified as Shegson12345, on a popular forum, took to the platform to express how sad he feels after his wife compared him to her ex-boyfriends.
According to the man, his wife of three years told him point-blank that her ex-boyfriends are better than him.

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I seriously need mature mind men opinion. This is a lady i meet managing in a room with her friends, i did my little best to rent an apartment for her. This is a lady i meet using Tecno java phone, i bought her her first android phone(Infinix). I never even propose wedding to her before she started discussing marriage with me because she is very sure i loved her. We wedded after 9months we met.(3years ago).
Four month ago, i wanted to help her apply for a job online which i have done to the stage of uploading credentials and i asked her to give me her credentials in order to complete the registration, but to my surprise, she told me she has not collected her certificate from the school she graduated from for the past 5years and she never bordered to collect it. I was forced to report her to her sister.
She latter bounced back on me with force, comparing me to ex-boyfreinds, asking me what did i even have that am doing shakara, that her ex is far better than me financially, that her ex rented 3bedroom flat for her then but she just choose to come to the one room i rented for her. so on and so fort.
And now, i have started thinking negatively towards our marriage and am very confused on reason why she would even compare her ex to me just because of this little matter. And how come her ex is better than me.
Thanks in advance for opinion.


Posted: at 16-05-2019 12:11 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Olandetujaa at 16-05-2019 12:34 PM (4 years ago)
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You provoke her first, trying to be inquisitive about her result
Posted: at 16-05-2019 12:34 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kp45 at 16-05-2019 12:59 PM (4 years ago)
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Quote from: Olandetujaa on 16-05-2019 12:34 PM
You provoke her first, trying to be inquisitive about her result
I don't think that's the case.
Posted: at 16-05-2019 12:59 PM (4 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kp45 at 16-05-2019 01:04 PM (4 years ago)
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I think the husband deserve the right to know about her educational background. There is something outside what we are reading which is not stated.
Posted: at 16-05-2019 01:04 PM (4 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Baye77 at 16-05-2019 02:36 PM (4 years ago)
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May God save us from loose spouse
Posted: at 16-05-2019 02:36 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
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- kellyosas at 16-05-2019 05:08 PM (4 years ago)
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How did he wronged her by try to be inquisitive about her result?? Please according to the guy is question its for matured mind only...Theirs nothing wrong for a husband ask facts from the wife and to you my brother invite her parents and sort it out with her for posterity sake or you are just swimming in a very big pond
Posted: at 16-05-2019 05:08 PM (4 years ago) | Newbie
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- Doyourworst at 16-05-2019 07:49 PM (4 years ago)
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Quote from: Olandetujaa on 16-05-2019 12:34 PM
You provoke her first, trying to be inquisitive about her result



He provoked her, how?....I  hate men like you that think through their Anus!. Next time, think well before you vomit shit here. That's a warning!.
Posted: at 16-05-2019 07:49 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DMJazz at 16-05-2019 10:35 PM (4 years ago)
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She is like Pa Buhari -certificateless! Like president, like citizen
Posted: at 16-05-2019 10:35 PM (4 years ago) | Upcoming
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- amasan1 at 16-05-2019 11:35 PM (4 years ago)
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Upgrade yourself

Posted: at 16-05-2019 11:35 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
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