Girls get pregnant for different reasons.
1. For show off.
2. To handcuff a guy.
3. Victim of a (user and abuser)
4. Victim of rape.
5. Victim of incest.
Can not blame them much. Can not blame them much. No data in em heads. And they think life is mills and boons.
u forgot d most important one, LOVE @flymamacita and @blessedme, u guys make me laugh. Very laughterous. Ha ha ha haha. Pardon d contraption of a word, 'laughterous.'. Chai!
Love? You love him so u got pregnant and now you are a single mum? Ladies, please. Abeg. Pele. Yankuri!
So a girl loves a guy and throws caution to the wind? Right? And afterwards, the guy is getting married to some other chick and can not even own up. Wow!
Did d girl get pregnant to keep the guy? If she didn't the guy was using her then. Is that not number 3; victim of a user(abuser)? She was a victim of immaturity and lack of discipline period. Alright, u can go ahead and qualify her short comings or mistake with the most abused word in the world - LOVE. Ha haha haha.
@sexy23, am just saying it as it is. Most guys may not say it proper. Me cause I love typing that is why I say it so people get the point. At the end of the day, there is no such thing as being left behind. Life is not a race. And then again one may argue that it is, I guess, I compete with myself to reach my grave and with no other person.
Getting married to a single mum is complicated. For some like my, the child is not the complication. The child is not the factor. Society and self are the two pregnant factors to consider.
Life is harsh. Reality is ugly. And when she is ugly, u can't see her beauty.
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I think the topic for debate should be the topic below.
If ur bachelor of a son wishes to Marry a Single mum, would you encourage or discourage him?
If ur spinster of a daughter wishes to Marry a single dad, would you encourage or discourage her?
I wonder what most guys and girls would say.
Most girls may permit em daughters to marry a widower.
And I think most girls would not permit em sons to marry a widow.
@flymamacita, @blessedme, @sexy23, do I make sense?
@blessedme, @sexy23, would u not encourage ur son to get married to some young chick who has never had a child been married before? Would you not? Would you not implore your friends to advice your son if he insists? Would you not be rash towards the single mum? Would you not spread rumours of the single mum hoodwinking your son with witchcraft?
@naijapals, this is Nigeria. This is Nigeria. Let us be real. Or you guys think that when a Guy wishes to get married to a girl in Nigeria, he carries the Kola alone? Does a Nigerian man give his daughter to a man with meeting the man's relatives? Come on! Ladies, make we face this harsh reality. How many Nigerian man and Nigerian mum go permit a man to get married to a Single mum? How many? A girl can be permitted to get married to a single dad in Nigeria easily. But a guy? Now that is had.
If you are a single mum out there and some Nigerian guy is dating you in Nigeria, be very suspicious if he promises you marriage. Except his parents are very enlightened or have lost the ears of their son, do not trust all those promises. Do not trust those promises cause mothers are very very very jealous. African mothers are very very very very very very Jealouse when it comes to their sons. Posted: at 14-07-2010 06:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming |
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