Can you marry som1 you are not segxwally attracted to? (Page 3)

Date: 14-07-2010 10:26 am (14 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- waco at 14-07-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago)
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serious mistake
Posted: at 14-07-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 14-07-2010 01:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: atamajim on 14-07-2010 01:24 PM
no comment

THERE WILL BE COMENT WHN U FINISH TAKWALIN THE MAJIM
Posted: at 14-07-2010 01:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tyabo at 14-07-2010 01:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 14-07-2010 12:06 PM
nope i cant
y u still dey ansa dz kyn question u wey dun marry born ol d suppose numba..naa try am again oo b4 red card go show face..lol
Posted: at 14-07-2010 01:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sarahally at 14-07-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago)
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wellllllllllllllllllllllllllllll i cnt
Posted: at 14-07-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- debuchi at 14-07-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Why should i do that? someone that i will never be happy with Cool
Posted: at 14-07-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Agatex at 14-07-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago)
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once one makes his/her mind to marry you must be ready take all that come with it.
Posted: at 14-07-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 14-07-2010 03:27 PM (14 years ago)
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@ post - whatever
Posted: at 14-07-2010 03:27 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tyris2727 at 14-07-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago)
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depends Grin Undecided
Posted: at 14-07-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- qunodinga at 14-07-2010 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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i  fear fear cos fear dey fear me +
Posted: at 14-07-2010 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sexy_error at 14-07-2010 03:54 PM (14 years ago)
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I need not write anything cos i'm just as sexy as my name
Posted: at 14-07-2010 03:54 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- waco at 14-07-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago)
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I was here
Posted: at 14-07-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 14-07-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy_error on 14-07-2010 03:54 PM
I need not write anything cos i'm just as sexy as my name

den commot dis tin show us ya pix
Posted: at 14-07-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- luvvy at 14-07-2010 05:37 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmm
Posted: at 14-07-2010 05:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- fireman at 14-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago)
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this one no be question cus the answer na no.NO.
Posted: at 14-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- nice9ija at 14-07-2010 07:47 PM (14 years ago)
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what for???
Posted: at 14-07-2010 07:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 14-07-2010 08:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Bad Sex Bad Marriage as far as l'm Concerned

So l cannot marry som1 l'm not segxwally attracted 2
Posted: at 14-07-2010 08:52 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 14-07-2010 10:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 14-07-2010 10:26 AM
I feel it will not be fair to your partner (and yourself also) if you go into a marriage if there is no compatibility in this area. Personally, I feel it could lead to lack of respect, lack of intimacy, frustration, discontent and ultimately divorce.

Some men cheat because they no longer find their wives attractive with leads to a lack of interest in the bedroom also. Sometimes people claim to fall out of love but actually the attraction is what has gone away. Maybe it has to do with issues such as personal hygiene(Mouth or body odour) etc.

Those in arranged marriages or ladies who marry for money are very susceptible to this and can easily stray if the right temptation comes along(forget that anyone claimed virgin before they married). Some may even say the love for their partner goes beyond sex but what's it like to marry someone you love but can't love in the bedroom(this is not about teaching, I mean a total absence of attraction, spark and chemistry)? Some people who hurriedly married virgins should understand this.

Now there's a danger in marrying virgins because some of them never "ever" get to a point where they can be comfortable or desire sex unless for reproductive purposes, leaving the man(who decides not to cheat) in a mix. It works the other way too when a man or woman is too slow in catching up, it turns the other party off entirely.So for those who don't believe in sampling before marriage(not that I'm encouraging it), it's a bit of a pickle when you get married and open up a world of surprises.

So the question is, will you do it?

For love?
For money?
For security?
For your parents sake?
For celibacy sake(Virgins)?

hsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 14-07-2010 10:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- priceless87 at 15-07-2010 11:07 AM (14 years ago)
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what's the need of marriage when you are not segxwally attracted to the person? Huh?
Posted: at 15-07-2010 11:07 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 15-07-2010 11:15 AM (14 years ago)
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na im be say na cheating una go dey do na
Posted: at 15-07-2010 11:15 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-07-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago)
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reading
Posted: at 15-07-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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