[quote author=priceless87 link=topic=43983.msg1440623#msg1440623 date=1282575651] God forbid bad thing! it's a bit easier to forgive when it has to do with the house help cos she's from another family. But with my sister, chei, dat would be the end of that marriage. make God nor let my eyez see wetin i nor fit bear
But all na INFIDELITY now.........why would you treat one different from the other? [/b][/color]
pls don't quote my wrong, i'm not treating anyone different from the other. look at it nah, if you catch your husband sleeping with your house help, you can talk things over and forgive him, though it hurts. But with your sister? abeg it's an abomination. [/quote]
By who?........who has committed the abomination?..your hubby or your sister?......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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[ b][quote author=priceless87 link=topic=43983.msg1440623#msg1440623 date=1282575651] God forbid bad thing! it's a bit easier to forgive when it has to do with the house help cos she's from another family. But with my sister, chei, dat would be the end of that marriage. make God nor let my eyez see wetin i nor fit bear
But all na INFIDELITY now.........why would you treat one different from the other? [/b][/color] pls don't quote my wrong, i'm not treating anyone different from the other. look at it nah, if you catch your husband sleeping with your house help, you can talk things over and forgive him, though it hurts. But with your sister? abeg it's an abomination. By who?........who has committed the abomination?..your hubby or your sister?...... [/quote][/b][/color] both of them ofcourse Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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What if he decides to marry your sister along with you?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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[quote author=divineproject link=topic=43983.msg1440723#msg1440723 date=1282577892] What if he decides to marry your sister along with you? [/quote][/b] marry me along with my sister? God forbid it, abi na swear dem swear for the man? I'll leave the house for both of them and I wish them well now let me ask you dear DP, what would you do if you were in da shoe? Posted: at 24-08-2010 08:25 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 24-08-2010 08:54 AM (14 years ago) (f) dumb founded
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 24-08-2010 08:54 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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solojaro at 24-08-2010 08:55 AM (14 years ago) (m) [quote author=divineproject link=topic=43983.msg1440723#msg1440723 date=1282577892] What if he decides to marry your sister along with you?
[/color][/b] marry me along with my sister? God forbid it, abi na swear dem swear for the man? I'll leave the house for both of them and I wish them well now let me ask you dear DP, what would you do if you were in da shoe? [/quote]Good decision. Posted: at 24-08-2010 08:55 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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[quote author=divineproject link=topic=43983.msg1440723#msg1440723 date=1282577892] What if he decides to marry your sister along with you?
[/color][/b] marry me along with my sister? God forbid it, abi na swear dem swear for the man? I'll leave the house for both of them and I wish them well now let me ask you dear DP, what would you do if you were in da shoe? [/quote] I wont leave my home for any woman, sister or no sister...........it is my home and I must make it work........I will get to know what led him into such a disgraceful act and if am at fault, I will try and adjust..........But I wont leave my home!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 24-08-2010 10:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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tmusowoya at 24-08-2010 12:11 PM (14 years ago) (m) something like happened for real between wife and hubby's close friend. After finding them red handed, he just walked out of the bedroom and closed the door. He didn't say a word to his wife or friend or anybody; imagine just living on like nothing happened. The wife ended commting suicide on her own. Would you blame the hubby for wife's death? Posted: at 24-08-2010 12:11 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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something like happened for real between wife and hubby's close friend. After finding them red handed, he just walked out of the bedroom and closed the door. He didn't say a word to his wife or friend or anybody; imagine just living on like nothing happened. The wife ended commting suicide on her own.
Would you blame the hubby for wife's death?
Hmmmmmmmmm The man has some blame too....dont you know silence is a killer?........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 24-08-2010 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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tmusowoya at 24-08-2010 12:27 PM (14 years ago) (m) something like happened for real between wife and hubby's close friend. After finding them red handed, he just walked out of the bedroom and closed the door. He didn't say a word to his wife or friend or anybody; imagine just living on like nothing happened. The wife ended commting suicide on her own.
Would you blame the hubby for wife's death?
Hmmmmmmmmm The man has some blame too....dont you know silence is a killer?........ my gud sister! what wud u want him to have done? Posted: at 24-08-2010 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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[ color=green][quote author=divineproject link=topic=43983.msg1440723#msg1440723 date=1282577892] What if he decides to marry your sister along with you?
[/color][/b] marry me along with my sister? God forbid it, abi na swear dem swear for the man? I'll leave the house for both of them and I wish them well now let me ask you dear DP, what would you do if you were in da shoe? I wont leave my home for any woman, sister or no sister...........it is my home and I must make it work........I will get to know what led him into such a disgraceful act and if am at fault, I will try and adjust..........But I wont leave my home! [/quote][/color][/b] what if you the fault is not yours? how would you cope with a man who slept with your sister Posted: at 24-08-2010 12:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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something like happened for real between wife and hubby's close friend. After finding them red handed, he just walked out of the bedroom and closed the door. He didn't say a word to his wife or friend or anybody; imagine just living on like nothing happened. The wife ended commting suicide on her own.
Would you blame the hubby for wife's death?
Hmmmmmmmmm The man has some blame too....dont you know silence is a killer?........ my gud sister! what wud u want him to have done? He should have shown his anger, he should have talked to her, or even sent her back to her father's house temporarily........now does he feel good with her death?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 24-08-2010 12:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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onchedu at 24-08-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) (m) something like happened for real between wife and hubby's close friend. After finding them red handed, he just walked out of the bedroom and closed the door. He didn't say a word to his wife or friend or anybody; imagine just living on like nothing happened. The wife ended commting suicide on her own.
Would you blame the hubby for wife's death?
Hmmmmmmmmm The man has some blame too....dont you know silence is a killer?........ Abegee... Which color of blame for the man? Stop that thing o. Posted: at 24-08-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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something like happened for real between wife and hubby's close friend. After finding them red handed, he just walked out of the bedroom and closed the door. He didn't say a word to his wife or friend or anybody; imagine just living on like nothing happened. The wife ended commting suicide on her own.
Would you blame the hubby for wife's death?
Hmmmmmmmmm The man has some blame too....dont you know silence is a killer?........ Abegee... Which color of blame for the man? Stop that thing o. The man's silence contributed to her committing suicide...so he has SOME blame
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 24-08-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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onchedu at 24-08-2010 01:04 PM (14 years ago) (m) Typical woman. He has some blame shey? Ok. At least he didn't beat her to death so his blame is manageable. Posted: at 24-08-2010 01:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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mykelly at 24-08-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) well forgiveness should be shown..but trust would definitely cease to exist.. Posted: at 24-08-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tmusowoya at 24-08-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) (m) something like happened for real between wife and hubby's close friend. After finding them red handed, he just walked out of the bedroom and closed the door. He didn't say a word to his wife or friend or anybody; imagine just living on like nothing happened. The wife ended commting suicide on her own.
Would you blame the hubby for wife's death?
Hmmmmmmmmm The man has some blame too....dont you know silence is a killer?........ my gud sister! what wud u want him to have done? He should have shown his anger, he should have talked to her, or even sent her back to her father's house temporarily........now does he feel good with her death? OK. That's the ideal but one can hardly predict one's response. Do you know there're cases where those who have been cheated on have commited suicide? To avoid all this we shud all endeavour to not do to our friends what we wud not want anybody to do to us! Posted: at 24-08-2010 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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onchedu at 24-08-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) well forgiveness should be shown..but trust would definitely cease to exist..
Forgiveness easy? Forgiveness isn't even meant for the unrepentant. U'd be lucky if U live to see Ur next birthday forgiving a woman that has been caught in such a grave situation. This is a "run for ur life" at a calm gentle pace situaton. Posted: at 24-08-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Typical woman. He has some blame shey? Ok. At least he didn't beat her to death so his blame is manageable.
Yea, from the word 'go' I said SOME blame................
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 24-08-2010 01:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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[quote author=divineproject link=topic=43983.msg1440723#msg1440723 date=1282577892] What if he decides to marry your sister along with you?
[/color][/b] marry me along with my sister? God forbid it, abi na swear dem swear for the man? I'll leave the house for both of them and I wish them well now let me ask you dear DP, what would you do if you were in da shoe? I wont leave my home for any woman, sister or no sister...........it is my home and I must make it work........I will get to know what led him into such a disgraceful act and if am at fault, I will try and adjust..........But I wont leave my home! [/quote] Dear, and wht to do when u r not at fault ? Posted: at 24-08-2010 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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