@bittersweet it's our culture and it's normal thing to we afrinca women me my self i we kneel down for my man
I just found out now, from this topic! Well, where I live doesn't exist such a thing! Nobody kneels down for nobody, just for God!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onchedu at 28-08-2010 02:20 PM (13 years ago) (m) Most women that kneel for their husbands aren't doing it cos they are being forced to do it. they do it willingly, sometimes to flatter their husbands. I've had girls squat down by my side in public to talk to me while I was seated. I would have stood if asked to but they chose to stoop to my level and ease me of the stress of getting up. Funny thing is I just felt at those times that should they have asked me anything I'd have given it. Not sure why I felt so but it was all good. Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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It's a tradition in Nigeria to kneel down to your elders.... But your husband is not supposed to be your elder he's supposed to be your mate weather is older than you or not. Husbands and wives are supposed to be equal. Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:26 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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HOPEA23 at 28-08-2010 02:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) where you come from? your husband is equally your elder first he is the head of the house secondly,the age difference.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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where you come from? your husband is equally your elder first he is the head of the house secondly,the age difference.
no I said you husband is you equal. I wouldn't want to marry a man who thinks he's the head of the house... Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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i dont see any reason why i ll be kneelin down for my wife or she doinso to me,even when we offend each other or something!there are other ways to honour someone or show humility!
anything worth doing is worth doing well Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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i am aware of your culture , i am an Indian , and i am in a relationship with one of your Igbo man hear in India , Indian tradition is lil same as in , married women will touch their husband n in laws feet as custom an tradition, some Hindu religion do it everyday , some do it occasionally on festival or traditional days .... but myself i belive in God d creator , to bow in front of him or kneel.. i too beleive a man n wife sud be in an equal relation ship. But only if i offend my guy, surely i will kneel in front of him , because i love and respect him. Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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i am aware of your culture , i am an Indian , and i am in a relationship with one of your Igbo man hear in India , Indian tradition is lil same as in , married women will touch their husband n in laws feet as custom an tradition, some Hindu religion do it everyday , some do it occasionally on festival or traditional days .... but myself i belive in God d creator , to bow in front of him or kneel.. i too beleive a man n wife sud be in an equal relation ship. But only if i offend my guy, surely i will kneel in front of him , because i love and respect him. Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:02 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Missthing at 28-08-2010 03:03 PM (13 years ago) (f) Whomever wrote the headline for this topic on the front page couldn't tell the difference between knee and kneel? Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:03 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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dakar123 at 28-08-2010 03:08 PM (13 years ago) (m) a woman who falls down for man is not too bad thing but the man that her Wife falls down have to give her woman respect too in all thing Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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sweetrae at 28-08-2010 03:32 PM (13 years ago) (f) ladies would u mind honoring ur partner by kneeling down for him?....i do hear some women say they cant do it..so wanna know ur opinion?
peeped... Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ladies would u mind honoring ur partner by kneeling down for him?....i do hear some women say they cant do it..so wanna know ur opinion?
peeped... peeping is nt allowed!
anything worth doing is worth doing well Posted: at 28-08-2010 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tyabo at 28-08-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago) (m) Kneeling down? What for? Come on! I could honor him in many other ways, but definitely not that!
yes you will but you won't know when No,I won't! Be sure of that! be truth to yourself for once you will... seconded !! Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tyabo at 28-08-2010 04:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) ladies would u mind honoring ur partner by kneeling down for him?....i do hear some women say they cant do it..so wanna know ur opinion?
well well.......kneeling suppose to be for one person only.....what i mean is,we are only suppose to knee for God and not humans. but since our great grand mothers are doing.....they says it means respecting their hubby and after jesus is their hubby well i guess i will do. not kneeling for him everyday,just when he is upset and refused to maybe eat the ood i prepared. My Sis, not just the food u prepared also in the bedroom lol...wot am i sensing hia..i tot una fit do widout am na... Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tyabo at 28-08-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) (m) ladies would u mind honoring ur partner by kneeling down for him?....i do hear some women say they cant do it..so wanna know ur opinion?
well well.......kneeling suppose to be for one person only.....what i mean is,we are only suppose to knee for God and not humans. but since our great grand mothers are doing.....they says it means respecting their hubby and after jesus is their hubby well i guess i will do. not kneeling for him everyday,just when he is upset and refused to maybe eat the ood i prepared. 4 1s u've stepped down 4rm d high mountains. i neva tot u culd say u will...rada woz tinkn its gonna b d oda way round..kudos Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tyabo at 28-08-2010 04:10 PM (13 years ago) (m) Madam sure is here to oppose?
abi oo?? Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tyabo at 28-08-2010 04:14 PM (13 years ago) (m) Yeah! As a mark of respect and humility i will kneel for him afterall he is my crown.
wow ur so sweet...wifing material nt d type dat carry's dere shoulder up high..kudos Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Kneeling down? What for? Come on! I could honor him in many other ways, but definitely not that!
yes you will but you won't know when No,I won't! Be sure of that! be truth to yourself for once you will... seconded !! Excuse me!?! Are you knowing better than me what I can do and what not?
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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tyabo at 28-08-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) (m) Kneeling down? What for? Come on! I could honor him in many other ways, but definitely not that!
yes you will but you won't know when No,I won't! Be sure of that! be truth to yourself for once you will... seconded !! Excuse me!?! Are you knowing better than me what I can do and what not? nt knowing u betta dan u of wot ur capable of doing. bt av been watchn u closely on ur posts u've been making here nd u've neva 4 1s admit or support on any of em tins dat got 2 do wid d lady stoopin low 4 her spouse..wen we all know wot women r capable of both d 1s dey culd take nd d 1s dey could nt take..bt in ur case non is eva acceptable by u..no matter hw strong hearted or high spirited u r dere must b surely 1 tin dat will make u stoop low a lil bit 4 ur spouse unless ur nt human...peace Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tyabo at 28-08-2010 04:34 PM (13 years ago) (m) ladies would u mind honoring ur partner by kneeling down for him?....i do hear some women say they cant do it..so wanna know ur opinion?
Is he God? nobody is saying he is God here bt @least trying 2 respect or appreciate him..even in d Bible or Qu'ran it woz being stated dat u shuld respect ur husband nd if kneeling down b4 ur husband is respect den y can't u u pple shuld berra let go off personal pride and ego..peace Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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