Are Men Really Needed In The House-Hold? (Page 9)

Expect surprise 2.

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Posted: at 23-11-2010 12:40 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Men plays very important role in the household, brining up a child, taking care of things that the lady and the child can't.... protecting them always. Every growing child feel more secured with the father around, just like the mother is assured of security with the man around so is the child.

is not only about making the babies that men do, Real men can that Love and care for their families do alot of house chores. atimes the mother is down, the man has to do it to cover the gap.

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Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

we leave here at the moment goodnight preetyinstinct coz duty call aight 

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Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:12 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

I hail you ooo

I can write a page or two about this but i am not ready for unnecessary insults. Things have changed a lot from the days when women used to need men, and men used to be actual providers and protectors.  The men used to work, like real labour, fishing, farming etc and their wifes stayed at home or had small businesses so they were able to cater to their families very well. Now everything is upside down... the women do everything that men do but the men still expect the women to cater for them and the family like the women in the past did. They want a wife that will work with them and bring in money, a provider, but they still want her to cook, clean, the house, take the children to school, make  sure food is ready when he gets back from work (although she gets back around the same time he does), some even want massage (who will massage the wife?) they want a superwoman, a wife that is everything and more but he still wants to maintain his traditional role.  Those men in the past fought lions and eleplants when they went hunting ( ok thats a bit too much but you get what i mean   ) but these men today stay in air conditioned offices sitting with their pot-belly and when they come back they want their wife to give massage and have food ready, as if hes went hunting or he sat in the river all day fishing, while the wife probably just got back from work aswell.

I said I wasn't going to be long but while I'm on it let me continue  
I'm not saying all men are like that, thank God, but the ones that are are the same ones that would say 'my wife has to work to support the family, the days when women didn't work have past we are in the 21th century'... how can it work .  They will ask why does she want to know what I do? why does she like money... why do you like a beautiful woman, why do you like a woman that can cook, get the house and kids in order and do all that... its almost natural women want providers, they want security, they want a man that can put food on the table... people these day act as if any woman that likes or gets married to a rich man is a prostitute or a gold-digger,  that word has been sooooo abused, of course some women (and men) deserve it but any woman that looks at a rich man today is a gold-digger  but its an abomination to some men if a woman can't cook. Thats part of the reasons why family and marriage is a  mess today. Everything is messed up husband, wife, children don't know their role, everyone is every where, men want women to be all, women want men to step up ( how? what else can he do fly?) children are just everywhere... while before is was easier for men to provide, women care, and children just be children. Its a good thing and a bad thing depending on who you talk to... so the best thing is to know who you're marrying, their views on family, the roles etc. If you are marrying a career woman know that she is human not super women,if you do the same thing the role changes you have to decide who does what and what... if you a career woman marrying a career man, he works already how much more of a man can he be?, he doesn't have to earn more than you... people have to discuss the roles with their partners because this traditional man does this and woman does that thing just isn't working anymore and they have to change it in the social studies books because it must be messing children up when what they are being taught is not the same as what they see or it is rapidly changing.

Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:15 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Woah gurl, i think i'll leave d reading 4 2 morrow.

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Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

NO NO NO IT'S JUST THE BEGINNING OK !

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Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:31 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

COOOOOOOL GIRL GOODNIGHT ONCE AGAIN DUTY CALL AIGHT

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Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:35 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

u can say that again

Posted: at 23-11-2010 01:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

lol..lets  go there indeed

Posted: at 23-11-2010 02:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well is not about having right or left ........... Just hit the points straight. Are men really needed in the house aid ? Yes or No ? reasons .... thats all.

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Posted: at 23-11-2010 02:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero