hmmmm | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dan_Fulani") Dan_Fulani at 9-01-2011 12:10 PM (13 years ago)  (m) that's my opinion.what exists is just mutual understanding.I broke the news to my family that i don't believe in love therefore, they should stop asking me if i have a fiancee...my dad nearly fainted.......anyway...im sick and tired of hearing "im heartbroken" my bf or gf just dumped me..peace out......
Sista emepretty, I feel your pains. You have never felt that joy in your heart when
you gaze upon a loved one. No man has ever looked at you and told you, that you
are beautiful, and he wants you in his life. That magic has never touched you. Take
heart, my dear you are still young it will happen to you. When it does you will feel different.
What you said about mutual understanding makes sense too. I will take it further and say,
both parties understand that for their relationship to grow strong there must be honesty,
mutual respect, loyalty, and trust. Love falls apart and feelings get hurt when any of those
characteristics cease to exist or is violated in the relationship.
dan fulani | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dan_Fulani") Dan_Fulani at 9-01-2011 12:13 PM (13 years ago) (m) i think the problem u are having is that u'v not actually had the chance of tasting it if not'na u go carry am 4 ur head
I share your views, brotha.
dan fulani | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I feel you poster!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "justceetah") justceetah at 9-01-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago) (m) U guys should pause and ask urself what luv really is b4 u draw ur conclusion wether it exist or not
Friends determined by distance are no friends at all | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dan_Fulani") Dan_Fulani at 9-01-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago) (m) hmmnn....ive done proper research....it pisses me when i see pple hurt all inthe name of love..even those i thought were so inlove...for those who believe..goodluck
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People get hurt when one party is dishonest. That does not mean that there was no love
in the beginning. One of the party felt it hence the hurt. The dishonest party betrayed and
abused the trust in the relationship.
You introduce another dimension....belief in each other. For love to grow you have to
believe in yourself and in your partner.
Ms emepretty, has all the characteristics, all that is left is a nice guy (her type) to come along
and put that magic in her heart. Guys, if you live in the same city as this sista..give her a nudge.
Ask her out to dinner and see if she can discover LOVE.
dan fulani | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dan_Fulani") Dan_Fulani at 9-01-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) eme,are u sure u r nt talking out of frustratn n anger?
That is another way of looking at it.
You can get frustrated and angry if you have never felt the magic or have been betrayed.
dan fulani | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dan_Fulani") Dan_Fulani at 9-01-2011 12:34 PM (13 years ago) (m) it really isn't fair....and me, im not ready to sacrifice coz i know what that has caused me and others
That is it: Sister you did have your expectations disappointed.
Betrayal does hurt....that guy was the wrong person. Try again!
dan fulani | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Dan_Fulani") Dan_Fulani at 9-01-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) (m) i think the problem u are having is that u'v not actually had the chance of tasting it if not'na u go carry am 4 ur head
This brotha (shoboyo) has decided to put his social psychologist
hat on and give his do his analysis. Thank you, you are doing a great job.
dan fulani | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "popo2009") popo2009 at 9-01-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) @Poster....without any doubt I strongly agree with you. Some people talk abt true Love All that is rubbish. | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "emepretty") emepretty at 9-01-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) thank u..u make sense | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "xena15") xena15 at 9-01-2011 12:58 PM (13 years ago) (f) I dey come. Make i go find love.
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u! | Posted: at 9-01-2011 12:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "emepretty") emepretty at 9-01-2011 01:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) eme,are u sure u r nt talking out of frustratn n anger?
That is another way of looking at it.
You can get frustrated and angry if you have never felt the magic or have been betrayed.
dan fulaniPriceless jewel..im not talking out of frustration but anger.I still had a little iota of belif in love not until yesterday when a relationship i had so admired crashed.What is love when pple cheat, and hurt eachother.99 percent of men who are married to women they claim they love cheat.women are not exempted too. Dan Fulani,,talking about a man telling me im beautiful and gazing into my eyes with love, i have seen it all and heard it all.Trust me, i have seen un imaginable displays of love abi na luv or lust.But what happens after a while?mennnnnn...love is not worth it..it doesnt exist and is a mere fallacy | Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "emepretty") emepretty at 9-01-2011 01:04 PM (13 years ago) (f) I feel you poster!
thanks dear  | Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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I feel you poster!
thanks dear 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 9-01-2011 01:11 PM (13 years ago) (f) thank u..u make sense
@ emepretty u r right, love exist but only with GOD cos GOD is love , i have never seen true love in man ( :od only love that i know is real agape love dats what u get from ur mother father and a good friend )dey always love u cos dey want something from u , so thumbs up u r 100% RIGHT | Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 9-01-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) (m) that's my opinion.what exists is just mutual understanding.I broke the news to my family that i don't believe in love therefore, they should stop asking me if i have a fiancee...my dad nearly fainted.......anyway...im sick and tired of hearing "im heartbroken" my bf or gf just dumped me..peace out......
well...as long as u r happy wit ur decision, dt's ur cup of tea.
bt whether love exist? YES it does.
those b4 u found it, some after u r enjoying it presently. u can find one too.
bt u hv to understand dat nothing comes easy in life, not even love. | Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 9-01-2011 01:15 PM (13 years ago) (f) @eme.huh?.99% of married men still cheat?.girl take it slow.plenty married good men dey oooo | Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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its gud u said u r writing out of anger. Therefore i advise u to cool off ur anger n come out of it,then and only then dat u wil knw dat love exist | Posted: at 9-01-2011 01:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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