Is it right for lovers to use sex in settlin fights & misunderstandin they face?

Date: 11-11-2008 7:59 pm (15 years ago) | Author: ZEUS
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- at 11-11-2008 07:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Its been wide observed that a great number of lovers do use sex as a medium to make up after a fight, or misunderstanding. most of them do end up realising that sex wasnt really d assurance they needed when they repeatedly find themselves faced with the same problems in the future. i think we shud rather tackle the issues we face through honest conversations;and if possible go for counselling,and throughly help the other advert whatever he or she is passing through. unless we aint truly in love with them.

Posted: at 11-11-2008 07:59 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
- osituga at 11-11-2008 08:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Ummm. not all couples do that..
Posted: at 11-11-2008 08:02 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- tuhyze at 11-11-2008 08:04 PM (15 years ago)
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sometymes it is cool you fight & settle on bed cool men like that................................
Posted: at 11-11-2008 08:04 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- prencess at 11-11-2008 08:17 PM (15 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 11-11-2008 08:17 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chummynwa at 12-11-2008 11:08 AM (15 years ago)
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Is only when the foundation of the relationship is SEX
Posted: at 12-11-2008 11:08 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- osituga at 12-11-2008 11:13 AM (15 years ago)
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Sex Sex Sex Sex Sex..
Posted: at 12-11-2008 11:13 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- sa-fire at 12-11-2008 05:03 PM (15 years ago)
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their relationship is based on sex. leave them to it. just watch them crash n burn.

Posted: at 12-11-2008 05:03 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 12-11-2008 05:10 PM (15 years ago)
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Don't mind them they will give account of all what they've done.....lol

@ sa_fire- sounds as if she's been cheated before
Posted: at 12-11-2008 05:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- eagleseyez at 12-11-2008 05:20 PM (15 years ago)
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stompin out y'all
Posted: at 12-11-2008 05:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 12-11-2008 05:21 PM (15 years ago)
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Rolling out before Sa_fire retaliates
Posted: at 12-11-2008 05:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- sa-fire at 12-11-2008 05:34 PM (15 years ago)
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osi... no need. havent been cheated on before... a guy would be a fool  do dat. jst dont feel dis whole mushy stuff.

Posted: at 12-11-2008 05:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 12-11-2008 10:24 PM (15 years ago)
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as i was about closing the door she pulled my troussses....

@ sa_fire... i trust you can you let me go now?
Posted: at 12-11-2008 10:24 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- elpadroni at 13-11-2008 10:05 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Uby40 on 11-11-2008 07:59 PM
Its been wide observed that a great number of lovers do use sex as a medium to make up after a fight, or misunderstanding. most of them do end up realising that sex wasnt really d assurance they needed when they repeatedly find themselves faced with the same problems in the future. i think we shud rather tackle the issues we face through honest conversations;and if possible go for counselling,and throughly help the other advert whatever he or she is passing through. unless we aint truly in love with them.

Sex right after a fight or break up is the sweetest and most passionate sex a couple could ever have. try it and see. fight with ur girl, break up with her or something, and then make up right after, u'll notice that she'll pay more attention, and arrange u with so much passion, as u've never witnessed before. Wink
Posted: at 13-11-2008 10:05 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- amaikama at 13-11-2008 10:16 AM (15 years ago)
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No!!! sex cannot be used to resolve conflict in homes  Angry It will be a breach of marital vows. each time their is a fight, they all know sex will be what will settle it and would sex settles a man and woman fight? No!!! they will have to come to an agreement on how to settle their differences and not use sex as a tool to settle a fight.
Posted: at 13-11-2008 10:16 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- lacremee at 13-11-2008 10:24 AM (15 years ago)
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when a relationship is built on sex it will definitely sink. uve got 2 define what relationship is and i believe dialogue after brawl or conflict helps to build relationships and not sex.
i had someone saying sex settles conflict then both of u are not ready for each other and i think u are gaming each other
Posted: at 13-11-2008 10:24 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Expresslady at 12-07-2011 04:45 PM (12 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed tired of talking jor
Posted: at 12-07-2011 04:45 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- MissyBarbie at 12-07-2011 05:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Expresslady on 12-07-2011 04:45 PM
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed tired of talking jor
Posted: at 12-07-2011 05:32 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 12-07-2011 06:02 PM (12 years ago)
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IDC

Posted: at 12-07-2011 06:02 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 13-07-2011 04:25 PM (12 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 13-07-2011 04:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 14-07-2011 01:11 PM (12 years ago)
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I dont use sex as a punishment or reward in my r/s.
Posted: at 14-07-2011 01:11 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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